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| Author: | M2 [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Screening |
Question: How do you guys screen? What are some red flags you look for? I am sick of quantity. I go out with alot of women, but I don't think I am screening enough other than basic interpersonal indicators and "she's hot". Clearly, this isn't working. What are some rules you guys have? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 5:03 pm ] |
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here is what I screen for sexual availability(screening out the time wasters) -she lets you touch in meaningful way -she invests in a conversation after interest is shown -she is willing to be alone -flakes (3x they're out) physical, personality and lifestyle -immature at times and bubbly -she laughs at my jokes -she can clown around also (doesnt nessicarily have to be gut bustingly funny but at least try, and not take herself super seriously) -she can have a serious convo -she wants to do something with her life, other then marry a rich guy -she has not cheated in the past -she has a high sex drive -she has an interest in music -she has her own hobbies -she has no sexual hangups, open to the topic and when she is hit on, she doesnt get too insecure or shy -she can take a rude comment without mega spazzing -she is rarely if ever disrespectful -she does not have gay loser friends -fine with me swearing -she is cool with not having to be taken out all the time and can just chill doing nothing exciting sometimes -she likes giving head -she can cook -she likes physical activity -she is not too conformist, has her own opinions on issues -she actually can hold a conversation without me leading 100% of the time and actually offers some challenging banter to keeping us both on our toes -she has common interests and goals -kind hearted -willing to stand up for what she wants, rather then folding at my every wish, or her friends every wish -preferably burnette -athletic build -under 5 foot 8 -nice ass -cute face -wears makeup -doesnt dress like a man -easy as fuck in private, challenging and testy in public -young -honest logistics -who did she come with/how do they all know each other (does she have a boyfriend) -does she like her job (when does she work/when are her days off) -what is she doing later (can she be fucked that day) -I live at XYZ, is she from *my city* (if she is DTF, where do we go?) -how did she get there (if you don't know already) -what time she has to get up the next day (if you need to justify this covertly, just let her know you were thinking of drinking with her all night) |
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| Author: | M2 [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 5:12 pm ] |
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Damn. Pretty solid list, and not a lot of negatives. i.e. "I don't like this" "I don't like that" Definitely something to think about. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 7:11 pm ] |
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Quote: Damn. Pretty solid list, and not a lot of negatives. i.e. "I don't like this" "I don't like that"
Definitely something to think about. The best way to screen is by micro-escalating, and doing body language reads, if in 15-20 minutes the vibe and escalation not progressing, get her number and move to the next girl... 3 types of girls: the ones that are into you the maybes the ones that no matter what won't like you... The other good way to screen is through text, email, chat etc.. since women will open up more that way. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 3:38 am ] |
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Be more specific... screening for a relationship or one night stand? If for a SNL/ONS then Skills hit the nail on the head. For a relationship I don't screen... I categorize. After I sleep with a girl a few times and get to know her I decide where she fits in my life. If shes a good fuck but a mediocre personality I keep her as a fuck buddy. A good fuck and I enjoy hanging with her then she can have a more important place in my life. A girl thats a great fuck, and that I vibe with extremely well will have an even more important place in my life. The more I hang with a girl her place in my life can change. If I start enjoying a girl more I move her up, and vice versa. You get the point. Dont screen... categorize. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 2:34 pm ] |
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If is for a relationship you need to write down and picture what your ideal is, sexual behavior, personality,looks, believes etc... The longer the list the better, write it down as you are dating pull out the list and see if the girl has all the stuff you wrote down, if she is missing some minor stuff, see if you can live with it or not. Then date multiple women, anywhere from 3-5 and keep eliminating and replacing, What i say to women is this: most people settle i do not settle, you do not get to know someone till 6 months to a year in the relationship at a minimum, when people start dating they are at their best behavior, i do not settle i date, but once i am exclusive i only date one person. With this line i show abundance which is attractive, and women fight for me and compete... Once i have the girl and i am exclusive, i still keep dating till 6 months when she is tested and proven, but i make her believe i am exclusive. Note: you always, no matter what , want to go in as the fuck buddy, never as the boyfriend prospect, why? cause is always easier to fuck them first and work your way backwards to a relationship. You want to be the guy she wants to fuck as oppose to the guy she wants to date. And even if you are the guy she wants to date, you have to focus on the sex part first, that will make things way easier. If she focus too much on you being the guy to be the potential bf, she will in most cases delay sex, or find for flaws to put you on the friend zone. Again the best way to screen deep is by written communication, cause they will open up more. Another route is the fixer upper girl: you get a not so hot girl or a girl with lack of you name it, and you make her your project, the same as coaches do with afc, you teach them how to dress, haircut, how to workout etc... I really like fixer upper women, it has work for me, cause anybody that has gotten really hot 10 knows for a fact that most of those girls have major issues(the live in a delusional world in most cases due to so many guys putting them in a pedestal, and people going out of their way for them)... Sometimes is easier to make your on 10. To do this you have to have solid skills, and get the girl super whipped and invested. |
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