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| Author: | socio [ Sat May 05, 2012 3:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Social programming affecting my life |
Hey guys i'd really appreciate your opinions on this! Sorry if you think this should be posted elsewhere but the response i got from the last post in here was good, so im doing it again. 1eye:The truth is nobody will ever love you unconditionally besides your mom. But in reality no one can really love you but yourself. Your girlfriends only love the feeling of sexual attraction you give them. It’s all about the pleasure chemicals. And the action is all happening inside her body. When the feeling of sexual attraction you provide is gone sooner or later she moves on and some other guy is getting his pole smoked. Sexual attraction is a selfish bitch. There are many guys who have absolutely no problem dating several women and do so with ease. They seem to sleep well at night. I bet they would tell you they feel loved. They get their unconditional love from family. They get their self esteem from work and through hobbies. They volunteer, give to charity, go to church, socialize to give value and make hundreds of human connections throughout their lives keeping them fulfilled and feeling loved. so is what your saying here that many of us have completely the wrong idea of love.....Love in a relationship is just sexual attraction to a women, is that the same for a man? Im unsure as i've been so socially programmed myself that i just don't know how to be anymore.....i have the game telling me about evolution and that in reality life is much more simpler than portrayed by the media....BUT On the otherhand I am lucky enough at my young age to have successfull people around me who talk one hell of alot about spirtiuality and god..... and still see love as something to do with the soul. I feel like i need to make up my mind on which path i want to follow, so i can commit to a way of living. Do humans not feel some innate sense of something beyond ourselves isn't that how shahmans, spirituality and the whole idea of god came about? |
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| Author: | DanHMan [ Sat May 05, 2012 3:34 pm ] |
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My favorite food is chicken. I don't really like chicken. I just like the feeling my chemicals release when I eat chicken. Perhaps you are looking at this too logically, the put that stuff out there for you to feel better. It means do not get too attached to anyone or anything. Just keep your head up, someone will care about you just as much as your mom eventually. |
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| Author: | socio [ Sat May 05, 2012 3:42 pm ] |
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Hahah ok i guess not really sure how to take that... |
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| Author: | DanHMan [ Sat May 05, 2012 3:49 pm ] |
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A study was done on a group of people. The group which had the most rational thinking patterns were mostly depressed and suicidal. The ones with the most irrational thinking patterns tended to be very successful and happy. Life isn't fair, which is good because if it was we'd be forced to be satisfied with our current condition. You will eventually die, it doesn't mean you shouldn't have a good time while you are here. Accept this as your reality and have fun |
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| Author: | socio [ Sat May 05, 2012 4:04 pm ] |
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Ok i get you and to be quite honest i do see that, in myself and others.... but game wouldn't be where it is today had people not asked those questions and thought rationally about things... I just have an extremely curious nature and really enjoy learning and i guess i just dig a little deeper than most people my age, which has led me to some confusion. |
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| Author: | Redlight [ Sat May 05, 2012 7:26 pm ] |
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Hey man, I have one advice for you... Figure out what is it you want out of life, is it being a PUA and dating hundreds of women or a regular guy having a family life just like almost everybody you and I know... As Mystery once said, "You are either a PUA, or an AFC"... It's great that you acknowledge the existence of social programming, now stop blaming it for what's not just the way you would have it in your life... And because I see you like quotes, how about this one: "Effectiveness is the measure of truth"... Hope I've not been too harsh... Bye! |
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| Author: | 1eye [ Sun May 06, 2012 5:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social programming affecting my life |
Quote: so is what your saying here that many of us have completely the wrong idea of love.....Love in a relationship is just sexual attraction to a women, is that the same for a man?
The sexual attraction is one part of the equation.There is also the emotional part.Im unsure as i've been so socially programmed myself that i just don't know how to be anymore.....i have the game telling me about evolution and that in reality life is much more simpler than portrayed by the media....BUT On the otherhand I am lucky enough at my young age to have successfull people around me who talk one hell of alot about spirtiuality and god..... and still see love as something to do with the soul. I feel like i need to make up my mind on which path i want to follow, so i can commit to a way of living. Do humans not feel some innate sense of something beyond ourselves isn't that how shahmans, spirituality and the whole idea of god came about? We are seeing only part of the picture.Please understand conventional spirituality and god are doctrinal and dogmatic in nature meaning if you want to go to heaven,you must obey god and what it entails.Whereas the others like new age simply recognises the oneness that we are all connected to each other and have a common destiny.Then there is the ancient taoist scientists that see man,nature and the connection to the vast universe as a single whole and it's inner workings. They understand that it's all about energy,human physical lifeforce interacting with nature and the universe.Basically it's about energetic harmony and it's principles that govern physical life force and whatever you call the external environment.If practiced properly it will lead to higher stage of enlightenment. To take a leaf from the taoists,PUA activity as practiced now with indiscriminate sexual energy discharged (ejaculation) will lead to a weaken physical state and shortened life span.That is quality of life will detoriate prematurely.There is over five thousand years of scientific study and experience in these statements.Sex according to the ancient scientists is used for healing and balancing of the yin(female) and yang (male) energies in men and women, promoting good health and spiritual enlightenment.Just read "The art of the bedchamber". Doing sex has it's place if done properly.Be a "jade dragon" and partner with a "white tigress or tigeresses".It's a spiritual connection at a high level.It's not about getting off or shooting your load.There are literature you can examine yourself.Then decide on the path you want to take.All the best. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Sun May 06, 2012 3:09 pm ] |
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Socio you are going through a tough time and is ok you are not a robot, i know you are reading 60 yoc, remember that is his view, his opinion, his take on relationships... Never forget that...Always think for yourself...Be your own Guru.. |
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| Author: | socio [ Sun May 06, 2012 5:20 pm ] |
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Quote: Then there is the ancient taoist scientists that see man,nature Socio you are going through a tough time and is ok you are not a robot, i know you are reading 60 yoc, remember that is his view, his opinion, his take on relationships... Never forget that...Always think for yourself...Be your own Guru..and the connection to the vast universe as a single whole and it's inner workings. They understand that it's all about energy,human physical lifeforce interacting with nature and the universe.Basically it's about energetic harmony and it's principles that govern physical life force and whatever you call the external environment.If practiced properly it will lead to higher stage of enlightenment. Sex according to the ancient scientists is used for healing and balancing of the yin(female) and yang (male) energies in men and women, promoting good health and spiritual enlightenment.Just read "The art of the bedchamber". This is what i was looking for...this makes things alot clearer and gives me a belief that i am happy with. This will really help me thankyou! Once again thanks for the advice skills, i always take it on board! |
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