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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 9:28 am ] |
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You can't be great by being like everyone else. ..in fact you can't be all you can be by being like everyone else because you are different. You have to find your own way. Be your own man. My style is different because I seek to maximize my strengths and minimize my weaknesses and to take advantage of opportunities that other people do not see, have not thought about. Since my style is different I get a lot of ridicule, a lot of ridicule. And I ignore it because if I listen to it the ridicule is disparaging. Its is discouraging. Then to top things off my dissenters try to brain fuck me by telling me that the ridicule is to help me. My game is mostly mental. The biggest part of my game is inspiring confidence in myself (my confidence makes other people comfortable) and inspiring confidence in others. Its not about being an alpha male. Its not about being dominant. Its about being an inspiration. Then, then the woman follows you. You go your way and then she chases you. Its like a bee chasing a trail of honey. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 10:27 am ] |
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Nobody is born perfect. We all have flaws and we all make mistakes. And we learn the best by making mistakes and evaluating situations in which we failed in. With the ^above being said, I personally disagree with what you're saying because you can't really learn properly when you're convincing yourself that you are always right and that everything that everybody else says is complete bs. You block out any possibilities for being open minded and you're shutting out the possibility of being human and actually being WRONG from time to time. You live in a bubble of false reality and you don't even have the guts to stand up for this written truth. Your learning curve would grow exponentially if you actually weren't all about the 'I am this, I am that, and you are nothing' and took a more clever approach on how to take in information and evolve as a person through that. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 10:38 am ] |
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Quote: Nobody is born perfect. We all have flaws and we all make mistakes. And we learn the best by making mistakes and evaluating situations in which we failed in.
No. Believing in myself more. Ignoring detractors. And only looking for help when I think I need it will increase my ability.With the ^above being said, I personally disagree with what you're saying because you can't really learn properly when you're convincing yourself that you are always right and that everything that everybody else says is complete bs. You block out any possibilities for being open minded and you're shutting out the possibility of being human and actually being WRONG from time to time. You live in a bubble of false reality and you don't even have the guts to stand up for this written truth. Your learning curve would grow exponentially if you actually weren't all about the 'I am this, I am that, and you are nothing' and took a more clever approach on how to take in information and evolve as a person through that. Essentially, you are saying I should do things the way you do them and not mine. What since does that make> |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 10:49 am ] |
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You just want to take my pride. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFv_6s4_olc Hate my guts then Cuz can't nobody take my pride. Can't nobody hold me down. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 10:50 am ] |
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No, I'm suggesting being open minded. Not doing what I tell you or anybody else tells you. But accepting the possibility that somebody's else option could be better for you than your own options up until this point. There is no way to tell whether or not it's all bs what everybody else says, and by categorizing it as such, your rate of growth drops drastically. This applies to everyone, not just you. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 10:51 am ] |
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Quote: You just want to take my pride. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFv_6s4_olc
See my point?Hate my guts then Cuz can't nobody take my pride. Can't nobody hold me down. Accept your humanity. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 10:57 am ] |
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Quote: No, I'm suggesting being open minded. Not doing what I tell you or anybody else tells you. But accepting the possibility that somebody's else option could be better for you than your own options up until this point.
1.) The way to tell is knowing whether other people's opinions are true or not and that comes from experience.There is no way to tell whether or not it's all bs what everybody else says, and by categorizing it as such, your rate of growth drops drastically. This applies to everyone, not just you. 2.) Never listen to someone if you are chasing a dream or trying to invent a new way. They don't know and you won't know until you have given your all and have succeeded. 3.) Criticism is nothing more than emotional manipulation and abuse. If you wanted to help someone you would say it in a gentle way. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:01 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: You just want to take my pride. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFv_6s4_olc
See my point?Hate my guts then Cuz can't nobody take my pride. Can't nobody hold me down. Accept your humanity. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:04 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: No, I'm suggesting being open minded. Not doing what I tell you or anybody else tells you. But accepting the possibility that somebody's else option could be better for you than your own options up until this point.
1.) The way to tell is knowing whether other people's opinions are true or not and that comes from experience.There is no way to tell whether or not it's all bs what everybody else says, and by categorizing it as such, your rate of growth drops drastically. This applies to everyone, not just you. 2.) Never listen to someone if you are chasing a dream or trying to invent a new way. They don't know and you won't know until you have given your all and have succeeded. 3.) Criticism is nothing more than emotional manipulation and abuse. If you wanted to help someone you would say it in a gentle way. EDIT: Actually only point 1 would be somewhat accurate. The other ones are delusional beliefs probably rooted from your childhood. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:05 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: You just want to take my pride. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFv_6s4_olc
See my point?Hate my guts then Cuz can't nobody take my pride. Can't nobody hold me down. Accept your humanity. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:08 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote:
See my point?
I accept nothing. I place no limitation on myself. I am a sex god, call me Zeus.Accept your humanity. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:13 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: No, I'm suggesting being open minded. Not doing what I tell you or anybody else tells you. But accepting the possibility that somebody's else option could be better for you than your own options up until this point.
1.) The way to tell is knowing whether other people's opinions are true or not and that comes from experience.There is no way to tell whether or not it's all bs what everybody else says, and by categorizing it as such, your rate of growth drops drastically. This applies to everyone, not just you. 2.) Never listen to someone if you are chasing a dream or trying to invent a new way. They don't know and you won't know until you have given your all and have succeeded. 3.) Criticism is nothing more than emotional manipulation and abuse. If you wanted to help someone you would say it in a gentle way. I offer knowledge and I seek knowledge. I sure that's a fundamental purpose of the forum. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:16 am ] |
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^Nobody's opinion has ever been remotely close to 'helpful' to you though. You reject them all. You are always right. On top of the pyramid. There is no one else but you. You are an inspiration. Hey, you're right - you do sound a little bit like Zeus. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:27 am ] |
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That's not true. I recently asked about F-close by asking "do you want to have sex?" and the answers reinforced the importance of making the girl feel comfortable answering that question. Also, another way arguing helps me even when I am not accepting advice is that by robust debate I learn how to articulate my ideas more clearly and with more brevity. Most of the arguments I have on here has to do with the general publics ignorance on how to develop confidence and as result why many people suffer. Emotions are like instincts. WHen they get strong enough they push you in one direction or another.People can't accept this and continue to place demands on people that feel driven in a dfifferent direction. Additionally, confidence is merely how you think of yourself and no one wants to admit that building up the ego is what builds confidence. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:32 am ] |
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My statement was about being open minded and accept that you can be wrong from time to time, and your response to that was that I'm trying to bring you down and destroy your pride. Everybody is your enemy, all the time (how can life be enjoyable to you at all?). If you fail to be open minded and accept information granted to you by others, then I once again fail to see the purpose of what you're doing here besides hoping to stroke your internet ego by a bunch of easily influenced virgins. But hey, whatever floats your boat. The only problem is that you are inflicting this ridiculous behavior on others. Were you by any chance influenced by Stelar? . . . God I miss that guy. |
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