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I'm 19

So I live at home with my mom.
I don't have a car.
I don't have much money.

At the moment, I feel these are my greatest sticking points. Although I am working on them (I finish school in 2 weeks, quit smoking pot on new years so I could apply for a decent job after I get my diploma). I just starting going to school again, I skipped allot of high school and was missing 1.5 credits, there are quite a few hot girls at my school I would like to F-close. Now if I had my own place/car, I could easily invite girls I have built comfort with back to my house immediately, but with my mom around... and no car. ( Hey , lets hop on the bus for an hour then fuck with my mom listening!:lol:) I feel severely limited. I wonder if any of you have ever had to deal with this fairly lame situation.

I'd really like to overcome it, just because then, after I get a car, my own place and a fair amount of spending money, I'll have already figured out how to survive without them and I'll appreciate them that much more. Like a kid who's been rich his whole life and gets a porshe for his birthday, vs. a kid who's be poor his whole life and gets the porshe, who appreciates it more right? Anyways, I appreciate any feedback positive or negative from people with more experience then me.

Author:	Inexorable [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 8:10 am ]
Post subject:	Handicaps
I'm 19 So I live at home with my mom. I don't have a car. I don't have much money. At the moment, I feel these are my greatest sticking points. Although I am working on them (I finish school in 2 weeks, quit smoking pot on new years so I could apply for a decent job after I get my diploma). I just starting going to school again, I skipped allot of high school and was missing 1.5 credits, there are quite a few hot girls at my school I would like to F-close. Now if I had my own place/car, I could easily invite girls I have built comfort with back to my house immediately, but with my mom around... and no car. ( Hey , lets hop on the bus for an hour then fuck with my mom listening!:lol:) I feel severely limited. I wonder if any of you have ever had to deal with this fairly lame situation. I'd really like to overcome it, just because then, after I get a car, my own place and a fair amount of spending money, I'll have already figured out how to survive without them and I'll appreciate them that much more. Like a kid who's been rich his whole life and gets a porshe for his birthday, vs. a kid who's be poor his whole life and gets the porshe, who appreciates it more right? Anyways, I appreciate any feedback positive or negative from people with more experience then me.

Author:	King Korona [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 9:56 am ]
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...................Go to house parties lol. i'm 17 and u must realize that the girls u want to f-close also live with their parents (most likely) so they wouldnt feel to uncomfortable depending on how ur house lay-out is and where u bang her. my house is realy stretched out so its not bad at all. a good one after a house party is too invite like 1 or 2 girls after a party to ur house to chill lol u must be careful with 2 girs cuz if u do invite 2 girls over u better have a buddy there also.

Author:	Xecutioner [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 10:52 am ]
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Wow newbs. Im sorry but that shit is reminessant of myself like 4 months ago. And yes, i was new as shit to this whole social dynamics material then. Listen dudes, then i just got outa jail and i still live with my grandparents. you limit yourself with things like that. I just got a kiss close not 20 minutes ago by a hb6-7 ( depends on how shallow your ass is) and it was cake.. She told me how sweet i ws and she was married. i looked for the IOI's and closed. The thing that makes me laugh is that i told my friend who was giving her a ride home "I will make out with this girl b4 the end of the ride. I MADE IT HAPPEN. Analyse that. Seriouusy.

Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Handicaps
Quote: I'm 19 So I live at home with my mom. I don't have a car. I don't have much money. At the moment, I feel these are my greatest sticking points. Although I am working on them (I finish school in 2 weeks, quit smoking pot on new years so I could apply for a decent job after I get my diploma). I just starting going to school again, I skipped allot of high school and was missing 1.5 credits, there are quite a few hot girls at my school I would like to F-close. Now if I had my own place/car, I could easily invite girls I have built comfort with back to my house immediately, but with my mom around... and no car. ( Hey , lets hop on the bus for an hour then fuck with my mom listening!:lol:) I feel severely limited. I wonder if any of you have ever had to deal with this fairly lame situation. I'd really like to overcome it, just because then, after I get a car, my own place and a fair amount of spending money, I'll have already figured out how to survive without them and I'll appreciate them that much more. Like a kid who's been rich his whole life and gets a porshe for his birthday, vs. a kid who's be poor his whole life and gets the porshe, who appreciates it more right? Anyways, I appreciate any feedback positive or negative from people with more experience then me. First, welcome to the forum Inexorable. Second, "I finish school in 2 weeks . . . I just starting going to school again", did you MEAN to contradict yourself there? Third, if you flip the attraction switches in a female, and you have yourself presentable in appearance, you can overcome all of the sticking points you've listed above. Simple as that.

Author:	Inexorable [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 9:15 pm ]
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Quote: Second, "I finish school in 2 weeks . . . I just starting going to school again", did you MEAN to contradict yourself there? The school I'm going to is small, based mostly on computers, so instead of semester long classes, it's based on how much/smart you work, 2 weeks is my estimate. Anyways tho, there were a few HB 8-9s already at introduction, and that was only 7 of the 40 people in the class. (I am shallow as hell ). Yah I'm fairly newbish, I feel hella embarrassed to say I've never F-closed. I've done everything in between but I was a total AFC till about mid 11th grade after I had problems with this one girl and had to figure it out. Went all out in 12th and had 6+ prospects practically begging for it (I fucking love David D/Mystery/Style, had 2 girls massaging my hands and one girl trapping me in her legs and staring me in the eyes, another rubbed her tits on me etc....BLEH ) but I was oblivious on how to continue, and limited by personal beleifs. I learned alot at least. Anyways, my house layout doesn't really favor privacy, although I have control of the office which is at the other side of the house, my room is right next to my mom's room upstairs (fairly small condo). House parties are cool , I went to one on new years with a fucking hb9 who was apparently checking me out but my friends wanted to go see the space needle explode. They don't happen alot for me SPAM tho maybe 1-2 a month. So anyways, I guess the solution is to step my game up for maximum attraction to prevent obstacles from interfering, and perhaps move it to the office (which has a couch), for slightly more privacy, +the I can crank up the old itunes! Thank you all for your help, I definitely appreciate it!

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Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 9:27 pm ]
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Sounds like a plan.

Author:	mozyFresh [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 10:48 pm ]
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Im pretty much in the same position man, it fucking stinks i know. Just go out there and practice, tell them they cant go back to your place and blag them to go back to theirs, well you dont have to blag them i normally just invite myself. I dont like telling people where i live anyway its a right fucking shit hole. I just wish the council would sort my bloody flat out. So for now im fucked, and not in the way i want to be fucked. I'll stop talking now before i say something stupid.

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