"hello".
If you know she is interested, why risk to fuck it up with some "opener" you found on the internet? Saying hi is enough man...
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| Author: | Anarki [ Sun Dec 02, 2012 10:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
Any ideas on how to open a girl that obviously seems to be interested in you in a pub ? ( girl that looks at me often IOI ) usual openeres feel stupid in this kind of situation |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 2:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
"hello". If you know she is interested, why risk to fuck it up with some "opener" you found on the internet? Saying hi is enough man...
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 7:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
Agreed. Be fairly direct and cordial. "Hi, I wanted to meet you. I'm Joey." I think you could also use an opinion opener along with it since you know she'll be receptive to it, that way you don't hit an awkward silence after your opening. Maybe something like "Hi, I wanted to meet you. I'm Joey. And you are? (she says her name) Nice to meet you! (shake hands) So, I've been pondeirng something lately. Can I get your opinion on it? (she says SURE!) My buddy's ex found this shoebox in his closet...." That way she meets you and instantly realizes you are a guy with something to say and not just some AFC who can barely mutter out a "hello" to the women he meets. |
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| Author: | Anarki [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 9:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
Thanks bro i guess it would be the best thing to do to just go and introduce myself just the I Wanted to meet you think dosn't sound really nice dosn't it make you look needy ? |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 9:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
"Hi I saw you and I had to meet you, what's your name?" Projects dominant frame and alpha characteristics. |
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| Author: | Anarki [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 10:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
Quote: "Hi I saw you and I had to meet you, what's your name?" Projects dominant frame and alpha characteristics.
that's good stuff but you need to be really confident afterwards and try not to get into an awkward silence that might blow everything awayi would like your opinion on this opener ME: Hey, i've been wondrin about this lately, do you really think that body language works ? answer:yes.... ME: Well then lookin at me from time to time would mean what in your opinion ? OR answer:no.... ME: screwed
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| Author: | The Doctor [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 11:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
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that's good stuff but you need to be really confident afterwards and try not to get into an awkward silence that might blow everything away
Not always true, it depend on your style, for me that silence is exactly what I want and it never makes me feel akward or nervous, only makes her feel nervous. Nervous leads to a frame of tension and if you go direct at all with it sexual tension, also tend to provide a frame where she is qualifying to you instead of you qualifying to her. Sexual tension + her qualifying to you is a very good combination [/color]
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| Author: | Bills [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 10:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
I think this situation for me is difficult too , Especially if she is sitting with a friend as well. option 2 One I'm farmilar with . Girl across the bar or close by that you have locked eye's with that is on her own. First when u see that she is sitting on her own give her a surprised look and keep eye contact. but make out like why in earth is a girl this pretty sitting alone . after you have done this and you get response as in a look or smile turn away and ignore her for up to 30 seconds . after 30 seconds is up follow up with this opener, Walk over sit down next to her try and get as close as you can and basically just say hi and ask her why she is alone ? after this she will explain or make an excuse up . After this you can start complimenting her looks or what she is wearing and how a pretty girl like her shouldn't be alone and crappy pub/club like this. From their convo will roll on . order your self a drink and her one too and then to be honest close on a number as soon as you feel u can once he have number u know she would fuck you and then u can proceed to flirt and close. ps if u get stuck on convo at the start lay down the game. Marry one , Murder One , Fuck one And make her choose from randoms at the place your drinking or hanging out .. its fun and its great way to make someone feel comfortable good luck brother ... Bills Out |
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| Author: | steamrolla [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 12:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Openeres for girls that are interested in you |
For the obvious IOI's just move in displaying basic confidence and value, I think it doesn't really matters what you say, because she wanted you to engage a conversation. Do some Kino as soon as you meet her. Push-pull and proceed to get attention. For the not obvious IOI's, like just watching, I would just throw out a IOI's myself, anything works - pointing, raising drink - just Gambler's moves. I found this to very effective of filtering girls quickly, which are genuinely interested in you. Well, maybe not attention whores, but engaging them gets a lot more experience. |
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