I have never been one for new years resolutions, they are one of two things for me: giving up smoking or do more exercise. Both of which I throw out after about an hour so this year im going down a different route, im going to not give a fuck! Ironic no?
My resolution will be to write a list of ten things I will give a fuck about, eg paying bills, sex, holidays, mental and physical fitness etc (the essentials for a happy modern day life) and put it up on my wall. Outside of those ten things my life will be "give a fuck" free. I cant afford a car this year? So fucking what, ill get the bus. I missed the bus, fuck it I only give a fuck about my list. You see what im getting at? I have spent the last 24 years of my life collecting and subscribing meanings to the most bizarre things like how people perceive me, what my outfit says about me, will I have enough cash to but myself a car next month? With the relative shortness of a human beings life do these things really matter? Im now thinking they dont...
Of course a life has to have direction and drive hence the list, but people are so distracted by the bedizenments of this world that they miss the whole picture. They concentrate on the little flickering white speck in the corner of the cinema screen but miss the important plot thread of the movie. Well no more for me
I only bring this up after reading this online today - http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/12/p ... nice-guys/
It got me thinking, how do some mens lives become so centralised around one women? What is it that makes them become such a slave to that pussy that they are willing to give up their dignity, their morals and their senses for "her"? Oneitus..
Of course the answer is wanting to spread the seed, sex.
So for those of you who post anything that could be titled, "im in the friend zone halp!" shut the fuck up, read that article and stop lying to yourself and that one women you think is so fucking special! Write a list of what you want and add to it "dont be that guy again!".
Merry Christmas and a happy new year everyone
