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Author:  peel [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 7:06 pm ]
Post subject:  College is the best time in your life to get girls? Lies.
I think Ive heard the above a ton and I do often see a plethora of good looking girls but I am still single and confused after 2 years and less than 2 left of college.


Anyhow, I want to say that Im in college and it's a little different than regular pua because I will see them in class every day or walking the campus (despite it being a big campus) or end up bumping into them eventually (happens a lot to even the most random people i meet). And it's just very awkward if I do a direct cold approach and like if later I asked for their facebook and they reject me. (never actually asked for number or anything) And its just retarded if I go so direct and dont follow up with anything but small talk and then leave (which is what Ive done too) then see them again every so often but they know i like them since i pretty much told them directly
I cant really think of a way to indirectly approach them and become friends first since they will be wondering why I am talking to them.
Anyhow, I know college game is a lot different than pua standard. Let me know wat u think
Any direct approach rejection will be a much larger burn that I will be reminded of each day.
And any successful direct acceptance is awkward if I dont follow up immediately with a number or anything. And from there, it is still awkward if I see them because:
-if I play the 'just friends' card if I see them again, they know Im faking since I told them straight up during the direct approach Im interested
-if I play the more than friends card, I just see things escalating too quickly for me? (this is the only viable solution it seems but the only problem is I really want to be friends with some girls first. It would be nice to have some actual friends that are girls and are good looking on the side too. Rather than acquaintances my whole life)
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 8:11 pm ]
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this might sound sort of strange and unconventional, but here is a little challenge for you if you so choose to accept,

for the next two weeks, 5 new girls a day, just walk up to them, say hi, tell them you know that it is super random, but you just came over to chat them up for a while and ask them out on a date,

you don't have to be overtly verbally sexually explicit, you don't have to start groping her ass or making out with her, just go out, be friendly and polite, ask a bunch of girls on a date the traditional old fashion way, get over your irrational fear and realize it's normal for guys to go after girls, nothing bad will happen, your rep will be fine, have you ever seen a guy get rejected before?, did you even remember he got rejected up until I now just asked you to recall it?
Author:  .Chaos. [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 8:34 pm ]
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So when is the best time in your life to get girls?

Life is short and if you want to get this part of your life sorted then get it sorted now.

Keep reading books, keep watching videos, keep practicing and you'll get there.
Author:  DDRQ [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 11:18 pm ]
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Okay I will share what I do and hopefully this will help you but it worked for me so far this year(I'm first year). See if you can try some of this stuff out and adapt it to yourself.

Okay I use day game to expand my social circle. Talking and introducing myself to almost everyone near me(In lines at coffee shops on campus, in class etc) And I do this to guys and girls. Basically my goal is to get to know this person and make friends. Yes friends. OKay I do stuff to avoid being friendzoned as in I don't listen to problems etc, I'm sure you know what I mean. Doing this I have met loads of girls through other girls and being introduced by them, so it is less awkward and all because I had a quick chat with this one girl in a line while I was waiting for my coffee. Then in this groups of girls select your targets and begin gaming...

NOTE: Do not over game the girls. Negs and constant teasing may just label you as someone irritating and attention seeking. Most girls like the laid back guys in college. So just chill and enjoy the conversation and use this to learn more about each person. The more memories you share the closer you become. Even if it's just chilling on the grass together.

Okay that's just a summary of my goal for day game. Now that I have constructed a large social circle I almost always have a party or event to go to at night. And most of my actual gaming is at night(To explain this further. I use daygame to show her I am funny and a cool guy. I use night game to seduce her) At night your game depends on the type of activity you guys are doing, so your strategy will differ from a house party to going to a club.(No shit) Night game it's much easier to escalate into taking her home with you.

Also read conquer your campus. I can't remember who wrote it. But google will be able to help you.

Hope this helps.
Author:  Rockets88 [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 4:01 am ]
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funny enough i had a gf my freshman year at college. we met in class and hung out 4 times a week my entire freshman year. She eventually dropped out my sophmore year and i was basically like "wtf should i do". This however forced me to become strong. I started to go to parties more frequently and generally put myself out there more. I learned about this community and started reading alot of theory about game.

One day i eventually walked up to this HB8 brunette and said hey do you have a cig i could get? She said yes and we started talking. We eventually started talking about weed and then i got out of my comfort zone and said hey follow me back to my place so we can smoke a blunt. She agreed. This was one of my biggest moments in college gaming for me. After this interaction i was able to calibrate with girls. I now knew the impossible was possible. My mind only opened up further to new concepts and realities from their. My Jr year i met this HB9 french chick who i was able to embrace for a moment in time. What a time it was. I'm absolutely crazy about her, and still am. I met several other girls after that. Some DTF, some not so much. But none of this would have been possible without that first taste of success.

Honestly i've only had sex with 5 girls in my 4.5 years at college. Having sex with a girl is a lot harder than people think and what television makes it out to be. It takes experience, dedication, and trust between two people. You have to throw a lot of preconceived notions about college out the window. The girls do not have sex with everyone. I went into college thinking i was going to have sex with over 25 girls and im no where near that number. Even if i was a great pua my freshman year i wouldn't be near that number. None the less college is the best time to meet chicks!

If you want my advice grow some balls and ask for numbers instead of facebook. And if u really want my advice approach girls with the idea of getting them on an instant date. Next grow some balls and kiss the girl, and escalate phsyically from there. If you dont do this your wasting your time. IF she's not into she is not into you. If she is into she will be receptive towards your advances. Dont live with regret! Pull your dick out!

Ok that was the yuengling talking that last paragraph but u get the point. Dont waste any more time! Keep approaching and success is sure to come!
Author:  sooc [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 12:40 pm ]
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funny enough i had a gf my freshman year at college. we met in class and hung out 4 times a week my entire freshman year. She eventually dropped out my sophmore year and i was basically like "wtf should i do". This however forced me to become strong. I started to go to parties more frequently and generally put myself out there more. I learned about this community and started reading alot of theory about game.

One day i eventually walked up to this HB8 brunette and said hey do you have a cig i could get? She said yes and we started talking. We eventually started talking about weed and then i got out of my comfort zone and said hey follow me back to my place so we can smoke a blunt. She agreed. This was one of my biggest moments in college gaming for me. After this interaction i was able to calibrate with girls. I now knew the impossible was possible. My mind only opened up further to new concepts and realities from their. My Jr year i met this HB9 french chick who i was able to embrace for a moment in time. What a time it was. I'm absolutely crazy about her, and still am. I met several other girls after that. Some DTF, some not so much. But none of this would have been possible without that first taste of success.

Honestly i've only had sex with 5 girls in my 4.5 years at college. Having sex with a girl is a lot harder than people think and what television makes it out to be. It takes experience, dedication, and trust between two people. You have to throw a lot of preconceived notions about college out the window. The girls do not have sex with everyone. I went into college thinking i was going to have sex with over 25 girls and im no where near that number. Even if i was a great pua my freshman year i wouldn't be near that number. None the less college is the best time to meet chicks!

If you want my advice grow some balls and ask for numbers instead of facebook. And if u really want my advice approach girls with the idea of getting them on an instant date. Next grow some balls and kiss the girl, and escalate phsyically from there. If you dont do this your wasting your time. IF she's not into she is not into you. If she is into she will be receptive towards your advances. Dont live with regret! Pull your dick out!

Ok that was the yuengling talking that last paragraph but u get the point. Dont waste any more time! Keep approaching and success is sure to come!

College/Univeristy is so easy. Here in Australia, barely anyone lives on campus and lives at home still but i guess I have an upper hand by not.

The biggest advice is to socialize on campus with everyone. Socail status/proof is still a major factor with girls as it was in high school. By having lots of friends either girls or guys, you will meet alot for people.
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 2:04 pm ]
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I went to college and have spends weeks at a time at many different colleges across the US and it is amazingly more easy to get laid there than any where i've ever been in my life. You're problem lays on the inside and you are dealing with a lot of insecurities, college is not the blame and the risk of seeing girls more than once is not to blame for you feeling awkward. I actually think its cool if i cold approach a girl and get blown out and see her again or she tells her friends. I enjoy the different looks and extra attention ;)

Perception is everything bro, shape up!
Author:  Ki$$ [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 6:53 pm ]
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I used to be in th same situation as u man. Then I realized tht to th girls it doesn't really matter if u keep runnin in2 them. Infact some of thm actually pretend tht they can't see u evn if u r on pretty good terms. Its a problem tht evn girls face apparently so go ahead and get in2 it, play along as they do :twisted:
But as an extra u myt wanna purchase "The Rules Of The Game" by Neil Strauss. Its got a 30day challenge tht is just PERFECT for college man...Best of luck
Author:  peel [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:18 pm ]
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to ddrq (everyone else can read too):
yes i thought about that but it just got really hard because a ton of my first tries, they just seemed awfully cold to me and simply respond to my questions then turned their head. so that destroyed any confidence i had
Author:  peel [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:01 am ]
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to eddie:
ive tried playing it cool or as you said 'enjoying seeing them again' after i get rejected but its no doubt a form of fakery because inside i feel really embarrassed and awkward and even if i 'convince myself' like you might call it otherwise, sometimes the girl thinks its really embarrassing or maybe feels disgusted by me and makes it super awkward anyways

k1$$: no its just really awkward when its pretty obvious they noticed ur there but still pretend to ignore you. its like an insult really... :/
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:37 am ]
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If its people you see everyday you need to consider your reptuation...I would consider building good relationships with women then moving forward. If you want to avoid the fears about reputation approach women that you don't know. Approach them away from your dorm and have courage.

You need to make it a focal point to be the best that you can be everyday when you present yourself to girls.
Author:  Chicoman69 [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:52 am ]
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Seriously, getting laid takes work... college or no college. And these guys that are using drugs to "seduce" women... forget them.
Author:  TheNamesDrew [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 5:27 am ]
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This might sound stupid/ unethical but it might help you with the first few hookups and girls. I know it did for me in a way. You're still gunna have to game of course to get girls to keep comin back/ get fuck buddys all that. But before i had any game at all i would go to parties, get drunk, and somehow i would say one out of every eight parties maybe?
I would end up getting laid/ getting a good bj. Now granted you and the girl should both be drunk, of course you don't have to be drunk but i feel like it makes it easier in some way. Obviously don't take advantage of the girls if they're way too drunk or w/e, but alcohol has a wonderful way of lowering inhibitions and getting people into each other without much work on either of thier parts.
I mean you don't really get laid that often, but if you're out socializing at a party, having a good time, odds are one of these times if you know a bit of kino and can hold a convo for a few min you're gunna get a chance to hook up.
All you have to do is go for a shoulder hug, try to constantly brush up against her, like every couple min, try to hold eye contact a bit... the rest should work itself out. you'll know when it's time to kiss her or take it to the next level. You can just feel it. And if you're a little bit drunk and you try to kiss her and shes like oh nevermind, oh well theres more women than men on this earth!! When girls are drunk it's like 50x easier to get with them. I'm not saying get drunk every time you go out or look for drunk girls, but if you're having a hard time this might help you out.
Just my 2 cents! Goodluck all around buddy
Author:  TheNamesDrew [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 5:31 am ]
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Also something to add, about the fear of rejection you seem to have? I could be wrong that's just the way i read it. But it's gunna happen, probably more often than not. Girls seem to love it if they reject you and you're just like ok whatever! Just act like you don't give a fuck even if you do.
I was gaming this really, really sexy girl named Lisa for a while, like 6 months maybe. Granted i did so many things wrong. But one time she called me on the phone and blew up on me saying i was making up shit about me and her, that she didn't want me at all, to stop talking to her... all this shit. I basically said screw you in a bit more words. A month later i hooked up with her. I had never hooked up with her before this point. Now don't go to that extreme if its not justified, but i hope you get the gist of it? Try not to care if you can. It helps.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 7:41 am ]
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I'm going to help you out with this whole awkward concept. It's not that it's awkward after you hook up, it's that you are awkward after. You are giving sex too high of a value, knock it off. If you give sex less value you won't be awkward. You seem to think women hold sex in high esteem, they enjoy it just as much as us and they don't over value it. In fact sometimes I think guys believe it to be a bigger ordeal than women now a days.

Dude I did ok in college and I had no game, if I knew in college what I know now I would have had sex over with over 100 girls by sophomore year. I probably wouldn't have dropped out either for those very reasons. Just saying college is when women are more open to learning about their sexuality, no parental limitations with the same immaturity.

A woman doesn't remember half the guys who hit on her. Why should she? She rejects men all day. You are the one it makes an impression on not her. Step outside yourself for a second, and step into a hot woman's thoughts. Do you think you would remember a guy who hit on you when you rejected 7 already? Yes hot woman get hit on in the grocery store, at the book store, in class, walking to class, everywhere (I know I do it), do you think they remember them? No, it's whatever to them, should it be a big deal to you?

Get a good open bro, that's all you need is to learn to do is open.

Pumpington is spot on I agree you should follow his direction.
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