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| Author: | clickngo [ Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Social group of girls who are not dating, how to deal w/.. ? |
Lately, I been getting a few numbers from girls, one from a restaurant. The problem is the women in my social group are not willing to date/not looking for anything(cockteasers) For the past two weeks I have been hanging out with this one woman, 4 years older, eye contacts me a ton at dinner from across the table. I got her number a while back and text her last week asking to go out with me,but she says "we shouldn't see each other, its not a good idea" ?.....Huh, not a good idea to get to know someone better? we have some common interests.......... I kino, and ask open end statements no interview crap. All these girls are flaking on me and my friends. What am I doing wrong guys? It's not just me, I have friends in their 30's and late 20's with jobs, more money/better looks than me and they can't get them either. Maybe the women are broken here? lol |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 12:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social group of girls who are not dating, how to deal w/ |
From your post and your signature statement it looks like your stuck in between being an AFC and a PUA. Which is actually unavoidable. You have a decent idea of game and a decent rap, and now that you can approach and open, your volume is way up but your closing yield isn't good . Super typical. The problem isnt location, although some areas are much better than others, its lack for building enough attraction and value to raise their interest high enough to bite. You basically need to plow through this level by improving your attraction building techniques. When I did this I actually went after fewer woman but had more closes. Your issue isnt trivial, but you just need to grind through it. Sorry for the lack of specific pointers. |
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| Author: | clickngo [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 12:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social group of girls who are not dating, how to deal w/ |
Quote: attraction building techniques Well, I am still in college so not much going on right now. I don't have $$$$$ to buy a house, I have money to go out and do fun things, but not own a house, I am not poor. I have a friend who is rich, still doesn't get women. I think these women are broken here.
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 1:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social group of girls who are not dating, how to deal w/ |
Quote: Quote: attraction building techniques Well, I am still in college so not much going on right now. I don't have $$$$$ to buy a house, I have money to go out and do fun things, but not own a house, I am not poor. I have a friend who is rich, still doesn't get women. I think these women are broken here.It's easier to blame women but the truth is it's you not them.... Come on now. Money has shit to do with getting laid, oh your boy has a ton of money so he'll get laid? Only if he is paying prostitutes. All my friends that were super good with girls had zero money so using that is WRONG! Attraction isn't about having money or buying a house though they are nice bullet points for showing you as attractive, it is more about your body language, character, presence, etc. Detox gave you great advice, even if it's vague. If it's always the girls then you'll never be able to get girls, if it's you however you can learn to adjust your behavior to do better. Ownership of the problem is a big part of success. Working on building more sexual tension and a stronger connection so that sex is unavoidable... her saying things like I don't think it is a good idea means that there isn't enough sexual tension or a strong enough connection. Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 4:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social group of girls who are not dating, how to deal w/ |
OP, who mentioned money or building homes? re-read plz |
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| Author: | clickngo [ Mon Feb 25, 2013 9:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social group of girls who are not dating, how to deal w/ |
The women here want that, they don't want you. They want the better you(money/job/house) |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Feb 25, 2013 10:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social group of girls who are not dating, how to deal w/ |
I am in college and doing just fine myself...? What is with the excuses. I believe detox hit the nail on the head with the attraction bit. The arguments you presented here are framed in a negative light. Change your mindset and change the way you have been doing things. Edit: Detox also made a great point about building your attraction repertoire will result in fewer women but more closes. So, don't be surprised about that when you go through it. Just keep it up and you will be pulling women more often. |
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