PUA Forum :: How to socialize?

Stay away from fluff talk. Basically talking about the generic questions and pointless boring questions. Try to be genuine about what your interested in knowing about them and always try and throw a little joke or easy going comment out.

Sometimes its as easy as just saying hi...I am "name"...

Try to poke fun at things going on like maybe a girl has to much perfume on or makeup, or someone is dressed funny, or the teach is confusing everyone. Its difficult to say what to talk about really...you just need to be attentive and train yourself to run with whats going on around you. Work on being witty with your comments but be careful your not Corny.

Author:	aenginsoy [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 11:49 pm ]
Post subject:	How to socialize?
I dont have a problem with openers and with the other stuff but the thing is when Im new at a place (first day of new class and etc) I just know what to do. Usually I ask who isgoing for a fag and start to build a rapport there but I dont know what to do if somebody is not smoking. Thanks.

Author:	Booty Book [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 12:05 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to socialize?
Stay away from fluff talk. Basically talking about the generic questions and pointless boring questions. Try to be genuine about what your interested in knowing about them and always try and throw a little joke or easy going comment out. Sometimes its as easy as just saying hi...I am "name"... Try to poke fun at things going on like maybe a girl has to much perfume on or makeup, or someone is dressed funny, or the teach is confusing everyone. Its difficult to say what to talk about really...you just need to be attentive and train yourself to run with whats going on around you. Work on being witty with your comments but be careful your not Corny.

Author:	RollTheDice [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to socialize?
Quote: Stay away from fluff talk. Basically talking about the generic questions and pointless boring questions. Try to be genuine about what your interested in knowing about them and always try and throw a little joke or easy going comment out. Sometimes its as easy as just saying hi...I am "name"... Try to poke fun at things going on like maybe a girl has to much perfume on or makeup, or someone is dressed funny, or the teach is confusing everyone. Its difficult to say what to talk about really...you just need to be attentive and train yourself to run with whats going on around you. Work on being witty with your comments but be careful your not Corny. Don't bring yourself up on other people's flaws. That is weak behavior. Other tips "booty book" gave you is decent.

Author:	Malcolm Thomas [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 6:49 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to socialize?
Quote: I dont have a problem with openers and with the other stuff but the thing is when Im new at a place (first day of new class and etc) I just know what to do. Usually I ask who isgoing for a fag and start to build a rapport there but I dont know what to do if somebody is not smoking. Thanks. Focus on getting to know people and learn about the people around you. Find out things about their past, their likes, dislikes, fears, hopes. This will make it extremely easy for you to socialize with people around you.

Author:	grizzler [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 7:26 pm ]
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I've noticed a difference in socializing with guys and with girls. Usually with guys all you need is a common interest (football, cars, technology etc), which girls it's more personal. A girls favourite subject is herself. So ask her about herself, a good opening question is "so what have you been up to?". Ask her what she did last weekend or whatever, get her talking about her life and playfully tease her about anything silly she did. When she starts opening up to you about her life she will feel closer to you.

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Author:	Trotyl [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 8:58 pm ]
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A quick glimpse when you walk into the room to spot the "cool" people. The relax ones that seem fun to hang around or just a couple of chicks. Simply go sit next to them (not nearby, like two seats away, that's creepy) and ask them what class it is (joke about joining a wrong class earlier maybe) or whatever opener you'd like to use. You'll be surprised how easy it is to get an interaction going with other students. As a motivator you can think about how much easier you're making your classes when you just know people. Try to provide as well as take. For example if I know something about the subjects I just tell them I've had it before or I know where to get useful stuff for your course. On campus I don't open often because everyone's moving around all the time, but there you can just straight up talk to people. Opening girls like any other time and as for guys you could tell them look like cool dudes and would like to get some tips on activities or parties, something like that. Or just join a frat or club or something. You'll make tons of friends when you actually sign up for social clubs. And they usually have their own parties as well!

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