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Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:  What's the worst Rejection ever?
So guys with all this fear of rejection that seems to track the forum I wanted to hear the worst possible rejection you guys have experienced…. Now I understand that we pretty much all have heard the “I think you are awesome, but let’s just be friends.” I want to hear 3 different rejections. What I want to hear is more about cold approaches, so if you got slapped, had drinks thrown in your face, a girl said something ridiculously mean.

The goal overall is to realize how over exaggerated rejection really is, I mean how often is it really bad or personal?

1.) I want to hear it. What is the worst Cold Rejection you have ever experienced? How did it effect you?
2.) What is the worst rejection you have ever witnessed? How did the guy react?
3.) What is the worst rejection you have ever heard of? I mean some guy that just gone blown out horribly. How did he react?

This sounds crazy but honestly I don’t see rejection as that bad of an experience, it is honestly a necessary component of getting good with women.

I even started a facebook page called Worst Rejections Ever Experienced check it out guys brand new created in the last hour. I think this could be an interesting outlook on rejection and help a lot of people get passed their fear of rejection or discomfort with it.

I’ll go first (keep in mind I’ve always had charisma so I don’t experience anything rough):

1.) A girl I approached at the bar once got very personal after I approached her. I am goofy guy that wears a bit of color in everything I wear. Well this girl just started in on my clothes, I tend to wear a bit of a hip hop style, told me I was a total tool. She said I lacked a sense of style and was super creepy with how I approached her…. Didn’t affect me one bit, I don’t base my value on another person’s opinion and so it was like wow, glad I learned that about her right away.

2.) I once watched a guy walk up to a girl. He walked up with plenty of confidence(false bravado really), and created some excuse to talk to the girl, then the girl looked him straight in the eye. She paused for a second to give him a moment, then as he tried pick up on her he said something she apparently didn’t enjoy and reared back and gave him 5 to the eyes while saying firmly and loudly "get away from me you creeper". This dude looked broken, I mean who the fuck slaps a guy? As many times as I’ve been out and around the bar I can still count on one hand how many guys I’ve seen slapped. He was a bit hurt, I have the feeling he was professing more than he should of, looked a bit needy.

3.) The worst rejection I’ve ever heard of was when a guy started hitting on this girl, he’d been making his rounds and honestly this girl just wasn’t taking his shit. When I heard the story they talked about how this girl just seemed like a stuck up Cunt, basically this dude walked up to what he felt was the sexiest creature in the bar. The girl without even allow him to open his mouth said “Sorry I don’t care to talk to ugly annoying looking people. You have no sense of style, look at your outfit. Do I seem like a girl that would be interested in a guy like you?” The guy just laughed it off unaffected and said “Well good to find out you’re a cunt now, I wouldn’t want to find that out after getting to know you.” The girl flipped out on him, knocked his drink out of his hand, and started swinging on that guy. She was pissed, but he didn’t even care, just laughed at her bull shit attitude. While he was rejected he somehow won regardless of how crazy the woman went on him, to the point of a physical assault.

Now guys I’m not saying those aren’t horrible reactions but honestly how bad is rejection? In my opinion not that bad, I mean as long as you are respectful and approach with self-confidence in a nonthreatening manner you’ll simply receive I’m not interested body language. Honestly you look at these stories and they are all pretty funny overall, and with self-confidence they don't affect you and you honestly lose NOTHING in the interaction.

So what are your worst rejection stories?

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 8:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
I actually saw a guy get lit on fire before. He was really drunk and trying to dance up on this girl who was continually pushing him away. He kept invading her space so she started holding her cigarette up so he'd make contact with the cherry and his shirt started to catch on fire.

Then I was with this group on a party bus bar hopping. One of the girls is this hot little dancer with an ass you could bounce a dime off of. She looked about 18 but was over 21. She had a boyfriend and was out with him and all his friends along with the rest of our group. We were leaving the bar and apparently she was the last one out. This determined little fucker was following her, all over her like stink on shit. As she approached us she was like "Hey,this guy won't leave me alone." And literally like 7 dudes all stopped and turned towards her and took like one step and the dude just took off running back to the bar like a scared little bitch. It was so hilarious.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 9:05 pm ]
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I actually saw a guy get lit on fire before. He was really drunk and trying to dance up on this girl who was continually pushing him away. He kept invading her space so she started holding her cigarette up so he'd make contact with the cherry and his shirt started to catch on fire.

Then I was with this group on a party bus bar hopping. One of the girls is this hot little dancer with an ass you could bounce a dime off of. She looked about 18 but was over 21. She had a boyfriend and was out with him and all his friends along with the rest of our group. We were leaving the bar and apparently she was the last one out. This determined little fucker was following her, all over her like stink on shit. As she approached us she was like "Hey,this guy won't leave me alone." And literally like 7 dudes all stopped and turned towards her and took like one step and the dude just took off running back to the bar like a scared little bitch. It was so hilarious.
LOL- Those stories are both hilarious!

The first one is awesome, I mean who the fuck doesn't get the point by some point? It also proves the point of don't go picking up chicks shit faced, you won't understand the situation properly.

The Second is just a product of a guy being a total fucking creepy bastard, if you are stalking a girl trying to leave you need to get the point. You guys making him run back to the bar like a little bitch is hilarious.

Two things that you learn from both of them, don't be over responsive! Don't keep trying when the interest is obviously not there!

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  UrkelHumpsKateUpton [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 4:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
Rejection is all in your head, but it isn't imaginary. An imaginary fear is something like the boogey man or a monster under your bed. The pain of rejection all comes from how you percieve the situation. This sounds simple, just think of the situation differently then rejection wouldn't be a problem, but we are wired throughout our whole lives to look down on rejection. So no matter what you may tell yourself you still feel may feel slightly negatively.

Chances are you will experiences your fair share of rejection in the game. When you first learn you have to crawl before you can walk. Also, a lot of the methods are numbers game and are just a matter of risk that allow rejection. However, if there were a way to develop your skills without trial and error that would reduce a lot of the rejections.

The biggest problem with rejection is how may have a lasting effect on you. What do I mean by that, I mean if something happens that is particularly traumatic then it may stay with you and affect your emotional state significantly when you approach women. I thought that slap example was a good one. That guy won't forget that.

1.) Girls have yelled at me before and given me dirty looks.

I think the most important thing is try not to take none of this to heart. None of these people really know you.


The worst kind of rejections in my mind 1.) One's you are heavily invested in like a first love or a fiance. 2. Something humiliating like a girl hooking with a guy after turning you down. 3.) Something that will be rubbed in your face like getting rejected by a girl in a small community
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 7:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
Stand up guy,

You missed the point... I don't consider rejection negative at all. Don't take the thread off track.

I want to hear the worst rejections for all those guys that think they have had it bad from a cold approach situation.

The point is if you think rejection is bad you got no clue, that is the point. Rejection simply put isn't that bad.

Either leave stories about rejection or leave the thread.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  User13247 [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 12:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
Before I ever heard about PUA, I once approached a girl thinking that she was eyeballing me:

Me: 'Hi, I'm [my name], who are you?'
Her: 'Hi, I'm [don't remember]. Why are you talking to me?'
Me: 'I thought you were eyeballing me.'
Her: 'Why would I do that?'
Me: 'Okay, I guess I was mistaken.'

And I left. Not really a hard rejection or a great story, but failing a (in retrospect very simple) shit test so grandiosely felt awful. And she wasn't even that hot! Ah well, what can you say, it was a learning experience.
Author:  UrkelHumpsKateUpton [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 2:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
You need to calm down dude. Are you going to take your ball and go home to? If you only want story responses, as I remember there's a field report section...
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 5:56 pm ]
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You need to calm down dude. Are you going to take your ball and go home to? If you only want story responses, as I remember there's a field report section...
I ain't upset, just making you aware of what you were doing. Perhaps you aren't aware but I'm very direct(as you've seen in my posts). You are still missing the point of this thread, don't take the thread off track Please(is that better?).

I don't want field reports, this is literally to teach a lesson about how most rejections aren't really that crazy most are simply a lack of interest, not some harsh ridiculousness.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
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Before I ever heard about PUA, I once approached a girl thinking that she was eyeballing me:

Me: 'Hi, I'm [my name], who are you?'
Her: 'Hi, I'm [don't remember]. Why are you talking to me?'
Me: 'I thought you were eyeballing me.'
Her: 'Why would I do that?'
Me: 'Okay, I guess I was mistaken.'

And I left. Not really a hard rejection or a great story, but failing a (in retrospect very simple) shit test so grandiosely felt awful. And she wasn't even that hot! Ah well, what can you say, it was a learning experience.
Yeah not too bad, before you understood a great mindset for rejection it can hurt.... but as you said it is simply a learning experience and shouldn't give you a negative feeling, just let you learn ok, perhaps that was a bad way to go about things, or realize damn glad I realized her behavior before I learned more about her.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  _Intrigue_ [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 9:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
I'm still in High-School (Final Year) so I witness rejection on a daily basis in many of my interactions.

Guys who already know girls, get rejected because they try to suddenly make a move after never making one in the past. The most brutal rejections I see is just a girl's body language closing up, or she would look at her friends with a "Help Me" face so everyone but the guy can see.

As for my own worst experience, I extracted a girl from a group of 20 people. We talked, connected and shared some laughs. I didn't physically escalate. (The problem.) So I chatted to her via text later the evening, made my intentions clear through a playful message and then she told me she didn't want us to go there, she sees me as a friend. That's the most brutal I've experienced thus far as I fell for the girl quite hard in the hour we were alone.

I want to go beyond the "Worst that can happen" scenario and go just a little deeper. The issue we're facing with rejection is that we take it up very personally. If you base your happiness on the reactions you get from others you'll never be happy in every circumstance. If your self worth is what it should be, her reaction shouldn't make a difference in how you perceive yourself. Don't base your value on what others think.

That's my take
-Intrigue
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 10:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
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I'm still in High-School (Final Year) so I witness rejection on a daily basis in many of my interactions.

Guys who already know girls, get rejected because they try to suddenly make a move after never making one in the past. The most brutal rejections I see is just a girl's body language closing up, or she would look at her friends with a "Help Me" face so everyone but the guy can see.

As for my own worst experience, I extracted a girl from a group of 20 people. We talked, connected and shared some laughs. I didn't physically escalate. (The problem.) So I chatted to her via text later the evening, made my intentions clear through a playful message and then she told me she didn't want us to go there, she sees me as a friend. That's the most brutal I've experienced thus far as I fell for the girl quite hard in the hour we were alone.

I want to go beyond the "Worst that can happen" scenario and go just a little deeper. The issue we're facing with rejection is that we take it up very personally. If you base your happiness on the reactions you get from others you'll never be happy in every circumstance. If your self worth is what it should be, her reaction shouldn't make a difference in how you perceive yourself. Don't base your value on what others think.

That's my take
-Intrigue

Agreed about the issue with rejection being taken it personally, but honestly I want to hear worst rejections because people seem so terrified by it, they seem to be so motivated by fear rather than desire for the woman.... I mean how on earth can you feel you had a bad rejection when that guy got his shirt lit on fire?

I was more focused on cold approach to get guys past approach anxiety a little easier. Most rejections are our own fault by not applying the proper energy to the circumstance. But most of also will never be creepy enough to consistently be over responsive when they aren't interested.

Egos are overrated, I try and maintain an ego awareness at all times.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  UrkelHumpsKateUpton [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 4:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
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You need to calm down dude. Are you going to take your ball and go home to? If you only want story responses, as I remember there's a field report section...
I ain't upset, just making you aware of what you were doing. Perhaps you aren't aware but I'm very direct(as you've seen in my posts). You are still missing the point of this thread, don't take the thread off track Please(is that better?).

I don't want field reports, this is literally to teach a lesson about how most rejections aren't really that crazy most are simply a lack of interest, not some harsh ridiculousness.

Peace and Love,

Vic

You're a jackass! You have no pride and no self-respect. And you want to teach somebody? And you want to teach somebody? Rejection is good? Rejection is good? rejection is good? that is the dumbest shit I ever heard in my fucking life. You have no pride. you have no pride. You have no pride! If rejection is good so is losing. Go congradulate the 49ners! they better than the ravens. Given them a fucking trophy.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 5:52 am ]
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You're a jackass! You have no pride and no self-respect. And you want to teach somebody? And you want to teach somebody? Rejection is good? Rejection is good? rejection is good? that is the dumbest shit I ever heard in my fucking life. You have no pride. you have no pride. You have no pride! If rejection is good so is losing. Go congradulate the 49ners! they better than the ravens. Given them a fucking trophy.
You still haven't found the point yet.... REJECTION ISN'T THAT BAD. Don't fear it respond to it. That is the lesson. You attack me on me being personal yet I was being observant, calm down killer. Didn't you get the apology I sent you last week on the forum?

Again Rejection is inevitable, it isn't that bad dude. Stop making it out to be a big ordeal, it isn't good to be rejected but you can use every experience as a positive one regardless of it being a negative result.

Please stop taking the thread off track now sir.

Back on track now.... To teach folks rejection isn't anything to fear. Look at how shitty you have to act to have a bad story.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  meetjoeblack [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 8:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the worst Rejection ever?
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I'm still in High-School (Final Year) so I witness rejection on a daily basis in many of my interactions.

Guys who already know girls, get rejected because they try to suddenly make a move after never making one in the past. The most brutal rejections I see is just a girl's body language closing up, or she would look at her friends with a "Help Me" face so everyone but the guy can see.

As for my own worst experience, I extracted a girl from a group of 20 people. We talked, connected and shared some laughs. I didn't physically escalate. (The problem.) So I chatted to her via text later the evening, made my intentions clear through a playful message and then she told me she didn't want us to go there, she sees me as a friend. That's the most brutal I've experienced thus far as I fell for the girl quite hard in the hour we were alone.

I want to go beyond the "Worst that can happen" scenario and go just a little deeper. The issue we're facing with rejection is that we take it up very personally. If you base your happiness on the reactions you get from others you'll never be happy in every circumstance. If your self worth is what it should be, her reaction shouldn't make a difference in how you perceive yourself. Don't base your value on what others think.

That's my take
-Intrigue

Agreed about the issue with rejection being taken it personally, but honestly I want to hear worst rejections because people seem so terrified by it, they seem to be so motivated by fear rather than desire for the woman.... I mean how on earth can you feel you had a bad rejection when that guy got his shirt lit on fire?

I was more focused on cold approach to get guys past approach anxiety a little easier. Most rejections are our own fault by not applying the proper energy to the circumstance. But most of also will never be creepy enough to consistently be over responsive when they aren't interested.

Egos are overrated, I try and maintain an ego awareness at all times.

Peace and Love,

Vic
A girl grabbed my dick in my teens. She burst into laughter, said it was so small, and told her friends. :( Pretty embarrassing. I know after all this time, it shouldn't bug me but, she got me good. It fucked me up for escalating. Even still, I am a bit self conscious. If life isn't hard enough? The worst part, she was such a huge slut, lots of dick by mid teens, and fisted even. She would be like sticking your dick in a bowl of warm water. Not caring is sometimes best.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 7:46 pm ]
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A girl grabbed my dick in my teens. She burst into laughter, said it was so small, and told her friends. :( Pretty embarrassing. I know after all this time, it shouldn't bug me but, she got me good. It fucked me up for escalating. Even still, I am a bit self conscious. If life isn't hard enough? The worst part, she was such a huge slut, lots of dick by mid teens, and fisted even. She would be like sticking your dick in a bowl of warm water. Not caring is sometimes best.
Yeah that is a pretty rough. If a girl got fisted though it's not your dick that is small it's her pussy that is loose. Sheez, she needs a fucken elephant cock to please her. I'm not that big, just average and I have as it was put to me "exceeded their fantasies", so I wouldn't trip on size.

Plus if she grabbed you non-erect than it's really no big deal, there are showers and there are growers, some guys begin big but don't get bigger, other guys are small flaccid but good size otherwise.

While some women love cervix stimulation most don't, for most it is unbearable and painful... That said unless the woman is very tall cervix stimulation is still only about 3-4 inches in (about an average size dick is more than enough), rarely 5-7 inches and that is the average size cock. It's not really as much about having a huge dick but so much as knowing how to use it. Most women have told me that the man didn't know how to use it correctly and just hurt them immensely, they just wanted it to be over.

The g-spot is only an 1.5 inches in on most women, and as long as you hit the right angle you'll hit it repeatedly. It's not difficult.

Hope that helped.... You don't need to be 8 inches to please a woman, just know how to please her. One woman even told me the best sex she ever had was with a guy with a 3 inch dick.... And she was well practiced. She got engaged to him over it, while most women probably wouldn't agree it shows you how good you can be with the right "motion in the ocean".

Peace and Love,

Vic
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