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Author:  insanemadman1990 [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 8:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfriend
Ok, so as I said in the title I have somewhat of a moral dilemma. I have strict personal rules on gaming girls who are in relationships. But as I'm sure you know sometimes you meet a girl and both click and she becomes more than just another set. So basically my question is, have you ever been in this situation and how did you deql with it? And if you did "steal" her, how did it turn out and how did you go about getting her away from the boyfriend?

Peace!
Jon
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 9:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
Hot girls are ALWAYS at least "kind of" seeing someone.
Author:  legend12 [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 3:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
Well I had a similar situation when I was a big AFC. I went for it. Didn't get the girl of course and she's dating with my best friend. I think that if the boyfriend is a friend of yours, don't go for it because bros before hoes :D
Author:  wilmeister [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 4:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
My first girlfriend ever was excactly like this case :)

it took me 3 months to get her :P constantly meeting, nearly kissing (i'm talking hours of lips milimiters away from etchother :p, biggest sexual tensions of my life, blue balls all the way :D).
it was only when i said, i can't do this anymore, you have to choose, its me or him, she first broke my heart, and 2 days later came crawling back and we where togeather for 9 of the most epic months of my life ;)

i still don't regret a second of that entire year, and if you are shure you can offer her more then her boyfriend, or have a stronger connection, go for it! :) my reasons are mostly : if i can have her, that means the other guy ain't treating her right/ satisfying her enough! ;)

I agree with : if the guy is not a good friend of yours, there is no bro code :) , els its always bro's over hoes, anytime anywhere anyplace.
Author:  insanemadman1990 [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 9:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
Thanks guys.
Interesting story Wilmeister, glad it all worked out in the end! Yh always bros before hoes, if her bf was a friend i wouldn't even go think of going there. Peace!
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
Any relationship born of infidelity wreaks of future infidelity.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 1:38 am ]
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Well if you can do "steal her", think about how the next guy is going to "steal her". I have "stolen" girls but some of the time I didn't even know about it. Kinda scares me a little when a thought like that comes into mind. Up to you what you want to do with your life and time.
Author:  johnchangmai [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
I have always held with notion that shit happens.

For example, why would a famous 22 year old actress cheat on R patz with a guy who is 42 ?
While going out with good looking actor ?
Hugh grant , getting done for banging a ho, while going out with liz hurley.

It is always about chemistry, etc

It is always the same on here.People are quick to highjack the morale high ground and always say bro's before ho's.
But it all boils down to do you want to fuck her and does she want to fuck you.

I personally would not bang my younger friends birds,ex birds etc because i know it would mess with there head.

But if i don't know the guy and perhaps no kids are involved and blah blah blah, well..............what the hell.

I have always been the bad guy, so it's in my nature, but i'm not some heartless cunt that would wreck a family.
Well that's what i like to believe.

But shit happens, pre meditated or not.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 11:47 pm ]
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Quote:
I have always held with notion that shit happens.

For example, why would a famous 22 year old actress cheat on R patz with a guy who is 42 ?
While going out with good looking actor ?
Hugh grant , getting done for banging a ho, while going out with liz hurley.

It is always about chemistry, etc

It is always the same on here.People are quick to highjack the morale high ground and always say bro's before ho's.
But it all boils down to do you want to fuck her and does she want to fuck you.

I personally would not bang my younger friends birds,ex birds etc because i know it would mess with there head.

But if i don't know the guy and perhaps no kids are involved and blah blah blah, well..............what the hell.

I have always been the bad guy, so it's in my nature, but i'm not some heartless cunt that would wreck a family.
Well that's what i like to believe.

But shit happens, pre meditated or not.

Life is all about building relationships if you are out and about ruining them expect your future to hold the same experience, ruined relationships.

I know what it is like to sleep with women who are in relationships and honestly I have ruined worlds, I've felt HORRIBLE for so long, even though I tried to avoid it a few times (didn't know other times).

I agree shit happens but are you a self-confident man with complete control of yourself or some guy that simply can't control himself and thus ruins tons and tons of good experiences for a moment of serotonin only to feel like shit until your next temporary buzz where you fuck things up again?

If you want to go around fucking your friend's girlfriend because you want to go ahead, enjoy an unhappy life surrounded with nothing but loneliness. Yes happiness is directly linked to having good relationships, not related to getting laid 1000s of times. Enjoy your temp happiness then fall back into your endless sadness, but don't forget to enjoy what you've done to yourself.

Your lack of personal self-control will sabotage many aspects of your life for a what if it is great 6-8 hour sex binge? What after that? NOTHING and then say a relationship is born out of it, do you expect her to stay faithful or once again act on that emotion where she lacks self-control?

Again I say "Any relationship born of infidelity wreaks of future infidelity."

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  johnchangmai [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
Again I say "Any relationship born of infidelity wreaks of future infidelity."

Well i'm not going to agree with this.

You may have wrecked relationships but i haven't.

I think this needs to be cleared up and explained in minor detail.

1. Fistly this is a sensative subject that is far from black and white. I'm sure you would agree.
2. Infidelity can occur and bring about a change in a good way.
3. most relationships end due to financial issues, not infidelity.
4. Really happily married people rarely stray, it's has to be said.

Having read your reply again i can only assume under certain circumstances it would be ill advised to have an affair under certain conditions, What ever they are.

As my original thread, shit happens.

You keep up the noble work, but it will wear you out my friend. That pride will wear you out and by taking the morale high ground on a debate, will equally be pointless.

If the guy wants to bang his mates girlfriend, well who are we to say YAY or NAY.
The responsible answer you have offered.
My point is shit happens. (so he bangs her)
In truth we don't know what will happen.
In may well be you are right and it all goes horribly wrong.
But maybe something good my come out of it.
Either way it is not for us to tell him what to do.

At the end of the day there is a thing called CHOICE.
Author:  peiper [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 1:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
If she cheats on him with you, do not try to have a relationship with her. Its just a bad idea. Reserve you relationship slot for women with more class.

As far as fucking her goes, thats really a question you have to ask yourself. No one here holds your exact level of morality, or holds the same stance on different relationship points.

I don't honestly have a problem fucking a dudes girlfriend. I see it as him not doing his job right, and her being forced to look elsewhere. I realize it would absolutely suck for him, but i would hope that he would learn from it and become more of a man. perhaps find PUA....

Realize, however, that i do not take the moral high ground on most issues. I think life is much more fun this way. I have a select group of people that i treat with the utmost respect, and hold them very close to me, but the rest of society idgaf about.

Once again, you call dude. no one here can make it for you
Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
If I don't know the guy and I want to fuck her, I will do it if I can (rarely happens for me though lol.) I wouldn't have a relationship with her though, one of my friends seems to have a "thing" for girls with boyfriends, he is ALWAYS trying to steal someone and when he gets them he ends up in a toxic, horrible relationship that completely fucks him up or she cheats on him.

I am curious about his game though, he is overweight, smokes like a chimney and yet is STEALING 7s, 8s and even a 9 before from their boyfriends.
Author:  ilikenamitha [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 1:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Moral Dilemma. Gaming (stealing) someone elses girlfrien
It's not something I would do.

If two people enter a relationship, it's not for me to break it up.

That said, as cheating is inevitable maybe strict monogamy or even exclusivity doesn't work.
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