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| Author: | SE23 [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 2:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Female friend didn't tell me that she broke up with her BF |
I am sure this doesn't deserve a topic, but i am interested. My SPAM who i am good friends with, didn't tell me that she split up with her long distance relationship, apparently she told the other SPAM but just not me. Which i find odd as we are close, we have done meditation together and share a lot of the same interests. She also avoids staying the same room with me, and always makes suer that other people are in the room when we are in the house, which is strange as the other SPAM don't usually make great conversation and are busy on their laptops or phones. I just find the situation confusing. i recently split up with my girlfriend two weeks ago, and she said something on the lines of "not wanting to take the spotlight from me" but I'm wondering. To give you a bit of background, a lot of people think we are going out or having a thing going on, which might be part of the reason why her bf and my gf split up with me. But then maybe not. its hard to determine interest with this girl because she gives a lot of IoI's out to everyone, and is very affectionate. There have been times when we have been lying on bed together and getting very close she even told me that she loved me, but in all those circumstances i took it with a pinch of salt, because as i said she is an extremely affectionate girl and a gamer, plus at the time i thought she was still with her fella. I do have a lot of DHV, and i maintain this because from personal experience even SPAM can treat you harshly if you have low value, but i really don't what is going on, whether i have offended her or if this is just a common trait for those circumstances. Anyway any advice or comments would help, i do like this girl as a friend and if I'm being honest i do have feelings for her, i am not sure whether they are deep or just superficial, i am even planning on her meeting my parents, because i think she's great. On a side note this girl who i am living with tried to sue my ex girlfriend last year, due to a big falling out they had, so this history and falling out she had with my recent ex, has muddied the waters, so to speak. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 2:19 am ] |
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I dont think its confusing at all, she doesn't like you as anything more than a friend. she seems worried you will try to hit on her and she very much doesn't want that. You need to decide if you really just want her friendship or if you would be better off ignoring her and cutting her out of your life. I would suggest option two although I dont think you will take it. |
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| Author: | SE23 [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 12:02 pm ] |
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Quote: I dont think its confusing at all, she doesn't like you as anything more than a friend. she seems worried you will try to hit on her and she very much doesn't want that. You need to decide if you really just want her friendship or if you would be better off ignoring her and cutting her out of your life. I would suggest option two although I dont think you will take it.
Yes i best go for option two it will be a lot better in the long run, cheers, lately has been hectic.
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