Quote: Being nonjudgmental is usually easier when its expression leads to taking what you want. You might 'judge' them to be fanatics but plenty girls find that what they 'rightly want' is God. As a young man who's figured out how to harvest punani well . . . and likes it, it's easy to get carried away into thinking that this must be a priority for all. Not always . . . and definitely not the right thing for all. We're all living through different stages of our lives, dealing with unique issues from personal histories, culture, religion, and social surroundings. And obviously, everybody has their own unique reasons for being. Thinking that a magic cock ride will somehow set a girl free is really no different than thinking that introducing her to Jesus will do the same; not entirely bad, not entirely good, but definitely not our 'judgmental call' to make. But yes, the method described is a great way to get your dick wet, and as you wrote, it's a nice gesture even to those who aren't 'oppressed by society'.
I believe that you find God through experience, not by keeping yourself away from it. Some women have been around the block more than once, so to speak, and they know from experience that they don't want casual sex and they truly just want to worship Jesus while living a completely socially acceptable lifestyle. I can respect that, and I won't bother them. However, if young people choose to blind themselves without tasting the different perspectives that life has to offer, all the while following the empty promises of the mindless masses and the institutionalized churches that our old teachers and prophets would curse, then I'm going to see what I can do to show them a new perspective. People have a right to make a choice based on knowing what their choices actually are.
More often than not, young people who follow a more conservative sexual lifestyle like abstinence are doing so out of fear. Whether it be fear of hellfire or social ostracism, they are letting an unjust fear dictate whether or not they practice an act of fun and love. This is social terrorism. There are indeed a rare few who wish to live a life of asceticism to whatever degree for the purposes of self-actualization and spiritual enlightenment without using fear as a motivator. I respect these people a lot and I cannot feel sorry for them like I do for the sheeple who follow their "thou shall nots" in mortal terror.
These are beliefs I hold regardless of whether or not I get my dick wet, and even for things unrelated to sex. I hate communism and other forms of dictatorship because it makes citizens obey the government out fear for their very lives. I can't stand religious nutjobs who peddle fear to the masses instead of teaching the love that their religions were really trying to emphasize. I absolutely cannot respect cultural traditions like Confucianism that expect you to obey out of fear of social repercussions without even understanding why you are obeying.
If you want God, you won't find him in fear.
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. People seem to get pulled up by things that inhibit them from experiencing/living life the way they want and someone showing them, that is MAGICAL to that person in its own sense.