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Author:  Melodical [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 5:51 pm ]
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Attention validation seeking more than likely, it gives her a buzz to blow off the AFC's.
So in part it could be deep rooted low self esteem, deal with them by not seeing them as attractive women and act accordingly; they will wonder why you're not attracted to them.

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 8:58 pm ]
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Maybe the girl is just open and free with her sexuality, and can see that you're the kind of guy who will judge her negatively and/or simply doesn't find you attractive?

There is NO such thing as a slut. If you're ever going to truly understand women and be the kind of man that makes them feel completely comfortable opening themselves up to you sexually and emotionally, I would recommend removing it from your vocabulary.

Author:  Techgame [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 9:17 pm ]
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Because girls like to "feel sexy", normal rules apply to well dressed women as to a woman in her sweatpants at the grocery store.

And yeah as Sasha says, cull the judgmental attitude dude, it's asinine.

Author:  Breaking Bad [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 2:26 am ]
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Because she's a woman

Author:  Paul_T [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 7:19 am ]
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+1 to Ryan

Guys need to deal with this "slut" thing. If you are on this journey, then you want girls to be sexual with you. Every time you are a dick to her and knock her down by calling her a "slut", she is less likely to get sexual with you, or any other guy.

More importantly, she has the right to wear whatever the fuck she wants, and be treated well regardless. I know sweet conservative girls who wear very short skirts, and crazy girls who dress very conservatively. There is no rule.

You ever had a girl treat you differently because you wore shorts instead of jeans? Then why do you treat them differently when they wear shorts instead of jeans?

Author:  Melodical [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 3:55 pm ]
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It is indeed true that any girl can "dress how she wants" however by doing so she has to expect to be approached, it's human nature in a man to do so, she's demonstrating sexual/replication value and these trigger unconscious approach mechanisms in a man to do so. Yes we have free will but you can't find something unattractive that you find attractive, it's a social, cultural protocol to approach. A girl dressed very sexy who complains about being approached is like a sailor who complains about the sea. :P

Author:  Techgame [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 4:13 pm ]
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@Ryan SashaPUA
I dont judge women for being sexually open, thats the way i want them to be. I judge women who, on purpose, abuse their femininity in order to exercise power over men and i think that is what this slut was doing. This is not a sign of sexual freedom, its a sign of insecurity and/or very flawed character. Of course she can dress the way she sees fit, but is it reasonable to expect that she will be left alone on the street or in clubs and that guys will just stare at the ground when passing her by? While i do partially agree on banning the world slut, i do think it can definitley be used at times.
Dude just because she didn't want to talk to YOU doesn't mean she's a slut. I'm willing to bet she talked to other random dudes.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 4:47 pm ]
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Words of wisdom told to me years ago by my older brother on the differences between a "Whore" and a "Slut":

-"A Whore will fuck anybody! A Slut will fuck anybody but YOU!!"

Girl in tiny-tiny workout boy shorts bent over stiff legged in front of me-"WTF are you looking at??"

Me- "Your ass, it's right there :wink: "!

Author:  Gibbe84 [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 5:08 pm ]
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It appears as though she's trying to appear as sexual as possible for self-esteem purposes knowing that guys will hit on her expecting easy sex. She can then get off on rejecting them while feeling sexy due to the amount of attention she gets from men. If she dressed in a non-sexual manner she probably wouldn't get as many offers and therefore wouldn't get the ego boost that she's getting off on.

Not saying that this is 100% the case. Maybe she just didn't like you. It happens. In my experience though a lot of the girls who dress the sluttiest do it for attention rather than because they want to be picked up over and over.

Author:  MrBreeze [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 6:03 am ]
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Good topic brother! Some genius observations on the matter....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8K1KHqi9bXc

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