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After no text back I Went total AFC but still got a date.
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Author:  afcme123 [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 2:26 am ]
Post subject:  After no text back I Went total AFC but still got a date.
(i hope this is in the correct spot. If not Im sorry)

Basically I asked this girl to a party.. She never replied..
This is the 3rd time that this has happened.. (I give 3 chances.. If they can't hang after 3 chances then I let them go)
But for some reason I decided to just try one more time... So after a few hours I texted this to her..

ME:Look... I just want to take you out sometime. Nothing major or anything fancy. You just seem like a cool girl I would like to get to know. I can't promise anything but a good time. If your not interested thats fine with me. No hard feelings

(I know this is totally afc... But I just though "what do I have to lose")

HER: I may be having a party as well, but if its not on the same day I can probably come. Also I don't think one date would hurt to see if we hit it off.. Nothing wrong with trying lol


I got one date.. Good thing One date is all I need :P
Author:  TheSeagull [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 4:38 am ]
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wait till you are on the date. yes, she verbally agreed. she might still flake once you actually try and make it happen.
also, I expect her frame by now is "let me waste one afternoon/evening hanging out with this AFC dude who's annoying the fuck out of me, so he will then leave me alone".
you might have a hard time overcoming this frame. but, good luck.

usually, AFC-ness is entirely forbidden in the initial "courtship" phase. some is allowed in a relationship when the girl is very invested. then, you can have your beta moments, as long as they are not a constant back-sliding.
Author:  SexAddict911 [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: After no text back I Went total AFC but still got a date.
Quote:

ME:Look... I just want to take you out sometime. Nothing major or anything fancy. You just seem like a cool girl I would like to get to know. I can't promise anything but a good time. If your not interested thats fine with me. No hard feelings
This ^^^^ is not AFC, this is taking control and the reason she responded. You must do the same on the date. Be sure to dictate the pace, set the mood and show her your fun side. Go into the date with the mentality that it doesn't really matter what happens, you are still doing you. Act as though you have plenty of women to fall back on if all else fails.

Do not be subservient or a pushover. Dictate everything, be entertaining and make it fun for YOU.

DO all this without any other concerns and you will have a good date.
Author:  Snakebite [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 5:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: After no text back I Went total AFC but still got a date.
Quote:
(i hope this is in the correct spot. If not Im sorry)

Basically I asked this girl to a party.. She never replied..
This is the 3rd time that this has happened.. (I give 3 chances.. If they can't hang after 3 chances then I let them go)
But for some reason I decided to just try one more time... So after a few hours I texted this to her..

ME:Look... I just want to take you out sometime. Nothing major or anything fancy. You just seem like a cool girl I would like to get to know. I can't promise anything but a good time. If your not interested thats fine with me. No hard feelings

(I know this is totally afc... But I just though "what do I have to lose")

HER: I may be having a party as well, but if its not on the same day I can probably come. Also I don't think one date would hurt to see if we hit it off.. Nothing wrong with trying lol


I got one date.. Good thing One date is all I need :P
Hmm.. it's probably her not you, she was either forgetful, or pondering whether to get back to you, facebook chat could have gotten round that 8) . As long as you have other things/people/girls to get on with (you're in the game, so I'm guessing you do), then I'm sure there is nothing wrong with being interested: you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
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