So valentines day is almost around the corner, everyone is going to get your significant other something while you are lonely and bitter. Thing is you believe you aren't meant to be loved, maybe you think the right one has yet to come along, maybe you are just flat out lonely and think you need some love. If you are happy being lonely, disregard this topic, if not, then pay attention.
Who the f*ck are you?
I am a former teenage virgin, a guy who has been through the misery of being a loner in high school (though my high school rarely had enough people in it so it wasn't as bad). A guy who has gone through valentines day after valentines day being lonely in public while others enjoyed their love. A guy who has had to sit through movies alone while other couples were kissing and making out. Now I am the guy who turned it all around. Now you know me, I have been in your shoes before, now I give you advice.
Why you are in your situation.
Instead of telling you that you are a shy p*ssy, I will actually tell you the reality. Unfortunately, some guys have it easier than others, not by genetics but by situation. If you are home schooled throughout your childhood, that decreases your chance of getting a lot of numbers and fooling around with girls. If you go to a small college or live at home while going to college, that decreases your chances. The most successful people find a way to work around their circumstances no matter how difficult they are.
Chances are that something happened to you throughout life which impacted how you present yourself to others. And there is a pretty good chance your area is limiting. I have seen it to be the case often. And lastly such limitations hurt your attitude. Which I will give you suggestions on how to improve.
And now for the suggestions, top 5 things you should do to improve your situation.
1. If you are in your 20s and still living with mom and dad, MOVE OUT. Period, if you living at home, bringing girls over can become tougher than living on your own. Sure living on your own will be hard but you will develop mentally, be more active, be more responsible as you have your own duties, and it will be less awkward taking a girl home and making out with her while your parents are not that far away.
2. Give up your idea of the "perfect" girl. Seriously, it makes me mad when guys think they will find that one woman who is a virgin, really good looking, and has a great personality. Doesn't exist, even if there are some out there, they are not saving themselves up for you. If you are attracted to a girl, GO FOR IT! Again, being independent does help a lot in terms of getting a girl but you can do it even if you live with your parents.
3. WORK ON YOURSELF. PUA and "game" are good, but make it easier for yourself. Seriously, MOST WOMEN will not date a fat, smelly, and unkept guy, just won't happen. Hit the gym, try new fashion clothing, shower DAILY, and keep yourself clean, it will only help and make it easier on you.
4. Get a SOCIAL LIFE first. Make friends, many friends. Friends will be very helpful in hooking you up. I have managed to meet girls just through my friends. IF A girl friendzones you, keep it that way, she can hook you up with some girls she may know.
5. Cut off all connection from internet forums, most of the time you will be associating with people who don't have much experience with being players or whatever themselves. There is no amount of PUA, reading, or shortcuts which will beat experience. Experience is when you have learned to take a rejection and suck it up and move on with it.
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But I can't bring myself to stop going on internet forums 
I haven't seen many couples today anyways 
(Funnily enough though it used to be the sort of thing that bothered me, seeing couples snogging on park benches etc. I think that that is just the kinda 'loser mentality' that the OP is aimed at).
If you have strong fingers like me, you can probably do a pull up on the door frame. Heck only reason I stopped using the door frame was because I got paranoid about hurting my hands but I don't think that's really such an issue.