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| Author: | rezrez0 [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 6:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how to make conversations more intimate? |
Hi guys, I have trouble with making the step from conversation to intimacy. The conversation part is not a problem, I feel. I can pick up a conversation and steer it, asking questions, etc. However, then there is the step to body contact, kissing, etc. I know Kino has a lot to do with it but i'm wondering more how to make the conversations themselves more intimate, not just the kinoing. Like what topics do you bring up/mention, basically how do you make the conversations more emotional I guess.. Tips? |
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| Author: | baron_erotique [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 9:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make conversations more intimate? |
This is very corny but it always works for me. During the conversation, I make a surprised look and make it obvious that I'm looking at her eyes. Interrupt the conversation by, "wait, I just noticed how beautiful your eyes are that it could mesmerize me" That opens up options if played right. If you want to escalate, you need to show interest from tips of your conversation, and the body language using seductive eyes and all. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 11:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make conversations more intimate? |
Quote: This is very corny but it always works for me.
The eye contact thing is correct, but I wouldn't recommend so openly announcing such an obvious compliment when you've only just met a girl, especially a really common one she has heard a million times before. Stare into her eyes while she is talking, from one eye to the other, without looking away. The key thing with eye contact is NEVER be the first one to look away. The whole point of eye contact is to build up awkwardness. The tension of awkwardness is good because eventually a girl will want to break the awkwardness, either by looking away (i.e. playing hard to get) or by kissing you. During the conversation, I make a surprised look and make it obvious that I'm looking at her eyes. Interrupt the conversation by, "wait, I just noticed how beautiful your eyes are that it could mesmerize me" Apart from eye contact, you need to touch her within the first 10 seconds of introducing yourself and keep up the touching as much as possible, during the conversation, that way it won't be weird or creepy when you start touching her more intimately later in the conversation, because you've already buttered up her comfort zone by touching her early in the conversation, so she is anticipating your touch and is relaxed abou it. Once you notice her looking back into your eyes and holding your gaze, it's on. Look at her mouth a lot and go in for the kiss. |
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| Author: | Mic the Lick [ Mon Mar 04, 2013 10:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make conversations more intimate? |
The conversation in itself doesnt have to get emotional and interesting, there´s no point. When the convrsation stales out a little you feel the tension between the two of you, which is a good thing. Close proximity and caressing is what you´re looking for, a touch with no meaning behind it makes no diffrence in the interaction so don´t do it. Most of my lays have happened when the conversation becomes a little boring, we then both notice that it would be more fun to focus on being physical, so it naturally happens. Party on boys! |
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