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Author:  Warped Mindless [ Fri May 04, 2012 4:00 am ]
Post subject:  Why am I still here? (Goodbye?)

I'm starting to wonder why I'm still here. I have this area of my life handled and have had for a while now. I no longer peruse knowledge on this subject or seek to learn more about seduction. I don't make money from this as all advice I ever give out is free. Up until now I've been giving out free advice and coming here because I genuinely enjoy helping guys get this area of their life handled. At first I just got validation from it and I enjoyed it. Then, about a year ago, I truly just stopped caring about validation and just wanted to see men improve.

Now while I still like seeing men improve and still enjoy helping them, I simply don't seem to care. I'm not sure if that even makes sense. I've dedicated a lot of time on this forum helping people and have neglected some other important areas of my life because of it. I'm great at seducing woman and I have a fun lifestyle with cool friends. What I don't have, however, is complete social freedom. Basically, I'm not making the money I want to make. I have a small passive income stream that allows me to live without having to answer to a boss but its not enough to allow me to travel the world like I want too.

I think its time for me to perhaps say goodbye for a long while until I get everything in my life the way I want it. Not being able to travel and have complete social freedom is becoming a burden to my happiness and giving out advice on this forum and others takes a lot of time I could use towards making money.

Anyways gents, I feel like I probably won't be around much (or at all) for a long while. If I have been coaching you thru PM and stuff then I'm sorry but I gotta do what I gotta do.

Anyways guys, we'll see what the future holds but as of right now I'm saying good bye.

I mainly wrote this to link people who PMs me too so they will understand without me having to explain it to everyone every time.

Peace,
Jeff "Warped Mindless" Stanton.

Author:  Captain Catch [ Fri May 04, 2012 2:24 pm ]
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You are probably suffering burnout.

Sometimes one can have all the knowledge in the world, but are unable to put it into use. And sometimes knowing how to do things, doesnt mean able to do things. Just like a basketball coach who cant shoot a ball to save his life, but he can explain how to do it for someone else.

There is a misconception that becoming a PUA means that all in life is wonderful. This is nonsense, what people in the PUA business are really doing, is making a living. There is not enough room for 10,000 PUA instructors.

If it really was so wonderful, you wouldnt need to make a living, you'd simply roam around from bar to bar, country to country, and snap your fingers and have all the women in the world.

But you still have to make a living, pay the rent, worry about everything that others worry about,

This is the danger with PUA stuff, maybe it doesnt work if you dont do it 100%, changing the lifestyle etc, and maybe most people are unable to live that way.

You may learn pua stuff but what does it really mean? If you are hanging ona pua forum for years, evidently it means nothing.

Im not insulting you, im trying to help you understand. Life goes on PUA or not. It doesnt mean you wont struggle.

There are many areas of life that need to be addressed. From PUA to finding a great career, to making money, to planning for the future, and most importantly, being happy. Being happy would be first on my list, most of us are somewhat happy but not completely, others are never happy.

I think people get the idea that learning PUA will make you happy.

My advice would be, to forget about PUA for a while and develope other areas of your life.

Author:  P-Style [ Fri May 04, 2012 2:24 pm ]
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Reps for your input here.

Author:  SmoothOp [ Fri May 04, 2012 3:22 pm ]
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Always found your posts and input helpful and motivating. Good luck with all your aspirations and goals.

Author:  skills360 [ Fri May 04, 2012 4:09 pm ]
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:cry: Good luck dude! You were one of the best posters here...

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri May 04, 2012 9:38 pm ]
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You're very generous with your time and knowledge Jeff. Once again, thank you very much. :twisted:

Author:  Man In The Middle [ Fri May 04, 2012 10:44 pm ]
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Too bad to see you leaving. I am new here and to be honest out of all people on this forumyour guides and articles have been most helpful and interesting to me. Therefore I'd like to thank you for your input and dedication towards to this community.

//First post :oops:

Author:  Ezo [ Sat May 05, 2012 9:01 am ]
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Good luck in whatever path you decide to follow from here on. Remember that you always have a home at the forum if you wanna come back.

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