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| Author: | xZEROx [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 12:10 pm ] |
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I want to take a new approach to learning/practicing/running/doing game , that is: focus on one BROAD concept (lots of inner game stuff) for a few weeks and see what happens, then another, so on and so forth. Lets say, just for a month focus on congruence - just be congruent to whatever state/mood i am in, or one month just focus on escalation - escalate in every interaction. When i say focus, i mean always have it in the back of my mind, plus pushing and exploring that concept/idea actively. Obviously not neglecting everything else e.g. i don't want to talk to anyone so i will be congruent to that lol. Would this be an effective way to develop myself? what are other ways people used to progress and push themselves? habits of success? how have the good become good? etc. (been doing cold approach 4times a week for 7months, never really had a plan before, just go out and push myself) |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 8:14 pm ] |
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This can be very useful if done properly. The way I used to do it was that I would go out and simply try my luck; socialize, kino, be sexual etc, and see what I'm really all about. I would then (after failing) go home and identify on a piece of paper (or with a friend) what my weaknesses are. As I've identified my flaws, I would prioritize them in order from 1 to 10. What do I need to improve the most? I would then focus on that one specific area and just work on that for a couple of approaches and see how I evolve. If the area that I was trying to improve was too small/too easy, I wouldn't hesitate to work on 2 or 3 things simultaneously. This would result in a very organized way of improving myself with concrete areas I needed help with. |
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| Author: | PlayHer Man [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 1:37 am ] |
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Inner game is the most important thing in the world to attracting women. There is really no consistency regarding the types of men attractive women date regarding outer game. One thing all men who date attractive women have in common is strong inner game or "comfort in their own skin". There is nothing more important. All the clothes, props and gimmicks will only get you so far if you lack inner strength and confidence. http://romancecheater.com/?p=93 |
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| Author: | Lockdown [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 12:10 pm ] |
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Definitely just practice as much as possible, identify your sticking points, work through them, keep challenging yourself, and practice practice practice. |
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| Author: | xZEROx [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:06 pm ] |
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i practice enough. but i do feel like i just go out, approach and hope to improve, i enjoy the idea of focusing on one particular area i am having trouble with... possible vague plan-ish thing/guide: identity weaknesses from recent interactions focus on that broad area for a few weeks explore/ play with it improve (hopefully) wash rinse and repeat the focus shall be more on broad concepts, still inner game mostly, though some outer game areas (maybe for a start going back to basics, opening - but more like hard opening, opening impossible sets, for confidence etc.) the idea of really breaking down interactions into nuts and bolts would put a too much of a analytic frame on it and probably blow up and distort certain parts inaccurately (people may have had experienced this, or the opposite?), asking wings for feedback and patterns of failure is always good, so long as they are competent themselves experience guys have you had a 'learning plan' as such |
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| Author: | Lockdown [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:15 am ] |
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What you've suggested above sounds like a good idea. The only thing I'd add would be to ensure that if you focus intently on a sticking point or weakness for awhile, you don't allow the other, stronger areas of your game to slip simultaneously. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:58 am ] |
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Dude, do what works for you. Never stop learning. I always call and talk with the PUAs I respect if I have questions. On here, I'll read the opinions of those I respect. Even now, when I have zero doubt in my ability to pick up pussy if/when I want it - I still try and learn. The secret to game in general is to make it so reflexive you never even think about it - it just happens. How do you get there..... practice practice practice. Work it brother. Failure is just one more example of what not to do next time... Rodeo. |
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| Author: | Mr Reactive Sweatman [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:18 am ] |
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everyone learns in a different way so id say go for it and see what happens. i like the sound of what you are saying though so i think i may give it a try. but also, just for where i am, i feel the most important thing for me is just going out as much as possible. i like the idea of prioritizing flaws 1-10 |
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