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Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Dec 14, 2012 2:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs SUCK
The Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs SUCK!

First off, there’s a distinction I make that is often more instructive than the inner game / outer game distinction:

Fundamentally, there are 2 aspects to look at when trying to improve your game:
1. Everything you do before, between, and after an approach
2. What you do during an approach itself.

For most guys, (1) is actually 90% of the ‘journey.’ This is everything from going to the gym, eating right, dressing well, getting a fulfilling career, making friends, travelling, reading, playing team sports, cultivating a positive mindset, and so on. If the vast majority of this side of things is handled, chances are women are already entering your life and are probably already attracted to you – it’s just a matter of putting yourself out there a bit more and maybe learning some mechanics / ‘technique’ of how to approach more effectively.

(2) Is probably 10% or less of the equation. That is to say – if part (1) is not yet handled to a sufficient enough degree (e.g. you have no social life, no job, are severely depressed, or significantly overweight) then you can master the mechanics of the perfect approach precisely, and still not achieve the success you would hope for. Conversely, it also means...

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Author:  puaninja [ Fri Dec 14, 2012 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
Despite the shameless self-promotion, I agree. You have to have complete well-rounded inner and outer game.
Author:  Mr. Marville [ Fri Dec 14, 2012 3:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
bullshit man.
from 20 to my 25 I was a bloody machine. lots of uninterrupted martial art training, read tons of books, from Dostoyevski to De Tocqueville to Montesquieu and even some more romantic literary works, built a political career, did confident, excellent inspirational public speaking, wrote a book, did two master degrees and worked as a teacher.

but it is as my friend Ann said I guess. girls dream of a guy who lives Epically, beyond the mainstream, and be carried along by his passion and fire and intelligence like a sweeping river. But then, she said, they long for the mediocrity that dwells irrevocably in their souls, and distance themselves from him, and date some dweeb that they can lord over just by the threat of withholding him their pussy.

Our convenience society has obsoleted heroes and geniuses, and women thrive in the superficiality of our dying civilisation.
Author:  puaninja [ Fri Dec 14, 2012 4:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
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Our convenience society has obsoleted heroes and geniuses, and women thrive in the superficiality of our dying civilisation.
Awesome!

I agree that men have by and large been emasculated in our society, but it doesn't change the fact that women will still be attracted to men who have well rounded game. They may not stay attracted, and eventually turn towards emasculated men that they can more easily manipulate, but they will almost always pursue that bad boy, tall, great looking, successful, wealthy, mythical-golden-unicorn-of-man image that the memes of society have implanted in their brains.
Author:  Mr. Marville [ Fri Dec 14, 2012 4:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
PUA Ninja, the truth is that until 28 they hang out with Jamal who skips school and steals scooters and goes to crazy parties. Meanwhile they laugh and humiliate Eugene who studies finance.

Then at 28 Jamal gets imprisoned or unemployed or addicted to drugs or becomes a street cleaner. They switch to Eugene who they have conditioned into mind slavery and will now buy them jewellry just because he is so happy to finally have a girlfriend.

One man loses his youth, the other one his future, but the girl enjoys the best of both.

Women dont fight in the great revolutions. They just hook up with the chief leader who wins. Like the alpha female of the chimpanzee will leave the alpha male if he loses control and mate the new leader. Opportunists by genetic make up.

Except in our civilisation everyone survives. Welfare, machines that think for us, even make our foods, no natural enemies left. Intelligent people worry about their financial future, postpone making babies. Those who dont care, procreate the fastest. Natural selection no longer applies and the "alpha males" are no longer Aristotles and Newtons, but P Diddies and Justin Biebers. PUA just teaches people to imitate the shallowness celebrated in mainstream culture.

EDIT -- BY THE WAY PUA NINJA DO YOU MEAN EMASCULATE OR EFFEMINATE?
Author:  puaninja [ Fri Dec 14, 2012 7:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
Mr. Marville, I meant whichever one means to turn men into little bitches;)

I agree, PUA is an understanding of the underlying elements that are involved in the battle of the sexes, and a strategy which allows men to win the battle. It's understanding human nature and the selection process, and the strategy is basically using douchebaggery in all its glory to win over women.
Author:  Mr. Marville [ Fri Dec 14, 2012 8:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
It is as you say: Men are being turned into little bitches. Nowadays they shave their chest hairs, put on facial creams, and wear their underwear all the way down their butt, and even wear pink underwear. Faggotry is supposed to be attractive to females nowadays.
Author:  .Chaos. [ Sat Dec 15, 2012 5:15 pm ]
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In response to OP I also have to call bullshit.

You're 9:1 ratio just doesn't stand up to the facts. How do you explain PUAs picking up girls on dancefloors with minimal verbal communication and then bringing them home for a SNL? How much can the girl really learn about what you include in point 1 in that amount of time? It's not like she's going to inspect your bank balance before she sleeps with you.

Also nearly everything in point 1 can be substituted by telegraphing genuine life ambition even if you have much yet to achieve before you are happy.

On hitting the gym and sports - I think this is really important for the individual man, it'll give confidence and a stronger sense of masculinity. But it doesn't necessarily mean you'll be more successful with woman. I know guys who pump iron all the time and have minimal success and I know complete wimps who have lots of success.

I think the ratio really is more 50:50 between inner game and outer game. And also you can't succeed by just mastering one of them. Not in the long term anyway.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Sat Dec 15, 2012 5:25 pm ]
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Always enjoy reading your post Ryan, keep it up.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Dec 15, 2012 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
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they long for the mediocrity that dwells irrevocably in their souls, and distance themselves from him, and date some dweeb that they can lord over just by the threat of withholding him their pussy.
First off, you can't generalise anything for ALL women. It's true that MANY women settle for an average choad, but that's because most women are pretty average themselves. However, if you want an exceptional woman, then you need to work every day to make yourself exceptional too!
Author:  Mr. Marville [ Sun Dec 16, 2012 7:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
That's all shit man. People barely got what it takes to change, or improve. I wrote over a hundred of posts on that stuff here. Let's just stick to one personal example.

Recently I have been hanging out with a very influential young woman. She was texting me the other day but alas I could not meet her because I had political business to attend to and had to return home to be there in time the next day. She's brilliant though, internationally well known for her expertise on a certain field, and gifted in languages as well as mathematics.

She briefly mentioned her ex a few times, but I am sure that if I had gone into this, it would turn out he was just some average dweeb who smokes pot, and is not that great of a lover. Because that's how it always turns out.

This crap about the malleability of man . . . People only change under extreme pressure. Not under "do as you wish." People lose to their own inertia and girls dig that because we live in a dying society.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Tue Dec 18, 2012 1:39 pm ]
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...but it is as my friend Ann said I guess. girls dream of a guy who lives Epically, beyond the mainstream, and be carried along by his passion and fire and intelligence like a sweeping river. But then, she said, they long for the mediocrity that dwells irrevocably in their souls, and distance themselves from him, and date some dweeb that they can lord over just by the threat of withholding him their pussy...
I think your friend Ann's observation applies to the masculine type of woman. Feminine types still go for the guy who lives epically. It's just that some guys who live epically are too busy to read the signs and exploit these signs to their great advantage or, in another light, that epic guy is chasing the masculine, dominant types.

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Author:  Mr. Marville [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
Nah, this is nonsense. 99% of women today are opportunistic, whimsical, flaky, fussy, frigid, conceited, unreliable. All of this could be lived with, if they weren't so horrible at the art of conversation. In addition, they perform quite poorly in the art of flirting as well. The balance between the sexes and the polarity is totally destabilized. Women nowadays won't be able to recognize a real man when they see one, because they are too busy bitching about how their lives are a mess and have no clue how to organise a direction for their future. They are incapable of attachment and commitment even if they are religious and claim to maintain conservative life values. Romance novel culture and Hollywood style teenage feelgood comedies rule over all and shape their narcissist minds. In my life I wrote a combined total of researches, essays, forum posts and articles on this that would amount to at least 2500 pages times new roman 12.
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 1:56 pm ]
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Nah, this is nonsense. 99% of women today are opportunistic, whimsical, flaky, fussy, frigid, conceited, unreliable. All of this could be lived with, if they weren't so horrible at the art of conversation. In addition, they perform quite poorly in the art of flirting as well. The balance between the sexes and the polarity is totally destabilized. Women nowadays won't be able to recognize a real man when they see one, because they are too busy bitching about how their lives are a mess and have no clue how to organise a direction for their future. They are incapable of attachment and commitment even if they are religious and claim to maintain conservative life values. Romance novel culture and Hollywood style teenage feelgood comedies rule over all and shape their narcissist minds. In my life I wrote a combined total of researches, essays, forum posts and articles on this that would amount to at least 2500 pages times new roman 12.
Exactly. That's why it's best to treat them like a pet dog, and learn pick up so that you have the necessary tools to manipulate women in order to get what you want out of them. Otherwise you are subjecting yourself to pointless nonsense and emotional frivolity in the hopes of satisfying your basic biological needs.
Author:  Deadeyexx [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Power of Entitlement - Why Naturals Settle and Why PUAs
Entitlement is entirely in an individual's head. A guy can spend years improving himself and think he falls short of being good enough. On the other hand, I've seen guys with little going for them except balls get lots of women and keep them as long as they want. This article is philosophical uselessness.

Any guy has to get out there with what he has, learn a few approach tools, and realize he deserves whatever he can get.
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