PUA Forum :: Help- first date with a virgin

I want to f-close her, and then maybe in the future continue as either a friend or maybe more.

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I want to f-close her, and then maybe in the future continue as either a friend or maybe more.

lame.

i'd just next her, who wants to be the blame of some girl losing her innocence. I dont really fuck virgins, because if they haven't lost it by the age of 18 to 20 then there is something wrong with them, unless it was there personal choice (not just them being lame socially, and if they went that long as a personal choice why try to fuck that up?)....so I wouldnt game her, especially if your girl hasn't even kissd anyone thats just wierd...

you are obviously special to her. i wouldnt break her heart

before you do anything though, let her know what is on your mind that way no one is hurt in the end.

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Theres one thing when you have people that have legitement cronstructive reasons for disagreeing like rye, la tripp, doc and a few other decent puas but its another when a guy like envy is just following the crowd putting people down. I think anyways, stop being a follower dude. I said thats what I would do, I wouldn't date a 7 thats a virgin, whos never even kissed before its just not my style...so just back off bro and stop always trying to have something to say...

*cross post with attractionforums, looking for all the help i can get*
I don't want to sound like I'm some sort of mPUA, but I have had some fun with women. I've fucked the first night, I can number close, kiss close, ect. Well recently I've been doing a bit of online gaming in addition to my normal stuff. I met a few girls, f-closed one, k-closed a few, but I recently met one who is a little different.
She's an hb7, she'd be a 9 if she cut her hair, wore tighter clothes and dropped 15 lbs, but thats besides the point. She's very sweet. We chatted a bit, I number closed her easily. She texts me every day. But she admitted a few things.
It went like this:
hb7- I gotta admit I'm very innocent.
sl- Innocent... how?
hb7- Like with boys.
sl- Like you are a virgin?
hb7- Actually, I've never even kissed a boy for real.
sl- Really.
hb7- yeah, i'm very picky
sl- So innocent... something you are proud of?
hb7- Meh, something I am looking to change, and maybe something more.

Her friend emailed me like "if you hurt her ill kill you, but please fucking kiss this girl. make the first move, every other guy she sees is a huge pussy!" to which i responded "jeez, how easy do you think i am? is this your hobby, are you like a pimp on the weekends or something?"
She's driving in Sunday, what do you think i should do?
She texts me a lot, and in her MySpace surveys keeps hinting at a "crush" so when she IMed me today i teased her with a "sounds like somebody likes me," to which she responded "you're adorable, what's not to like?"
I want to f-close her, and then maybe in the future continue as either a friend or maybe more. But the task at hand is f-closing her. What do I do with an attractive, 19 year old virgin? The only virgin I've ever been with was my first as well, and we dated over two years in high school.
HELP!

Author:	shameless11 [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Help- first date with a virgin
cross post with attractionforums, looking for all the help i can get I don't want to sound like I'm some sort of mPUA, but I have had some fun with women. I've fucked the first night, I can number close, kiss close, ect. Well recently I've been doing a bit of online gaming in addition to my normal stuff. I met a few girls, f-closed one, k-closed a few, but I recently met one who is a little different. She's an hb7, she'd be a 9 if she cut her hair, wore tighter clothes and dropped 15 lbs, but thats besides the point. She's very sweet. We chatted a bit, I number closed her easily. She texts me every day. But she admitted a few things. It went like this: hb7- I gotta admit I'm very innocent. sl- Innocent... how? hb7- Like with boys. sl- Like you are a virgin? hb7- Actually, I've never even kissed a boy for real. sl- Really. hb7- yeah, i'm very picky sl- So innocent... something you are proud of? hb7- Meh, something I am looking to change, and maybe something more. Her friend emailed me like "if you hurt her ill kill you, but please fucking kiss this girl. make the first move, every other guy she sees is a huge pussy!" to which i responded "jeez, how easy do you think i am? is this your hobby, are you like a pimp on the weekends or something?" She's driving in Sunday, what do you think i should do? She texts me a lot, and in her MySpace surveys keeps hinting at a "crush" so when she IMed me today i teased her with a "sounds like somebody likes me," to which she responded "you're adorable, what's not to like?" I want to f-close her, and then maybe in the future continue as either a friend or maybe more. But the task at hand is f-closing her. What do I do with an attractive, 19 year old virgin? The only virgin I've ever been with was my first as well, and we dated over two years in high school. HELP!

Author:	T8SIG92 [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 10:03 pm ]
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Quote: I want to f-close her, and then maybe in the future continue as either a friend or maybe more. lame.

Author:	.EnVy. [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 10:07 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I want to f-close her, and then maybe in the future continue as either a friend or maybe more. lame. Lol leave him alone. If he wants to "hit it and split it," then let him. I STRONGLY disagree with it, but you can do whatever you would like. More power to ya

Author:	TrojanMan88 [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 10:32 pm ]
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i'd just next her, who wants to be the blame of some girl losing her innocence. I dont really fuck virgins, because if they haven't lost it by the age of 18 to 20 then there is something wrong with them, unless it was there personal choice (not just them being lame socially, and if they went that long as a personal choice why try to fuck that up?)....so I wouldnt game her, especially if your girl hasn't even kissd anyone thats just wierd...

Author:	They Call Me Lucid [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 10:39 pm ]
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you are obviously special to her. i wouldnt break her heart before you do anything though, let her know what is on your mind that way no one is hurt in the end.

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Author:	.EnVy. [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:49 am ]
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Quote: i'd just next her, who wants to be the blame of some girl losing her innocence. I dont really fuck virgins, because if they haven't lost it by the age of 18 to 20 then there is something wrong with them, unless it was there personal choice (not just them being lame socially, and if they went that long as a personal choice why try to fuck that up?)....so I wouldnt game her, especially if your girl hasn't even kissd anyone thats just wierd... What the hell are you talking about? Lol let me save you the embaressment, bro. Stop there. Quote: you are obviously special to her. i wouldnt break her heart before you do anything though, let her know what is on your mind that way no one is hurt in the end. Yeah, that's a good idea. You need to make sure nobody is hurt in the end.

Author:	TrojanMan88 [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:56 am ]
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Quote: Quote: i'd just next her, who wants to be the blame of some girl losing her innocence. I dont really fuck virgins, because if they haven't lost it by the age of 18 to 20 then there is something wrong with them, unless it was there personal choice (not just them being lame socially, and if they went that long as a personal choice why try to fuck that up?)....so I wouldnt game her, especially if your girl hasn't even kissd anyone thats just wierd... What the hell are you talking about? Lol let me save you the embaressment, bro. Stop there. wtf are you talking about bro....i just gave my opionion and of course im sticking with it....I don't think your have a shred of valuable advice dude.so you need to relax.disagreeing with me on every thread doesnt make your opinions any more valuable so just give yours and stop shooting mine down...bro just a piece of advice....(HERES A CLASSIC SIGN OF A BULLY, A GUY THAT PUTS DOWN OTHERS TO BUILD HIMSELF UP)

Author:	TrojanMan88 [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:03 am ]
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Theres one thing when you have people that have legitement cronstructive reasons for disagreeing like rye, la tripp, doc and a few other decent puas but its another when a guy like envy is just following the crowd putting people down. I think anyways, stop being a follower dude. I said thats what I would do, I wouldn't date a 7 thats a virgin, whos never even kissed before its just not my style...so just back off bro and stop always trying to have something to say...

Author:	shameless11 [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 9:36 am ]
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so much drama. well we'll see where it goes from sunday. i definitely wont rush her. not looking for buyers remorse with this one.

Author:	Faz [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:14 pm ]
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man a f-close will be ok so long as you let this girl know that you are not after anything serious so she knows what she is getting into and it is 100% her decision.

Author:	.EnVy. [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:50 pm ]
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Quote: Theres one thing when you have people that have legitement cronstructive reasons for disagreeing like rye, la tripp, doc and a few other decent puas but its another when a guy like envy is just following the crowd putting people down. I think anyways, stop being a follower dude. I said thats what I would do, I wouldn't date a 7 thats a virgin, whos never even kissed before its just not my style...so just back off bro and stop always trying to have something to say... Yup. You caught me .

Author:	Paramour [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:15 pm ]
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[quote="TrojanMan88"]i'd just next her, who wants to be the blame of some girl losing her innocence. I dont really fuck virgins, because if they haven't lost it by the age of 18 to 20 then there is something wrong with them, unless it was there personal choice (not just them being lame socially, and if they went that long as a personal choice why try to fuck that up?)....so I wouldnt game her, especially if your girl hasn't even kissd anyone thats just wierd... [/quote] That's not a valid reason to next someone just because they are pure sexually. In your opinion, would there be something wrong with a lady "giving it up" at a certain age? For her being 19 and a virgin IS something to be proud of these days. The girl might have stronger scruples than most. Perhaps she needs to be most clear and comfortable when it comes time for her to make that choice in her life., which could be the tactful route. And if he clarifies his intentions there will be no blame, no expectations. It's your choice as to game what you will, but not everyone will condone in your opinion.

Author:	TrojanMan88 [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:24 pm ]
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so yeah exactly, its an accoplishment so why make her mess that up? but its not about sex for me I'd next her for the fact that she hasn't kissed anyone before, something is wrong and wierd about her...plus she's only a 7 so no real stress there. I don't date 7's much anyway so why take on one with issues?...

Author:	Paramour [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:39 pm ]
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[quote="TrojanMan88"]so yeah exactly, its an accoplishment so why make her mess that up? but its not about sex for me I'd next her for the fact that she hasn't kissed anyone before, something is wrong and wierd about her...plus she's only a 7 so no real stress there. I don't date 7's much anyway so why take on one with issues?... [/quote] Like I said beforehand, it's not absilutely an issue that a female hasn't kissed or had sex by a certain age....different strokes for different folks ya know. BTW, the scale is irrelevant towards the fact whether she is virgin or not. Furthermore, she will eventually have sex. In the back of a typical female mind..there is this should I or shouldn't I question, when she feels as though it is RIGHT for HER, then she will "mess" that up for herself. So what, she is shy, so what she hasn't felt comfortble sticking her tongue down some guy's throat. Now, what is wrong and weird about a girl that hasn't kissed by a certain age..you know, i don't believe age has any bearing on anything..like for instance kissing or having sex or whatever....

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Author:	Paramour [ Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:44 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Help- first date with a virgin
Quote: cross post with attractionforums, looking for all the help i can get I don't want to sound like I'm some sort of mPUA, but I have had some fun with women. I've fucked the first night, I can number close, kiss close, ect. Well recently I've been doing a bit of online gaming in addition to my normal stuff. I met a few girls, f-closed one, k-closed a few, but I recently met one who is a little different. She's an hb7, she'd be a 9 if she cut her hair, wore tighter clothes and dropped 15 lbs, but thats besides the point. She's very sweet. We chatted a bit, I number closed her easily. She texts me every day. But she admitted a few things. It went like this: hb7- I gotta admit I'm very innocent. sl- Innocent... how? hb7- Like with boys. sl- Like you are a virgin? hb7- Actually, I've never even kissed a boy for real. sl- Really. hb7- yeah, i'm very picky sl- So innocent... something you are proud of? hb7- Meh, something I am looking to change, and maybe something more. Her friend emailed me like "if you hurt her ill kill you, but please fucking kiss this girl. make the first move, every other guy she sees is a huge pussy!" to which i responded "jeez, how easy do you think i am? is this your hobby, are you like a pimp on the weekends or something?" She's driving in Sunday, what do you think i should do? She texts me a lot, and in her MySpace surveys keeps hinting at a "crush" so when she IMed me today i teased her with a "sounds like somebody likes me," to which she responded "you're adorable, what's not to like?" I want to f-close her, and then maybe in the future continue as either a friend or maybe more. But the task at hand is f-closing her. What do I do with an attractive, 19 year old virgin? The only virgin I've ever been with was my first as well, and we dated over two years in high school. HELP! Obviousely, she likes you, she is comfortable with you. My suggestion would be to tell her up front your intent and/or expectations. If she agrees, then so be it and if not step away. No need in the blame game nor the unfathomable emotional feelings of what did I just do. Try it out and see where it goes.....