PUA Forum :: Shallow Hal Syndrome

Any other PUA's ever experience this?
You K close, things get hot, all of a sudden, you notice a mole, or she has hair that feels like a Brillo pad? an hour ago she was a HB8-9...now in your mind she drops to a 5. You either- forge through, bang her like it's a JOB! Or even not complete the F close?

Unconsciously treat them like garbage, and send them on their way?

The next time you see her, BAM, She's a 9 again?

Has it happened to YOU?

Hmm, seems like something else is at work here my friend...
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Once you 'get' her, she is no challenge anymore. The excitement has reached its peak and you start looking at the negatives instead of the positives.

And the next time you see her, she is a challenge again because you can't be sure of whether or not you 'have' her this time - until you 'get' her again and your excitement drops.

It's all ego-rooted.

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alcohol might play a good part on that. also your standards could be revised. That does happen to me but that's rare.
Usually I known what I want and don't settle for less then that.
you will feel a lot worse a few years from now when you realise that woman are all the same and that the thrilling of playing is almost gone.

I am 52....it's not gone yet!

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 02, 2012 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:	Shallow Hal Syndrome
Any other PUA's ever experience this? You K close, things get hot, all of a sudden, you notice a mole, or she has hair that feels like a Brillo pad? an hour ago she was a HB8-9...now in your mind she drops to a 5. You either- forge through, bang her like it's a JOB! Or even not complete the F close? Unconsciously treat them like garbage, and send them on their way? The next time you see her, BAM, She's a 9 again? Has it happened to YOU?

Author:	Techgame [ Wed May 02, 2012 4:24 pm ]
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Quote: Any other PUA's ever experience this? You K close, things get hot, all of a sudden, you notice a mole, or she has hair that feels like a Brillo pad? an hour ago she was a HB8-9...now in your mind she drops to a 5. You either- forge through, bang her like it's a JOB! Or even not complete the F close? Unconsciously treat them like garbage, and send them on their way? The next time you see her, BAM, She's a 9 again? Has it happened to YOU? Hmm, seems like something else is at work here my friend...

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 02, 2012 5:03 pm ]
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Quote: Hmm, seems like something else is at work here my friend... [img] Hahahaha

Author:	Little Panda [ Wed May 02, 2012 5:48 pm ]
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Once you 'get' her, she is no challenge anymore. The excitement has reached its peak and you start looking at the negatives instead of the positives. And the next time you see her, she is a challenge again because you can't be sure of whether or not you 'have' her this time - until you 'get' her again and your excitement drops. It's all ego-rooted. Try connecting with a woman at a deeper level, so you like her because of certain qualities and just because of her boobs. This way, your ego will fall back on the positive qualities after you get her rather than setting focus on the negatives. But who knows, ^that's just what makes sense to me at the moment.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 02, 2012 6:17 pm ]
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Quote: Once you 'get' her, she is no challenge anymore. The excitement has reached its peak and you start looking at the negatives instead of the positives. And the next time you see her, she is a challenge again because you can't be sure of whether or not you 'have' her this time - until you 'get' her again and your excitement drops. It's all ego-rooted. . Likely true, tried shrinking my ego, has not worked out well yet!

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Author:	Oxy [ Wed May 02, 2012 7:35 pm ]
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hahaha I could totally relate. Those times when your thoughts of disgust inside your head make you feel miserable during sex and you keep concentrating in order to maintain your boner

Author:	iamthegodofmilkshake [ Sun May 13, 2012 9:29 pm ]
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I'm exactly the same! Once I have sex with a girl, that's it, they are all of a sudden no where near as hot as before! Feels like a curse!

Author:	cerebralassassin [ Sun May 13, 2012 10:09 pm ]
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think about it like this: You decide that you wanna buy (for example) a rolex, as you think cool guys have a rolex and you wanna buy one. so you save up all your money and work overtime and give on your social life til you buy that rolex then you buy it then you realise your no different then before you had it now what you have is an expensive watch. youve invested money and time in getting it now you have it and it makes no difference. Putting it this way you invested time and effort in a girl after youve done the deed youve realised she just a normal person with normal flaws. youre basically putting the pussy on a pedestal where youre blinded by shadows. the after youve had sex she comes off the pedestal then you see her for what she is. its called having high expectations.... i just wrote a post on approach anxiety and theres a section thats relevant here we see this one girl and we believe her to be perfect. perfect hair teeth skin everything. Heres a newsflash SHE IS JUST LIKE ANY OTHER GIRL. she bleeds out of her vagina every month, she burps farts pisses and shits like any other girl she has bad breath when she gets up in the morning and she gets spots. There are girls who dont suffer from any of those they are called dead girls. when she is dead she wont do any of those things. until then she will do, live wth it! just because she is ultra attractive it doesnt mean that she doesnt do these things shes spend ages getting ready, hair makeup shaving her underarms legs and pubic hair it doesnt make her less human. if you cant live with that fact youre better off going celibate. think of her as a human being rather then an image that she may project, just because you perceive her to be perfect it doesnt make it fact!

Author:	peel [ Sat May 19, 2012 4:57 am ]
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yes i get this. but u guys are interpretting it to the extreme. i doubt everyone here initially thinks they are perfect. i think its just a matter of realizing flaws u didnt before. this regretably happens to me such as when this total 10 shows up at the convenience store with thick glasses like harry potter, a hunched back, look liked she didnt shower in days, etc. etc. turned into a 5 in front of my eyes. cant say it was all my fault.

Author:	Trotyl [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:57 am ]
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Happens about every time, pretty annoying...

Author:	unknownpoet [ Sat May 19, 2012 11:23 am ]
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alcohol might play a good part on that. also your standards could be revised. That does happen to me but that's rare. Usually I known what I want and don't settle for less then that. you will feel a lot worse a few years from now when you realise that woman are all the same and that the thrilling of playing is almost gone.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Sat May 19, 2012 1:34 pm ]
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Quote: alcohol might play a good part on that. also your standards could be revised. That does happen to me but that's rare. Usually I known what I want and don't settle for less then that. you will feel a lot worse a few years from now when you realise that woman are all the same and that the thrilling of playing is almost gone. I am 52....it's not gone yet!

Author:	unknownpoet [ Sat May 19, 2012 3:54 pm ]
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Quote: I am 52....it's not gone yet! I'm 27 and I'm already frustrated by all the futility. anyway age doesn't mean anything.

Author:	Slywalker [ Sat May 19, 2012 6:44 pm ]
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Dude, some girls only look good from far away with a ton of foundation and make up, plus the right lighting, I'm guessing these girls were no natural beauties to start with. You'll notice in the clubs that the girls that all guys want are usually the girls who had the most money to spend on their outfit, hair and make up. And a skinny body to use as blank canvas for the transformation. Once you see these girls in sunlight with less make up you realize that they were more like a 5 than a 10. Take it from me, I have woken up next to some of them, you thought you brought the hottest girl on town home and voila, surprise! It actually takes a bit of training to spot naturally pretty girls, I mastered it after a few mistakes, but it was fun practice along the way. Don't give up my friend!

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