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| Author: | Sly_Wolf [ Wed May 30, 2012 8:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | PUA DATING GUIDE |
I am making a dating guide for myself so I would like for you to contribute so that fellow puas have some parameters to work with. I'm the type that aims to make the best of things. When I take a girl out, I want to blow her mind and I know a lot of it has to do with conjuring her emotions. I also don't like to chase, that is why first and second dates are important to me, so that she will be on such an emotional high that she will want more from you. Date Guide Summary -Use descriptive language -Have confident body language and tonality (walk & talk slowly with ease) -Apply Mystery's bouncing venues theory. -Apply Warped mindless' ESP model for sexual tension, triangle gazing -Use emotional behavior techniques to have more control over the relationship -Change the subject if she starts having a negative conversations. -Build an emotional connection by getting to know her passions and aspirations. You can discuss yours first if neccesary to make her comfortable. CALIBRATE! -Lastly, try to close and give her multiple orgasms. ...Question..sometimes girls talk a lot. Should I let them or should I take charge and interact more, talk about myself, etc. rather then just listen and put a few words in. I suppose I can also relate to what she says in case that solidifies the connection. I know with some girls you can just have a simple drink and thats enough, but I want to be that guy that the girl had an amazing date with. Share your ideas or tactics that you think would work on most girls. The goal is to amplify the dating experience as much as possible. |
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| Author: | baracuda [ Wed May 30, 2012 9:57 pm ] |
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The person who is doing the most talking is the one qualifying the most. I remember once a girl who was talking to me for about 10 minutes all i did was just look into her eyes an nod my head i can not remember a word she said it was trancelike Of course i already had a convo before hand this was when my game was weak but it just happened naturally didnt no what i was doing. But she looked horny as hell man i wish this girl didnt live hundreds of miles away with a boyfriend |
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| Author: | SexAddict911 [ Wed May 30, 2012 10:09 pm ] |
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Let them talk as much as possible, look at it as scripture to decode them, the more they talk, the more information you have to interpret their desires, needs and wants. You can dictate what they talk about by manipulating the topics, simply transition them into talking about things you want to know, follow her lead and wait for openings, then transition. You can do it subliminally or straight out interrupting. The key is to transition through their words, look for leads and capitalize. Steer her the way you want her to go. If you get good at this, you can make it appear that everything you have talked about was in fact brought up by her. |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Thu May 31, 2012 9:50 am ] |
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Always let the girl talk. And make sure to LISTEN! A talking girl is talking herself right in to your bed if you just shut up and pay attention! All girls favorite topic is themselves, so don't stop them! If they are talking about themselves, make them talk about themselves. At the end of the conversation she will think "Oh my god, what an interesting guy, I really enjoyed this talk" simply because all you talked about was her! She doesn't give a shit about you, deal with it! You can talk about you once you have already slept with her, but until then, shut up and listen! The simple truth is that no guys listens to girls, so it is such a rare thing when you can prove that you do, and that is exactly how you win her and all the other girls out there! |
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| Author: | Sly_Wolf [ Thu May 31, 2012 3:45 pm ] |
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Hmm interesting. I can definitively stir the conversation and make her talk about herself. What if she wants to know about me? Should I still make her discuss herself as long as the vibe is positive? Other puas have said it's good if she asks about you cause she's interested to know more. Doesn't she get more attracted when she hears how awesome you are? This why it's confusing to me. I know there should be times to let her talk but how important is the emphasis on this? I also wonder if I reveal too much I won't be as mysterious. |
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| Author: | SexAddict911 [ Thu May 31, 2012 4:16 pm ] |
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Quote: Hmm interesting. I can definitively stir the conversation and make her talk about herself. What if she wants to know about me? Should I still make her discuss herself as long as the vibe is positive? Other puas have said it's good if she asks about you cause she's interested to know more. Doesn't she get more attracted when she hears how awesome you are? This why it's confusing to me.
Her asking about you is a good thing, however! try to keep it simple, give her bits and pieces then get her talking about herself again. As Slywalker was saying, the more a woman talks about herself, and you appear to be listening, the better. I know there should be times to let her talk but how important is the emphasis on this? I also wonder if I reveal too much I won't be as mysterious. Women always complain about men not listening to them, and to be honest, it's hard for us to do so. When she asks about you only give her enough about you to keep her intrigued, being mysterious is awesome to keep her interest. Women fucking love trying to figure you out. Women love to live within their imaginations, just look how many women read romance novels and story books ( non fiction) in general. Humor is HUGE! in any dating situation, from my experience, humor is on the top of the list of what women seek in a man. If you already have her physically attracted to you, humor will be your ultimate power. So when the conversation gets turned to you and she asks questions or you're prompted to talk or respond make it funny, make her smile and laugh. Hopefully by the time it's your turn, you will know enough about her desires, interest, and wants that you can show her all your qualities that pertain to what you learned of her. In a sense it is a form of manipulation but really it is just being as efficient as possible. First dates and such have so many variables, and women can shut down so easy with a bad response or misunderstanding you. Even if you are the wittiest and smoothest bastard alive, women can still miss-interpret your words easily as they generally have a wall up within the first encounter, it's best to let them get it all out, then go from there. If you get a boring girl that doesn't like to talk a lot ( rare but possible) Don't be that guy that talks about himself to carry the conversation, unless she is asking you, stay away from it. For some reason there is a huge double standard when it comes to this. Women can't stand men that talk about themselves to much. If she is not a talker, simply keep her engaged, make her laugh, better to be a clown then actually talk about yourself to much. Save that for the 2nd/3rd encounter once the first date guard is down. |
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| Author: | Sly_Wolf [ Thu May 31, 2012 5:05 pm ] |
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Alright thanks, you guys have more experience so I'll take your word for it. I'll read her interests and relate in between her long convo to build a connection. I have a cocky funny personality so once it clicks, it becomes easy. Let's talk about venues. I don't like to sit at tables where it's hard to kino escalate. Also, do you guys try to sit beside the girl or just let it flow however? ...As for kissing, do you think it's better to build lot's of sexual tension first to make her want it or just kiss her when you think you can? |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Thu May 31, 2012 6:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: PUA DATING GUIDE |
Quote: I am making a dating guide for myself so I would like for you to contribute so that fellow puas have some parameters to work with.
I'm the type that aims to make the best of things. When I take a girl out, I want to blow her mind and I know a lot of it has to do with conjuring her emotions. I also don't like to chase, that is why first and second dates are important to me, so that she will be on such an emotional high that she will want more from you. Date Guide Summary -Use descriptive language -Have confident body language and tonality (walk & talk slowly with ease) -Apply Mystery's bouncing venues theory. -Apply Warped mindless' ESP model for sexual tension, triangle gazing -Use emotional behavior techniques to have more control over the relationship -Change the subject if she starts having a negative conversations. -Build an emotional connection by getting to know her passions and aspirations. You can discuss yours first if neccesary to make her comfortable. CALIBRATE! -Lastly, try to close and give her multiple orgasms. ...Question..sometimes girls talk a lot. Should I let them or should I take charge and interact more, talk about myself, etc. rather then just listen and put a few words in. I suppose I can also relate to what she says in case that solidifies the connection. I know with some girls you can just have a simple drink and thats enough, but I want to be that guy that the girl had an amazing date with. Share your ideas or tactics that you think would work on most girls. The goal is to amplify the dating experience as much as possible. Dude, that is a good guide, whoever is talking is qualifying, here is the only problem with women talking too much, if the convo. is boring because of her or the interaction, she will blame it on you in her head, just change the subject, lead the convo... But try to apply wm stuff, is good, too much talking and no escalation, will put you in friendzone... Do not worry too much about venue changing(do not be too outcome dependent)... |
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