Important note: This post may change you for the better and force you to improve for real.
Ever asked about a witty comeback or a way to act alpha?
Guess what, you are starting in the wrong end.
You wanna talk tough, you wanna act cool, you wanna act like the prize, yeah, I totally get that, just remember that you shouldnt play with more than you are prepared to lose.
If you for example tell a girl that "You and me are never gonna work" and expect her to say oooh, nooo, we so will, be prepared that she might say "oh, ok, fine".
If you neg a girl for whatever, like "thats not your real haircolor", be prepared that she may say stuff like "yeah, and youre bald" if you are.
If you dish it out, you gotta be able to take it too. If you act tough, you gotta be tough! If you play hard to get, you will do well to keep in mind that she may just lose interest. Same thing with a freezeout.
I see so many posts where people have acted like assholes and the girl have responded in a bad way to that. Now they are back to ask what to do about the situation they put themselves in. The obvious answer is, dont put yourself in that situation next time. If you tell her that you arent into her, dont be surprised if she finds someone else who is.
If you wanna act like she doesnt matter and be the prize who has a million girls waiting their turn, make sure that you actually do, or you are gonna be very disappointed when they say, "ah ok sure have a nice life".
Basically what I am saying, if you arent 100% honest, she may call your bluff. And when she does, you are in for pain.
Second thing I wanna say. If you are planning to use techniques that you havent fully mastered, do NOT use them on "that" one girl. If she is important to you, dont play a game you cannot handle. I see so many posts about "that" one girl, who people have been in love with since forever. And now they start out with PUA and suddenly have so much material and enough confidence to approach that one girl.
And what do they do? Neg neg neg, freezeout, neg, push pull, cocky funny, alpha male behaviour etc etc.
You see how this is not working unless you know what you are doing. One day nice and then suddenly, boom. You act all tough and start acting like an asshole. I dont know why she stopped talking to me, I was just being really sexual, rubbing my cock on her leg while acting alpha and punched her in the boob while telling her that her shoes look stupid and Id rather fuck her sister than her. Gee, I wonder why she isnt that interested anymore.
So people, dont let your game write checks that your heart cant cash. _________________ I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.
bbardot: you just reminded me about porn
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