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Author:  ChristmasWish [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 11:45 pm ]
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What do you guys feel about the idiom "One true love in life"?. I've been thinking about it lately, and though I have had multiple girlfriends, f-friends, etc in the past years, I keep comparing them to this one girl who was IMO my "true love". And none of them come even close.

Just curious to what you guys think about this "one true love" idea.

Debate :)

EDIT: And don't give me that "i'm too strong for all dem ish", an alpha male knows it has some soft spots, it just doesn't display them to anyone. However, MPUAForum is that kind of place we can let loose.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 12:52 am ]
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One day one woman will walk into your life, and make ALL the rest look like practice, you may or may not always keep her, but none other will ever compare......
Author:  secretaznman [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 3:03 am ]
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Dude, there is nothing wrong with chilling with one girl your whole life. That's ultimately what I want too. The great thing about pickup is that it gives you the confidence to meet as many women as possible so you CAN find "the one". Without any confidence, you would be stuck with some shitty broad because you would just "settle". Never settle and keep gaming till its time.
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 4:08 am ]
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You guys shoot the shit and it's funny to me..'Cause none of you niggas' understand *Our Basic Needs*.

If you will open Psychology-Sociology-Social dynamics books once in a while,you'll eventually,finally UNDERSTAND that we humans are far from a mystery-we have a 'manual'...And once you understand how it works,you can see that LOVE does not exist.


There is no such thing as the "One True Love". There are probably 109230832"Ones" for each and every one of us.

But there are,however,the "ones" that make a better,more *matching* partners.

May you understand what life is and enjoy them for what they are!
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 12:57 pm ]
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You guys shoot the shit and it's funny to me..'Cause none of you niggas' understand *Our Basic Needs*.

If you will open Psychology-Sociology-Social dynamics books once in a while,you'll eventually,finally UNDERSTAND that we humans are far from a mystery-we have a 'manual'...And once you understand how it works,you can see that LOVE does not exist.


There is no such thing as the "One True Love". There are probably 109230832"Ones" for each and every one of us.

But there are,however,the "ones" that make a better,more *matching* partners.

May you understand what life is and enjoy them for what they are!
So, what you read in a book completely denounces anything you feel? Interesting!
Author:  The Dice [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 1:20 pm ]
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I think what he is trying to say, though in a quite "look how much cooler I am than you"-way, is that when you fall in love your brain pumps certain chemicals into your body that makes you feel a certain way.

The so called "miracle of love" can be explained by science, and there is nothing special to it.

Ofcourse, some people matches better than other, and some relationships actually last a life time. But I am almost certain that there's more than one woman in the whole world I wanted to spend my life with if I got to know them all :)
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 1:47 pm ]
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I don't really believe in soulmates or one true loves. Life is not about one relationship. It's about a series of relationships. Only needy and desperate people talk about true love and finding their soulmate. I'm sorry, but an ugly fat chick is nobody's soulmate. I've known countless people who say their current lover is their true love, despite the person being below average in every measureable category and them fighting with each other the same as almost all couples do.

Another problem I have with soul mates is that it comes across as creepy, and even insulting, when talking about it with a potential new mate. Imagine some wide-eyed girl telling you that she thinks you are her soul mate for the rest of your lives? Or meeting a nice girl and having a normal interaction but then she tells you she believes in love at first sight. Obviously, if that moment wasn't love at first sight for you two then you are not what she is looking for, which then spoils the interaction instead of just letting it progress normally and seeing what it builds up to.
Author:  Ezo [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 2:00 pm ]
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Really?

I dont remember how many billion people we have on the planet but lets say that there are a billion women of the right age and whatever.

Now the main part of the happily married men who live with their "soulmate" or "one true love" have found them in the same city, same neighbourhood, speaking the same language. How big is that chance? Coincidence? How big is the chance that the one out of a billion women who is your one true love will be among the 10 girls in your biologyclass? Very close to zero.

There are a lot of possible one true loves. Thing is, when you find one of them, you stop seeing the others, until you are bored. Your one true love is nothing but you one biggest ONEitis, regardless of if you marry her or not. You dont see the ones who would be better because, you are completely satisfied with what you have. And there is nothing wrong with that.

Be happy your mind tricks you because otherwise you wouldnt ever be happy.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 2:19 pm ]
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There are a lot of possible one true loves. Thing is, when you find one of them, you stop seeing the others, until you are bored. Your one true love is nothing but you one biggest ONEitis, regardless of if you marry her or not. You dont see the ones who would be better because, you are completely satisfied with what you have. And there is nothing wrong with that.

Be happy your mind tricks you because otherwise you wouldnt ever be happy.
That is the trouble with narrow mindedness, Ezo is exactly to the point!

There is literally an endless selection, with limitless options.

Your "Biggest Oneitis" can be the one YOU "feel" is your one true love, and you will always remember THAT one, until the next biggest oneitis, causes you to forget.


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Be happy your mind tricks you because otherwise you wouldnt ever be happy.
It's what separates us from the primates, the ability to "FEEL".
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:25 pm ]
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There are a lot of possible one true loves. Thing is, when you find one of them, you stop seeing the others, until you are bored. Your one true love is nothing but you one biggest ONEitis, regardless of if you marry her or not. You dont see the ones who would be better because, you are completely satisfied with what you have. And there is nothing wrong with that.

Be happy your mind tricks you because otherwise you wouldnt ever be happy.
That is the trouble with narrow mindedness, Ezo is exactly to the point!

There is literally an endless selection, with limitless options.

Your "Biggest Oneitis" can be the one YOU "feel" is your one true love, and you will always remember THAT one, until the next biggest oneitis, causes you to forget.







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Be happy your mind tricks you because otherwise you wouldnt ever be happy.
It's what separates us from the primates, the ability to "FEEL".


So you agree with EZo and diagreeing with me at the same time...even though we say the same shit?

Hater why you no like me?
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:33 pm ]
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I think what he is trying to say, though in a quite "look how much cooler I am than you"-way, is that when you fall in love your brain pumps certain chemicals into your body that makes you feel a certain way.... :)
Although you were the one who undetstood me correctly,you didn't understand my humor...

I'm not trying to be cooler or any of that shit...I'm.just enjoying some self humor..and hoping you will to.

My history on this forum speak louder than my rant here.
Author:  Crypto [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:33 pm ]
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Cali, I think he is hitting on the lack of "Feeling" you seem to suggest in your post.

I equate my personal experience to the one girl who has made me truly Feel Alive. I do/did/will always have a Onitis but I realize that I will never have her again so I allowed myself to move on and continue to search for the next great thing.

I see a valid argument on both sides of this one because I feel like both options are possible.
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:40 pm ]
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Cali, I think he is hitting on the lack of "Feeling" you seem to suggest in your post.

I equate my personal experience to the one girl who has made me truly Feel Alive. I do/did/will always have a Onitis but I realize that I will never have her again so I allowed myself to move on and continue to search for the next great thing.

I see a valid argument on both sides of this one because I feel like both options are possible.
Well..they both are but,as you hinted-I prefer the less modern one.

To each their own...Happy gaming.
Author:  Wall1e [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:51 pm ]
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We seek happiness. Once we find a woman who can provide it on a regular basis, wewould that she's the one.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 7:15 pm ]
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Hater why you no like me?
No haters here Cali, your humor and sarcasm are not lost..

And Crypto


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I equate my personal experience to the one girl who has made me truly Feel Alive. I do/did/will always have a Onitis but I realize that I will never have her again so I allowed myself to move on and continue to search for the next great thing.
As with many, Myself included
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