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Author:  uglykid [ Thu Jan 10, 2008 7:59 am ]
Post subject:  girl buys you a drink...?
i just got back from a good night of drinking, its my brothers 21st b-day, and im a little confused. this is the 3rd night within.. a few weeks that a girl has bought me a drink without me even trying to game her. the first night i go and see a girl who is a cocktail waitress at a strip club, and i talk to this cute stripper at the bar and she offers to buy me a drink. we take a shot and talk for a while and thats about it. the second time(tonight) i take my brother to the bars and i make eye contact with a girl from across the bar, she doesnt break contact and we are boarderline staring at each other for way too long, so i stick my tounge out at her and she smiles while turning away. she places an order with the bar tender then waves us over. we go over and she gives both of us a shot. we then talked for awhile and i got her number.

my question is what should you do if a girl buys/offers to buy you a drink for no reason. i know how to respond to a girl who trys to get you to buy her a drink, but if its the other way around,... i turn into an afc. ol and the stripper was a hb6 and the 2nd was an hb7 if that helps. im a little hard on the hb scale.
Author:  Vibe [ Thu Jan 10, 2008 1:25 pm ]
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I get free drinks all the time, I used to be stupid to buy girls things, but I am not that one nice guy anymore.

You should reply something like this, aawww I see how cute is that, you trying to get me drunk so later you can seduce me, don't you?


I don't see why you say no reason, its always a reason for everything that happens in life. Holla
Author:  mozyFresh [ Thu Jan 10, 2008 1:39 pm ]
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Its ok to accept drinks from girls, its all good. I dont think you really need a great reply when a girl offers to buy you one, but if you do think of a witty reply then it just adds to your arsenal, just say cheers and get it down ya neck. I have this happen to me quite alot sometimes, but when they keep buying me drinks i start to wonder, if they are just trying to take advantage of me, i aint that easy you know girl B-). Free drinks are welcome and atleast then you know she likes you.
Author:  uglykid [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 8:31 am ]
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thanks alot! yea i know nothing is done without a reason, i said reason because normally i would have to game a girl into buying me a drink. i think things are just starting to flow better now and girls are more attracted to me. tonight it happened again, but this time i had a good reply. a girl offered to buy me a drink and i said... "im sorry doll, its not that easy to get into these pants, youll have to try harder." then i got her to use pick up lines on me in a little reverese role playing game.

sorry if this post doesnt make sense... just got back from the bars.. and im a little intoxicated. :)
Author:  Boss Playa [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 1:58 am ]
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You can time constraint the drink - give her like half an hour to speak to you, "This drink is only good for half an hour." Be playful with it. You can also tell you it will not get her into your pants because you are not that easy. Anything like that.
Author:  gravesRR7 [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 3:02 am ]
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buying you a drink might be seen as a compliment

as Style suggests, when a true high-valued male is complimented, the best thing to do is just say "thank you" in a very cool tone.

in other words. make sure you're not too cocky in response to this. she is already (likely) attracted to you to some degree. Neg her a bit, and accept them gracefully.


When this has happened to me, i'll let her buy me normally no more than three, and i'll buy some for us too. it's not AFC at this point, it's just not being totally cheap.
Author:  Vibe [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 4:17 am ]
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why do you worry so much about this, how do you get free drinks I teach you, before you go out or whenever you feel for it, start thinking I will get girls who are buying me free drinks, I will have fun, than have some more drinks with them, then dance little bit, then go home with them and fuck them, its never been easier to use the laws of the attractions as it is, its always been easy, its one of the ways you can become a master pick up artist like myself, some may now laugh say or disagree with me that I am not, so what? they not going to break me down any way, I know who I am, and what Ive been born to, Ive been born to a master pick up artist, or just call me mVibe :)
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