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Author:  Wall1e [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 12:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Shit test #close: You will use me

Hey guys,

Yesterday had a conversation with an Hb8, 16 year old, me almost 19. I had a good mood, she too, and she laughed quite some. Looked at me quite nice. Then her friend wanted to drag her away, so i said: "Hey, you're an interesting girl, give me your number so meet up sometime". Her reply: "What? No i'm not gonna give it to you. I'm sure you will make use of me". Me: "How can i possibly make use of you through the phone?". Nothing really worked so i ejected. Any suggestions in the future when a girl says:

- No i'm not gonna give you my number.
- You'll make use of me.

Author:  bob popular [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 3:43 pm ]
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First of all, since I am a naturally confident and aggresive guy, I would not have said that "she is interesting," rather something like: "Hey, I like you, give me your number so we can meet up some time" or even "Hey, give me your number so we can meet up some time." But that's just me . . .

Well, short and simply put, there are two truths about "Shit Tests" that concern this situation:

1. A girl will only shit test you if she is interested in you.

That means, "pass" her test and you're very very in.

2. A girl who shit tests guys will tend to be confident and wants to test if the guy talking to her is confident to keep up with her lifestyle. If he fails, he is gone like 90% of the guys who have done well enough with her to get this far.

That means you need to not flinch, not loose state and be as confident as possible.

Practically applied, I would say one of the following in this situation:

"Hey, some girls would appraciate being used by a guy like me" (be sure to smile while saying this)

"Hey, I don't offer to use every girl I meet, see it as a compliment" (once again, be sure to smile)

In this situation, all you can do is try to ignore her objection, indirectly admit what your intent is (you do want to fuck her ASAP, right?) and try to blast through her objections with confidence and congruity.

By retreating and claiming that your request for her number was innocent and harmless showed a lack of congruence with your intent to lay her and a lack of confidence in your ability to close the deal.

Actually, in this situation, I would think that the cockblock (girl trying to pull her away) was the real problem, not the test.

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