PUA Forum :: Game...?

Get sexual experience. Girlfriend is best, since you can have sex a few times a week. Hire a hooker, get a fuck buddy, find bitches at the bar... whatever it takes. Start having more sex. I myself have several girlfriends so I'm being bombarded with "fuck me, now". The abundance makes it far easier to pick up at the bars or from cold approach.
Women can feel the sexual energy coming from you, they have a natural ability for that. They can always tell the guys who get laid, and those who don't. The guys who get laid are generally more relaxed and don't hope for some specific answer to pump their emotions up. Jerking off is not the same, there is no emotion there, just tugging on your cock to the computer screen. Becoming intimate with a woman, in bed, naked, with your cock and her vagina, are what makes your sexual energy shine and be heard by woman. It's almost like a silent alarm or calling that can be heard.

It's all in your head. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and stop thinking that you have to "game" the girl and win her over. Things have started to work so much better for me lately, not just with getting laid but overall happiness, when I stop expecting things from others, such as pussy. You don't do things that make her attracted to you, you are already either attractive or not. Cut the dancing monkey bull shit and start being a fucking man. Being bold is one huge way to build attraction. I cannot count how many times I took the girl home because I made some bold move, such as grabbing her thigh, or going in for the kiss. No hesitation, just going for it. Risking it is attraction (says 60 yoc)

The only way you can really get good and have abundance is to be happy by yourself. If you strip away your car, house, job, girlfriend, fuck buddy, mom, and dad... are you still content? Your core YOU is what attracts others to you, not how well you can "game" them.

Most people, women in particular, have a sixth sense for how at-ease you feel in the environment. I can always sense that guy that seems nervous and when he talks to you, he will do anything for you to respond positively. Unfortunately, It is very easy to do this when approaching women, because we aren't born master pooah's. But one way to move in the right direction is to stop being a faggot and start being calm. Meditation, taking deep breaths, working out and exercising.. those are great ways to help.

One thing that has helped tremendously over the past months would be:

Get sexual experience. Girlfriend is best, since you can have sex a few times a week. Hire a hooker, get a fuck buddy, find bitches at the bar... whatever it takes. Start having more sex. I myself have several girlfriends so I'm being bombarded with "fuck me, now". The abundance makes it far easier to pick up at the bars or from cold approach.
Women can feel the sexual energy coming from you, they have a natural ability for that. They can always tell the guys who get laid, and those who don't. The guys who get laid are generally more relaxed and don't hope for some specific answer to pump their emotions up. Jerking off is not the same, there is no emotion there, just tugging on your cock to the computer screen. Becoming intimate with a woman, in bed, naked, with your cock and her vagina, are what makes your sexual energy shine and be heard by woman. It's almost like a silent alarm or calling that can be heard.

There, just trying to throw a few tips out there for anyone new or hasn't heard this crap before.

edit: I did talk down onto jerking it, which can be very addicting. But doing kegals and jerking it (I do it for an hour a day but never finish), has made my dick stronger than four hundred wildabeasts in the african desert heart. Hehe

i disagree with the hooker part. unless you are fucking her because you got her around, it won't help you. i beleive fucking hookers for cash can actually decrease a man's appeal, because of it's impact on overall confidence. he knows he did not get laid because he is attractive to her. he may then carry that frame into his interactions with other women.

the reasoning behind this is that i don't think women know when you're having sex. what they sense is the confidence you get when you're having sex. it's subtle, but they can tell the difference on some subconcious level.

when you're buying a woman's time, you're not getting that confidence boost. it's ok to fuck a hooker for free becasue it will give you a confidence boost. she's fucking you for you, not for money. see the difference?

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So it's kind of an ego thing then or what? One must validate his ego by tricking his brain, that sex was genuine and he.... scored it?

Hooker part.

It depends on the FRAME. Think “American Psycho.” Think how gangsters think.

Think you can buy anything, do anything.

If a guy thinks it will lower his confidence then don’t do it. If a guy thinks it will increase it. Then act as you wish.

Obviously if one is going to hookers as a sole occupation, unless you have a lot cash, it will not be the best way to build confidence, unless u use it to practice conversation by way of role play.

Only religious conservatives are against this, becuse they lack the confidence to break social taboo.

Dude take it with a pinch of salt.

Frame is not easy and it is not everything.

The point was that some said it may lower confidence, I was simply saying it can go both ways.

I for one would find it lowers mine, but some rich business dudes see it differently, it is their way of showing they have money and power, and they are getting compliance with their money which they treat as a weapon. I am not of that world.

U may get a more convincing point by some rich dudes who have more experience in this matter. But since most guys on this forum are pennyless students that maybe hard.

Lets not be dogmatic here.

Cheers.

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Author:	Tasty [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 2:43 am ]
Post subject:	Game...?
It's all in your head. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and stop thinking that you have to "game" the girl and win her over. Things have started to work so much better for me lately, not just with getting laid but overall happiness, when I stop expecting things from others, such as pussy. You don't do things that make her attracted to you, you are already either attractive or not. Cut the dancing monkey bull shit and start being a fucking man. Being bold is one huge way to build attraction. I cannot count how many times I took the girl home because I made some bold move, such as grabbing her thigh, or going in for the kiss. No hesitation, just going for it. Risking it is attraction (says 60 yoc) The only way you can really get good and have abundance is to be happy by yourself. If you strip away your car, house, job, girlfriend, fuck buddy, mom, and dad... are you still content? Your core YOU is what attracts others to you, not how well you can "game" them. Most people, women in particular, have a sixth sense for how at-ease you feel in the environment. I can always sense that guy that seems nervous and when he talks to you, he will do anything for you to respond positively. Unfortunately, It is very easy to do this when approaching women, because we aren't born master pooah's. But one way to move in the right direction is to stop being a faggot and start being calm. Meditation, taking deep breaths, working out and exercising.. those are great ways to help. One thing that has helped tremendously over the past months would be: Get sexual experience. Girlfriend is best, since you can have sex a few times a week. Hire a hooker, get a fuck buddy, find bitches at the bar... whatever it takes. Start having more sex. I myself have several girlfriends so I'm being bombarded with "fuck me, now". The abundance makes it far easier to pick up at the bars or from cold approach. Women can feel the sexual energy coming from you, they have a natural ability for that. They can always tell the guys who get laid, and those who don't. The guys who get laid are generally more relaxed and don't hope for some specific answer to pump their emotions up. Jerking off is not the same, there is no emotion there, just tugging on your cock to the computer screen. Becoming intimate with a woman, in bed, naked, with your cock and her vagina, are what makes your sexual energy shine and be heard by woman. It's almost like a silent alarm or calling that can be heard. There, just trying to throw a few tips out there for anyone new or hasn't heard this crap before. edit: I did talk down onto jerking it, which can be very addicting. But doing kegals and jerking it (I do it for an hour a day but never finish), has made my dick stronger than four hundred wildabeasts in the african desert heart. Hehe

Author:	fitzcarraldo [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 5:22 am ]
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Well said life is shor,t being a badass son of a bitch is much more fun than being a pussy.

Author:	Psychotic [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 7:54 pm ]
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Great post.Way too many guys over complicate game and make it more difficult than it has to be. Focusing on leading an interesting lifestyle is much more productive than trying to sarge 75 females a day

Author:	Kupid [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 2:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Game...?
Quote: Get sexual experience. Girlfriend is best, since you can have sex a few times a week. Hire a hooker, get a fuck buddy, find bitches at the bar... whatever it takes. Start having more sex. I myself have several girlfriends so I'm being bombarded with "fuck me, now". The abundance makes it far easier to pick up at the bars or from cold approach. Women can feel the sexual energy coming from you, they have a natural ability for that. They can always tell the guys who get laid, and those who don't. The guys who get laid are generally more relaxed and don't hope for some specific answer to pump their emotions up. Jerking off is not the same, there is no emotion there, just tugging on your cock to the computer screen. Becoming intimate with a woman, in bed, naked, with your cock and her vagina, are what makes your sexual energy shine and be heard by woman. It's almost like a silent alarm or calling that can be heard. Altough I can see your point about expressing sexual energy to a woman that is sexual with you, I don't understand, how banging a hooker is going to get you emotional. Just sayin

Author:	Zepter [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 2:36 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Game...?
Quote: It's all in your head. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and stop thinking that you have to "game" the girl and win her over. Things have started to work so much better for me lately, not just with getting laid but overall happiness, when I stop expecting things from others, such as pussy. You don't do things that make her attracted to you, you are already either attractive or not. Cut the dancing monkey bull shit and start being a fucking man. Being bold is one huge way to build attraction. I cannot count how many times I took the girl home because I made some bold move, such as grabbing her thigh, or going in for the kiss. No hesitation, just going for it. Risking it is attraction (says 60 yoc) The only way you can really get good and have abundance is to be happy by yourself. If you strip away your car, house, job, girlfriend, fuck buddy, mom, and dad... are you still content? Your core YOU is what attracts others to you, not how well you can "game" them. Most people, women in particular, have a sixth sense for how at-ease you feel in the environment. I can always sense that guy that seems nervous and when he talks to you, he will do anything for you to respond positively. Unfortunately, It is very easy to do this when approaching women, because we aren't born master pooah's. But one way to move in the right direction is to stop being a faggot and start being calm. Meditation, taking deep breaths, working out and exercising.. those are great ways to help. One thing that has helped tremendously over the past months would be: Get sexual experience. Girlfriend is best, since you can have sex a few times a week. Hire a hooker, get a fuck buddy, find bitches at the bar... whatever it takes. Start having more sex. I myself have several girlfriends so I'm being bombarded with "fuck me, now". The abundance makes it far easier to pick up at the bars or from cold approach. Women can feel the sexual energy coming from you, they have a natural ability for that. They can always tell the guys who get laid, and those who don't. The guys who get laid are generally more relaxed and don't hope for some specific answer to pump their emotions up. Jerking off is not the same, there is no emotion there, just tugging on your cock to the computer screen. Becoming intimate with a woman, in bed, naked, with your cock and her vagina, are what makes your sexual energy shine and be heard by woman. It's almost like a silent alarm or calling that can be heard. There, just trying to throw a few tips out there for anyone new or hasn't heard this crap before. edit: I did talk down onto jerking it, which can be very addicting. But doing kegals and jerking it (I do it for an hour a day but never finish), has made my dick stronger than four hundred wildabeasts in the african desert heart. Hehe i disagree with the hooker part. unless you are fucking her because you got her around, it won't help you. i beleive fucking hookers for cash can actually decrease a man's appeal, because of it's impact on overall confidence. he knows he did not get laid because he is attractive to her. he may then carry that frame into his interactions with other women. the reasoning behind this is that i don't think women know when you're having sex. what they sense is the confidence you get when you're having sex. it's subtle, but they can tell the difference on some subconcious level. when you're buying a woman's time, you're not getting that confidence boost. it's ok to fuck a hooker for free becasue it will give you a confidence boost. she's fucking you for you, not for money. see the difference?

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Author:	Kupid [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Game...?
Quote: i disagree with the hooker part. unless you are fucking her because you got her around, it won't help you. i beleive fucking hookers for cash can actually decrease a man's appeal, because of it's impact on overall confidence. he knows he did not get laid because he is attractive to her. he may then carry that frame into his interactions with other women. the reasoning behind this is that i don't think women know when you're having sex. what they sense is the confidence you get when you're having sex. it's subtle, but they can tell the difference on some subconcious level. when you're buying a woman's time, you're not getting that confidence boost. it's ok to fuck a hooker for free becasue it will give you a confidence boost. she's fucking you for you, not for money. see the difference? So it's kind of an ego thing then or what? One must validate his ego by tricking his brain, that sex was genuine and he.... scored it?

Author:	Slipps [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 11:16 pm ]
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While I'm surprised to see that Tasty is STILL writing threads on "forgetting about game" I can see the sex part. If you have hook ups about sex, are not confident sexually, uncertain over whether a woman can find you sexually appealing or just inexperienced when it comes to "closing the deal" then getting such things out the way quickly can be milestone worth striving for.

Author:	Zepter [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 8:53 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Game...?
Quote: Quote: i disagree with the hooker part. unless you are fucking her because you got her around, it won't help you. i beleive fucking hookers for cash can actually decrease a man's appeal, because of it's impact on overall confidence. he knows he did not get laid because he is attractive to her. he may then carry that frame into his interactions with other women. the reasoning behind this is that i don't think women know when you're having sex. what they sense is the confidence you get when you're having sex. it's subtle, but they can tell the difference on some subconcious level. when you're buying a woman's time, you're not getting that confidence boost. it's ok to fuck a hooker for free becasue it will give you a confidence boost. she's fucking you for you, not for money. see the difference? So it's kind of an ego thing then or what? One must validate his ego by tricking his brain, that sex was genuine and he.... scored it? if you're having sex for any other reason than being yourself, it's not going to have the same effect, yes. not just about blowing your load into a wet hole, which does beat jerking it either way around. but there are levels of merit here.

Author:	NikAFC [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 10:24 am ]
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You think you've got it all. Well you don't so keep that to yourself

Author:	JACKAL RONIN J000 [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:34 pm ]
Post subject:	HI
Hooker part. It depends on the FRAME. Think “American Psycho.” Think how gangsters think. Think you can buy anything, do anything. If a guy thinks it will lower his confidence then don’t do it. If a guy thinks it will increase it. Then act as you wish. Obviously if one is going to hookers as a sole occupation, unless you have a lot cash, it will not be the best way to build confidence, unless u use it to practice conversation by way of role play. Only religious conservatives are against this, becuse they lack the confidence to break social taboo.

Author:	Slipps [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 5:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: HI
Quote: Hooker part. It depends on the FRAME. Think “American Psycho.” Think how gangsters think. Think you can buy anything, do anything. If a guy thinks it will lower his confidence then don’t do it. If a guy thinks it will increase it. Then act as you wish. Obviously if one is going to hookers as a sole occupation, unless you have a lot cash, it will not be the best way to build confidence, unless u use it to practice conversation by way of role play. Only religious conservatives are against this, becuse they lack the confidence to break social taboo. Are you suggesting forum members mimic the behaviour of the criminally insane?

Author:	Slipps [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 9:46 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Hi
Quote: Dude take it with a pinch of salt. Frame is not easy and it is not everything. The point was that some said it may lower confidence, I was simply saying it can go both ways. I for one would find it lowers mine, but some rich business dudes see it differently, it is their way of showing they have money and power, and they are getting compliance with their money which they treat as a weapon. I am not of that world. U may get a more convincing point by some rich dudes who have more experience in this matter. But since most guys on this forum are pennyless students that maybe hard. Lets not be dogmatic here. Cheers. It's cool dude. I'm just wary of using serial killers as role models.

Author:	Tasty [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 11:42 pm ]
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You guys took the hooker part a bit literally, but that's fine. I guess I should have mentioned that as a last resort, there are a number of guys in this community who have been approaching for many months and can't seem to get laid. If you have a good paying job, spending $500 on a high quality hooker or escort, one that looks like a hot stripper and not some street crack whore, can help a lot I think. Especially in terms of building confidence with attractive women Sex become a skill after you do it enough times. You are no longer just sticking your dick into a wet hole, you learn how to pleasure her most, going into different positions to keep it fun. Eventually you learn to be more aggressive and realize chicks love to be punished, spanked, and some even like to be choked, slapped, etc. My first few times I had no idea what I was doing, or where the hole even really was. Speaking of, a big part of attraction is not just boldness, but how much dominance you show. What girl doesn't like a dominant man?

Author:	skills360 [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 1:29 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Game...?
Quote: Quote: It's all in your head. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and stop thinking that you have to "game" the girl and win her over. Things have started to work so much better for me lately, not just with getting laid but overall happiness, when I stop expecting things from others, such as pussy. You don't do things that make her attracted to you, you are already either attractive or not. Cut the dancing monkey bull shit and start being a fucking man. Being bold is one huge way to build attraction. I cannot count how many times I took the girl home because I made some bold move, such as grabbing her thigh, or going in for the kiss. No hesitation, just going for it. Risking it is attraction (says 60 yoc) The only way you can really get good and have abundance is to be happy by yourself. If you strip away your car, house, job, girlfriend, fuck buddy, mom, and dad... are you still content? Your core YOU is what attracts others to you, not how well you can "game" them. Most people, women in particular, have a sixth sense for how at-ease you feel in the environment. I can always sense that guy that seems nervous and when he talks to you, he will do anything for you to respond positively. Unfortunately, It is very easy to do this when approaching women, because we aren't born master pooah's. But one way to move in the right direction is to stop being a faggot and start being calm. Meditation, taking deep breaths, working out and exercising.. those are great ways to help. One thing that has helped tremendously over the past months would be: Get sexual experience. Girlfriend is best, since you can have sex a few times a week. Hire a hooker, get a fuck buddy, find bitches at the bar... whatever it takes. Start having more sex. I myself have several girlfriends so I'm being bombarded with "fuck me, now". The abundance makes it far easier to pick up at the bars or from cold approach. Women can feel the sexual energy coming from you, they have a natural ability for that. They can always tell the guys who get laid, and those who don't. The guys who get laid are generally more relaxed and don't hope for some specific answer to pump their emotions up. Jerking off is not the same, there is no emotion there, just tugging on your cock to the computer screen. Becoming intimate with a woman, in bed, naked, with your cock and her vagina, are what makes your sexual energy shine and be heard by woman. It's almost like a silent alarm or calling that can be heard. There, just trying to throw a few tips out there for anyone new or hasn't heard this crap before. edit: I did talk down onto jerking it, which can be very addicting. But doing kegals and jerking it (I do it for an hour a day but never finish), has made my dick stronger than four hundred wildabeasts in the african desert heart. Hehe i disagree with the hooker part. unless you are fucking her because you got her around, it won't help you. i beleive fucking hookers for cash can actually decrease a man's appeal, because of it's impact on overall confidence. he knows he did not get laid because he is attractive to her. he may then carry that frame into his interactions with other women. the reasoning behind this is that i don't think women know when you're having sex. what they sense is the confidence you get when you're having sex. it's subtle, but they can tell the difference on some subconcious level. when you're buying a woman's time, you're not getting that confidence boost. it's ok to fuck a hooker for free becasue it will give you a confidence boost. she's fucking you for you, not for money. see the difference? ^ yep, and it makes you lazy, it creates a bad HABIT!, paying for sex, is easy, failing failing and failing, and not giving up, till it finally happens is the way to do it...The problem is the instant gratification mindset! Some dudes are addicted, yes addicted to escorts...

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