I'm glad to present a post I made 5 YEARS AGO!
In this post I was trying to predict what the community will be in the future and motivate people to start a change.
Please excuse my grammar, I was just a kid.
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Original post: post157259.html without the above part.
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The Future of the Seduction community
Friday, Sep 5, 2008
Hi Community,
First of all I want to thanks the guys in the chat that gave me the little push that I needed to write this. (Roads, Hobbit, Crypto, Fraction, PanPan, Risen, Unlimited C, Yillan and Bonita).
You are looking for somethings, that's why you are here, you probably want to improve yourself, you probably want to become better with women, you probably want to be the next Mystery or you just want to improve your social skills. Well lets get things straight...
YOU AREN'T ALONE...
There are many like you... you are in a giant boat full of guys that don't know where to go, you are confused, there is so many material that you don't know where to start, you want to learn everything and you want to become the better PUA in the world.
Well let me tell you something about myself... I have 2 years in the community and well what can I share...?
You have arrived in the Third Generation of the community, you are in the middle of a big change, the community is becoming mainstream, so how do we adapt?
One of the biggest characteristics a PUA should had is Adaptation...
You need to learn to Adapt to situations, to improvise, but in the big picture we have to adapt to the environment we are in... right now, depending on where you live, the community probably is well known by some of them or maybe not... but BELIEVE ME, IT WILL BECOME MAINSTREAM. We are having Reality shows, we now have whole stands in the libraries in the category of self development...
The beginning of an enormous change... but don't be afraid... because YOU will adapt... if we want to succeed we will change. We will become a Generation of Naturals, the unnaturals that become naturals.
The sections of this forum will begin to change, the sections of Body Language, Fashion, Style, Inner game and life style will get bigger and they will start getting most of the attention. Routines will become obsolete and we will find ourselves living a lifestyle than learning techniques.
The changes won't be from AFC to MPUA it will be from unnatural to a complete new Lifestyle and the basis will be Inner Game.
Confidence and more Confidence, we will become smoother, we will become experts in social dynamics, we will be talking experts, we will be flowing in the venues, like rockstars... there will not be openers, a smile and a Hi will open any set... we will not find Bitch shields.... because we will irradiate positive feelings to everyone around us. We will glow...
WE ARE THE FUTURE!! not Mystery, not the methods, not the routines, WE ARE THE FUTURE OF THIS COMMUNITY either we become Social Masters together ... or we are going to crumble....
Use Inner Game...
Reading books of soccer won't make you the best player... you have to practice... GO OUT !!!
Inner game is the relationship between your mind and state with your body. Believe it or not you project how you feel, what you think.
Meditate, know yourself, who are you? what do you like? Find passions...
Your mind is powerful, you will have to believe in yourself... you will have to become yourself!
If I could give you the best advice I can, I will tell you...
Improve all your aspects of your life, develop an interesting and passionate lifestyle and women will join you in your fantastic trip.
You can use PU techniques and knowledge in every field of your life. You can seduce everyone...
You want to improve your inner game.... well everything is in your mind... and your mind will be hunting for pieces of evidence of the reality you want to create... enjoy complements and give complements...
The one that said don't say complements to girls is an ASS!! If you find something unique about someone and you think it deserve a complement go ahead and do it !!
You will create a unique lifestyle that will make girls want to join your reality... You will see life as a journey to be enjoyed.
You know you create your reality... You won't let someone change that.
You can see everything as you want. Because everything is about perspective...
Take a time for yourself...
It will take time... this isn't easy... you might have only 2 months in the community and you might feel discourage. Well my friend don't worry... everyone start like this... is like a game... you can't become a pro in 2 weeks... you have to develop some skills.
Enjoy going out... imagine you are a social magnet... imagine you glow positive energy and SMILE !!!
How to pick up a girl... ?
Hold Eye contact for 1.5 sec and smile...
Smile with your eyes... and with your mouth.
Practice what you like ... and talk about what you like and explain why you like it... !!
Express how you feel... be open, be creative. Write, Draw... Think... Laugh.
Enjoy your life, You only live once, motivate yourself ... make a to do list and start doing it.
Adapt this lifestyle in which you enjoy your life, like yourself, accept yourself, like your job, and women will start to crowd your life.
Do something interesting every day... Learn something new. Make some trips... and learn why people think in one way or another... ASK ... make questions... be kind with everyone.
This post is the first part... it is the introduction to a Lifestyle that will make you (unnatural) a natural...
If you accept the challenge start with this small exercise, post your answers and we will compare and discuss them... (This exercise will help find something about yourself so we can expand this and use it to create your unique lifestyle.)
1. Define yourself in one sentence. (MAX: 15 words)
2. One adjective that define your current state
3. What type of Natural do you want to become. (The bad boy, the charming guy, the rich guy, the arrogant, the smooth, the elegant, the romance guy, the popular) choose one or create your own... but with one basic characteristic.
ACCEPT THE CHALLENGE !
SUCCESS,
FOR YOU,
XFMAN
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I give people what they want to see, without being what they expect. It's a terrible burden to define yourself based on conventional rules and perception. Instead, the image of self that I project to others will vary from person to person based on my intuitions about their character, weeding out the undesirable from those worthy, pulling the puppet strings of my interactions with people without pushing away the ones I may form true bonds with.