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Author:  The Wild One [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 4:54 am ]
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Certain ladies shouldn't be touched with a 10-foot pole, no matter how hot they are. Instead of giving in to temptation, distract yourself from the desire. Take a class, help kids or take in a ballgame, but whatever you do, stay away from these women you can never date. Generally, the reason to avoid these ladies has nothing to do with the woman herself, but it has everything to do with her context in your life.

Read on for a list of women you can never date, and save your reputation, your bank account, your job, and your friendships.

Your best friend's sister

The woman you know the best will often appeal to you the most. But if she is your best friend's sister, getting lucky can mean two months of fun followed by the need to move to another part of the city. She makes the list because as soon as sis becomes sweetheart, you'll be walking on eggshells with your buddy. Gone are the days of complaining to your friend about your women troubles because the conflict of interest ruins the good times, and the first time you make a mess of things, he will likely want to beat your ass.

Your secretary
There are plenty of reasons to keep your mitts off the help. It can get you into all kinds of trouble -- legal and otherwise -- should the relationship go south. But even if the fling goes well, you have problems. You'll soon be tempted to push the limits of what you can get away with at work, perhaps in the janitor's closet. Love at the office is an enormous distraction from your work, especially if you are in charge of her. Others are always watching what you are doing. Worst of all, once the relationship ends, she will enjoy leverage over you, and may use it simply by gossiping about what happened in the aforementioned closet.

The ex-girlfriend
Ex-girlfriends are one of the women you can never date. Yet, the ex-girlfriend becomes increasingly seductive as loneliness sets in. After several years of eating the only three meals you know how to prepare, you can easily get blown away when she follows up chicken parmesan one night with chicken marsala the next. She might clean your apartment one day while you were getting loaded at happy hour, and you'll want her there permanently. The loneliness will make you forget the reason the two of you broke up in the first place, but should you jump back into the relationship, those reasons will resurface in no time.

The hot trailer girl
Have you seen Maury Povich? Let that show be a warning to you if you are smitten by the hooker with a heart of gold. It's fool's gold -- the hot trailer girl is definitely one of the girls you can never date. The scenario goes something like this: You were in the club enjoying the company of a young woman whose breasts were rubbing against you like two sea lions on a beach, and then you got confused. Enjoy the one-nighter, but the next time you see her at bar time, you would be wise to end up at Denny's eating a Grand Slam breakfast.

Your friend's ex
When you witness the breakup of your buddy and his hot girlfriend, your mind will invariably wander to a place better left untouched. Since you’ve spent lots of time around her, you already have an established relationship -- albeit a non-sexual one. Chances are you already imagined what it would be like while she was still dating your pal, and her new freedom may pique your interest, but be forewarned: She is one of the women you can never date. If you value your friendship, avoid her at all costs. What men forget to consider is the aftermath of hooking up with a friend’s ex. The word will spread to everyone else in your circle about what type of friend you are, and you’ll kill your own reputation. It doesn’t matter how long ago they broke up, whether they’re friends now or not, if your buddy’s replaced her with a new girlfriend, the answer is always no. Unless, of course, you enjoy getting your ass kicked.

The high-maintenance piranha
If you value your money and your manhood, the high-maintenance chick is also one of the women you can never date. She will love you for your increased earnings at first, but then will consider you to be a soulless workaholic incapable of intimacy. Once you've built up a nest egg, her divorced friends will start directing her on how to devour that nest egg whole, just like a snake. She will give you the screw of a lifetime, but not the kind you’re seeking.

The stripper
Of the women you can never date, the stripper is worse than the hot trailer girl. No, she is not stripping to pay for school. Yes, she might be a hard-luck case, but sooner or later you will be acting like a body guard, thinking you can protect her honor from a rowdy bachelor party. If you think jealousy is beneath you, wait until you observe a private dance from afar when the john offers an extra C-note for a happy ending.

bad news babes


Just remember this next time these situations arise.

Author:  Mr Fahrenheit [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 5:42 am ]
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Most I agree with, but the best friends ex and sister arent untouchable you just have to be considerate of more people than yourself and the girl. If you are polite to them, and calmly explain to your friend about your request to court their ex or sister. They may either understand and sllow you or ask you as a friend not to. Just because they are somehow related to your friend does not mean they are off limits.

Author:  LuckyMan [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 6:53 am ]
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sometimes, the sister is ok, that is if your friend says so, which most do.

and the friends ex, so true, i did one of the worst things ever recently, and i went out with my brother's ex, my family was torn apart for the first 3 weeks of the relationship. learn from my mistake. i went for the light, i didn't have the strength to turn back. my penis got the best of me.

Author:  theguru [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 7:51 am ]
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I agree with basically everything above, but with an ex you can always hook up when you don't have anyone else. When you feel like having sex, she's just a phone call away ;-)

Author:  Rye Lee [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 10:51 am ]
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I disagree with the friend's ex. It is a circumstantial thing and shouldn't be generalized just because it is typically not done. I'd say the same for all of those, but that's hoping that along with social skills and pickup knowledge, we are also imparting you with the common sense to determine what is and what isn't socially acceptable.

Author:  zqawsxedcrfvtbgynhuj [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 8:36 am ]
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i also disagree with the best friend's sister. Unless your best friend thinks you're a sex fiend (which would be odd of a best friend...) then he should be happy that his sister settled on someone he already approves of.

Author:  sneak [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 8:52 am ]
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i know from experience that the ex girlfriend is baddd. especially if she still wants you.. cuz then when you're out with that other chick you're trying to score. that ex comes up to you saying how last night was great and that she'd like to do it again sometime. that's a massive bust.

Author:  3 hands [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 1:31 pm ]
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If you can really make the friends sister work out WELL and stay with her it'll be a good one, however what are the chances of you keeping her (pretty small)

Friends ex, only in a town with 6 ish young people. She is also hanging out with your friend even if the 2 don't like eachother, she does have investment in him and she will stray.

And have one of my own to add. Any girl you live with. (if shes not the love of your life and you decide its time to move in thogether) Girls you live with should be avoided. You see them daily and well you have to live with them. You can firt a bit but thats where it needs to end.

Author:  chio [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 2:19 pm ]
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Don't forget Women You Work With. I never want to have to deal with an ex on a near-daily basis.

Author:  Rye Lee [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 1:07 am ]
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Roommates are a bad choice too! Had to live with a girl for 7 months after the relationship went sour and it was NOT pretty.

Author:  Roads [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:13 pm ]
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Roommates are a bad choice too! Had to live with a girl for 7 months after the relationship went sour and it was NOT pretty.
Lol man that's rough. Did she bitch about the toilet seat a lot? My trick was to just sit on the porcelain rim :D

I agree with the stripper reference: just look what it did to Mystery.

Author:  Mr Fahrenheit [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 1:44 pm ]
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Most I agree with, but the best friends ex and sister arent untouchable...
hmm, im going to retract the best friends ex option. That really exploded in my face tonight. Gonna have to take shit from him for a long time now.

Author:  The Doctor [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 7:09 pm ]
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Quality post here.

Obviously as some have stated here, there can be excaptions to almost all of these rules... however for the vast majority of the time I completly agree, these are girls who would not be the best to date.

Now theres a couple on the list who can be fun to associate with on strictly sexual terms... but then again I don't think fuck buddies qualifies as dating :wink:

Author:  Rye Lee [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 10:05 pm ]
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Roommates are a bad choice too! Had to live with a girl for 7 months after the relationship went sour and it was NOT pretty.
Lol man that's rough. Did she bitch about the toilet seat a lot? My trick was to just sit on the porcelain rim :D

I agree with the stripper reference: just look what it did to Mystery.
Nah, it was in a level dorm with the girls upstairs with their own bathrooms thankfully.

If you ever get the chance to live in a house with 11 other people, I highly recommend it, you learn a lot of things about social dynamics. Just no fucking dating the roommates (fucking can be ok) because it gets ugly if things go sour. Also, make sure it isn't 11 people in a 2 bedroom place or a warehouse or something, we're talking dorms or other multi-dwelling units.

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