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| Author: | steamrolla [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 10:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | PUA Diary of my Grandfather - His Sticky Points |
Hey! Could be a tl;dr - so grab a drink and prepare for adventure. PUA is something we can all feel proud off. I'm very grateful to have all this information available to all of us. Not far ago as my grandfather was hospitalized with severe memory problems, we went through all his stuff, and I actually recovered his own thoughts about relationships, and I was really amazed to get a really great content for those times (Soviet Union, 1960s) He really chased individualism, and had really great lifestyle. He had 8 wives in total, not counting actual relationships (he mentions having 36 woman before 2nd wive). Here is his work, and it just starts with a ton of quotes and sticking points. Evolution /21 Aug, 1966/ "If you want to have a successful life, willpower is not enough, you must also have a well developed plan, what you want to reach. It's a necessity. If you don't know clearly what do you exactly want, there's no hope for any success." "Never surrender, get what you want by not paying attention to any obstacles." "The society put me out as unusable - I didn't disappear, but returned and offered myself again; the society rejected me again as misfit - I didn't die; but returned once again, to participate in society; The people discarded me again as not needed - but I didn't lose willpower; but returned and offered my job. Now I lead them!" "You can't reach success, if you don't believe in your power." "Know your value, because it's the main force, when you want to affect other people." "Don't reveal unfinished plans to the world, if you want to realize them. No one should see what a chaos and anxiety resides in your mind. Only show clear, useful and ready thoughts to other people." "No one should know your personal plans. Things, that have already been talked through reduce your actual effort put into, because you get a illusion, that they are somewhat done already. Talking also reduces your willpower." "It's very important to dress good. You can eat as drink as your budget allows, but should dress at least two times better, than your budget allows." "If you want to get heard, just talk!" "All your people skills depend on yourself. Don't forget, that people will treat you just the way, you actually present yourself to them." "He, who will become a leader, is the one who can satisfy people's secret wishes and passions." "Society waits to someone, who would help and would deliver." "Use the early hours of your day to get the things done." "Don't do job, if you can't focus on it!" "Always write your quick ideas, and review them later." "You can't learn with a full stomach. Besides, it's bad for digestation." "If you don't satisfy any of your passions, it just gets worse from there, including sexual ones." "If you want to actually create something, you don't need to spend your thoughts and time anywhere else, just don't talk, don't go out, don't read, because it's just wasting willpower, which can't be wasted, if there is creative work waiting for you." "When you do any kind of work, you should keep motivation things around you - something like portraits, authoritative figures, art works or just impressive photos from life." "Don't waste your strength doing jobs, which doesn't fit your goals." "If we can't control our mood, we're not capable of doing our best. Not a single human, who lives under his own mood, is not free. He who asks their mood in a morning, if it is capable of doing anything, is just a slave, and any luck, as success are just not reachable." "Being in control over oneself, also means being in control over others." "Habit of derogate other people makes you destructive in nature, and just shows that you are not creative and don't have any value. It also introduces death of any success. Life needs positive lifters." "Don't go through life looking for bad things, and looking at other people mistakes, abortive attempts and failures. Learn to look from the bright sight." "Strong and successful man doesn't even think of speaking and thinking negative. He doesn't say: "I can't!", but more like "I can!", and instead of trying, he just does." "Tightly decide to never talk about about someone negatively, and if you still don't see anything good about them, then better don't see and don't talk at all." "Only the one, who realizes he can, can actually do things. It's very powerful to actually realize, that you can actually do something." "Don't talk it, if you can't say it clearly." "Just be businesslike person; man of sense; practical man!" "Not to lead or serve; lead and serve; but lead through serving. If you really want to lead something, you have to serve the purpose as well." "You should always count with the time, when you will oppose everything new, because it's just biologically predefined. And if not more, most people will just skeptically wait. Don't be that." "If you speak in public, don't reason with them much, to don't give them any doubts. Don't allow them to think. You have to figure it all out yourself before, and just at the right moment you need to give your listeners emotions, and make them feel as you want them to feel." "High-quality goods - high-quality packaging!" "Do only that, which you have announced you will do, don't put any extra effort. It will be hard for others to give you any credit for the work, which you did without announcing." "It's very important to feel stable on your legs." "Don't be afraid to take up a lot of space." "If you happen to sit at a long table, you are looking for the position in the middle." "Be aware, that all your attributes are excellent: your work tools; your notes; briefcase; pen; transportation; haircut; hands; shoes and your clothing." "You shouldn't tell people things, that in your opinion have no value." "You have to be brave, public despises scared speakers." "Don't start speaking before public is silent." "Topic you discuss should reflect in your body language and tonality. You shouldn't talk about complicated things really fast." "Set goals for every day!" "Don't argue with your opponents, just lead them to conclusion, which will crush the wrong assumption." Ok, that was the start about sticky points. I think this is enough value for the first post. If this gets any attention, I may post more stuff from diary and relationships. |
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