Yea man, the women just seem "warmer" over there, it's less about playing games and more about getting to the point. Though it's cool to hear that from a Thai guy. I've heard of many Thai men getting pissed off with foreigners coming to their country to f**k their women (understandably) but a lot of them don't care that much because Westerners seem to be mostly attracted to the type of girls that Thai guys consider ugly (dark-skinned, girls from the countryside). I've seen some ridiculously hot women that locals would not even blink at due to their dark skin (tanned = having to work outdoors or on the farm = poor = low class). Light-skinned Chinese-looking Thai girls are considered the most desirable among the locals, and I must admit that it is harder to score with these girls. They like to call themselves "hi-so" (high-society). I'd say around half of the hi-so girls would never date a foreigner under any circumstances (one-nighters could be a diff story though). Once I was sorta seeing a richer-Chinese type Thai and this local guy walks past, takes a look at her and gives me a huge smile and a thumbs up LOL that never happened before. It's a crazy place, I liken it to living in a cartoon. We have a saying TIT (This is Thailand). Whenever you see something just straight up crazy or unbelievable you just shrug and say "TIT". I've said this countless times.
To answer your q's:
An apartment in BKK (Bangkok) last time I was there, you could get something really nice for like 10-15K baht a month which SPAM is like $315-$470. This would be a pimpin pad furnished, security, gym etc. You could easily find one for 5K ($160) not as nice but definitely good enough. "Decent part" of BKK doesn't really exist, there is no city centre everything is just randomly in different places but I suggest staying close to the main highway which is called the Sukhumvit. Lots of club areas branch off the Sukumvit into Sois (streets). You'll find really nice apartment blocks next door to slumvillage shantytowns, bit of a trip at first but you get used to it. I hated Bangkok at first but once you learn to navigate it it becomes a pretty awesome place (taxis are cheap as fuck, travel the whole city for $10 max - ALWAYS get the taxi to turn his meter on, if he refuses he's taking advantage of a foreigner and will overcharge you.)
Best clubs are in Bangkok, this is also the best place for non-prostitute girls (apart from the streets & shopping malls). Some of the high-end clubs will charge $15 cover, sometimes even $30! (1000baht) but this is rare and you usually get drinks included. Bangkok is becoming expensive (to what it used to be). There are some clubs areas that cater mostly for Thais (the music in these clubs SUCK) but then there's some clubs where foreigners are known to hang. The girls here are prob the best targets, be wary of freelance hookers though. You don't wanna offend a "good girl" by asking if she's a prostitute but a hooker will usually bring up the subject of $$ when you hint at leaving together.
The problem with some "good girls" is that their English is shocking but that's usually a sign that they're not interested in hooking up with foreigners.
Beaches is a tough one since there are so many nice islands there. On the islands it's mostly foreigners/white girls who are there to hook up. I mean there's also local Thais who work on the islands and there's always holidaying Thai girls from Bangkok and stuff, but islands/beaches are less about Thais and more about Farangs (foreigners).
Closest islands to Bangkok are Koh Samet (popular with thai families) & Koh Chang (2nd biggest island, jungle-style)
Further south is Koh Samui (very popular), Koh Phangan (full moon party island) and Koh Tao (scuba diving). I would deff recommend going to the Full-Moon Party at least once. Samui is a short plane ride from Bangkok then a short boat-trip from Samui to Phangan.
Even further south you have Phuket (the biggest island, quite commercial) and PhiPhi (haven't stayed there myself but I hear it's the bomb), and a few other quieter ones.
So yea there's so many women there you can meet them almost anywhere. Learn a few cheeky phrases in Thai and you'll be sorted.
I just booked a trip there for February (Bangkok area) if anyone is there at that time feel free to hit me up.
And anymore Q's holla, I could talk about this place for days 
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