Imagine you are a girl for a second and you're in some bar drinking
with your girlfriends. Guys come up to you all the time, some with
decent game but some with boring "So what are you drinking?" game.
What is the one thing that would tell you a guy knows what he's
doing, has probably fucked a lot of girls, and can give you both
emotional and physical pleasure?
Boldness.
Let me explain with a story.
I was at a bar when I started talking to a cute girl. I sat down on
a bar stool to face her so that our legs were touching. After ten
minutes of conversation, I made it seem like I just noticed her
bracelets and starting touching them. Then I saw a spot on her
jeans where some of her drink spilled, and started "rubbing" it
out. She quickly hit my hand away.
I pretended nothing happened and continued the conversation. Then
five minutes later I started poking her thigh while she was
talking. That's when she started giving commentary on my pickup...
"I saw you here the other night talking to girls. I have a feeling
you hit on a lot of girls and you do this all the time." I just
said I was "outgoing" and "friendly," with a smirk of course.
She knows that this is what I do, that I hit on girls like herself
every night. But she cannot tell her brain to stop feeling
attraction for a desirable man. I am a desirable male because she
THINKS I do this all the time and that I'm successful at it. And
she thinks I do this all the time simply because I'm touching her
early and in ways other guys are too scared to do.
I made out with her before I got her number, after a total time of
thirty minutes or so of talking to her. Keep in mind this was from
a girl who hit my hand away when I started touching her.
Being bold screams confidence, because it tells the girl that you
are NOT AFRAID and have done this before. She will think...
"Who does he think he is touching me so early in the conversation?"
"Look how close his face is getting to mine. What makes him think
he will kiss me tonight?"
The answer in her head will be something like, "Because he knows
what he's doing and has succeeded at it before."
And here's the beautiful part: she will have no idea what your past
is and no idea how many women you really did sleep with (or
didn't). All it takes is one trait--boldness--to be the man she wants
to sleep with right now.
This means that even if you have zero confidence, just sucking it
up and pushing the envelope to get closer much sooner than you
think you can will actually increase the chance that you get a
make-out or sex. Weird how things work.
Just a few years ago the approach itself would've screamed boldness
and be an attractant in its own right, but we're many years into
the age of pick-up. Now by the time you get to a girl she has been
approached a couple hundred times. The boldness effect is not
achieved merely by approaching but by early touching and kissing.
That wouldn't make any sense to me before I got into the game. I'd
wait very patiently for obvious green lights and only then would I
proceed slowly. But the more experience I got, the more impatient I became, and the sooner I started going
for it. And it worked. Not only did I get more, but I got it that
much quicker.
Now I'm pretty spoiled. If I don't get a makeout within 30 minutes
or so, I think something is wrong... WITH HER. The only time I get
numbers now without make-outs is when I simply ran out of time or
got cockblocked.
It wasn't always like this, and it did take me work to get here,
but if you start with a solid foundation of techniques then it will
simply take practice and commitment on your part. RV
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paid her. then tipped her $3 singles, touching the back of her hand, and told her that's her stripper money! We became new best friends, I told her next time I would leave it on her dresser!. She offered Her name and number! I said I didn't have my phone today because I don't bring it when I go on an adventure. She asked me to meet her at a different bar Tuesday night.