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| Author: | Qlass [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 4:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Advice Dating two women who are friends and are OK with it |
Long story short - Been seeing a few different girls, met them through a single's event. Seen girl A two times and girl B once. Had girl A over for dinner Friday night (now third time seeing her) and had already made plans to meet up with girl B on Saturday. Part way through dinner on Friday I find out that girl A and B both know each other. They're both friends. Suddenly I'm like... ah fuck. Girls talk. I'm screwed because they know I'm playing them. Cannot figure out how to get myself out of this hole. Me and Girl A talk about it, and she was worried I'd feel like she and her friend (B) were ganging up on me and playing me. We clear the air and I basically find out that they are OK with each of them dating me. Girl A will go out with me as long as she doesn't have to hear about B, and B can go out with me as long as she doesn't have to hear about A. That night got to 2nd base with Girl A. Wanted to F-close but she said she wanted to take things slow and get to know each other more. Balls. Never been in a situation like this. Most people I talk to about this agree that it is fucked up that two girls would be OK with dating the same guy, though it isn't unheard of. This can go one of three ways: 1) Nothing happens / I walk away / shit blows up in my face 2) I only get together with one of them. 3) I fuck both of them and at some point all three of us get together. So looking for honest and useful experience and insights here. How likely / possibly is it to get option #3? I don't mean to be greedy but a situation like this doesn't come along very often. I would ideally like to F-close both of them at some point but the ultimate goal would be the threesome. Thoughts? Q. |
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| Author: | hardkink [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:02 am ] |
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Just because you f-close both doesn't mean you're getting a threesom. Odds are you can f-close both. But if they don't want to hear about the other the chance of the 3some is slim to non. They're just not going to be with you together... and even if the are. You're going to have a hard time f-closing. I would say that easily 75% of the girls I sleep with know each other and are friends. I'm from a small town (50k people) and I frequent the same bars and same stores/restaurants. It's my age group is one big social circle. For instance. I have fucked my ex-wifes best friend, then the same night fucked her roommate on my boat in front of her. Then the fallowing month fucked her other really close friend at her birthday party. Not bragging but my point is it's pretty easy to lay girl friends. They talk they all want what the other has. But the closest I've been to a threesome was with my buddy and I fucking two girls in the same bed when I picked up a double set who wouldn't leave each other. We didn't trade girls so it wasn't really a threesome. I'd say just act like they don't know each other and keep your mouth shut. Pretend you're cheating on them. |
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| Author: | Qlass [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:10 am ] |
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Fair point. Thanks for the tip. I'm mid-twenties as are they. Is it just me or is it really fucked up that two girls would be OK fucking the same guy? I mean if it were two guys and one girl, there would be, what, a code of honour? A bond of friendship? Simple basic desire to not want drama? At the very most a competition to win the one girl's heart? But this... this just seems twisted. Q. |
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| Author: | hardkink [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:41 am ] |
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In my eyes it's just you. LOL but then again I'm fucking two sisters right now... Honestly I have fucked a good majority of my friends ex's... and vice versa. It's just not a big deal to me. I don't go behind anyone's back though... well I did once. But the guy was a douche. He took my girlfriend out (who I was living with) and gamed her by talking shit about me. So I fucked his girlfriend and then she broke up with him. That was really low of me but the guy owns a strip club... she didn't mean much to him. |
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| Author: | Qlass [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:50 am ] |
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I guess it's just what you're used to. I've been in enough "love triangles" to know that it's just a huge mess. The friendships have always survived but it's a simple rule that you just don't go after your buddy's romantic interest. That being said I've never had to deal with douche strip club owners who game my girlfriends. Q. |
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| Author: | hardkink [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:59 am ] |
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I'm not sure where you're from but around here it's fairly common for us to cross those bounties. The truth is there are probably 500 girls in this town I'd consider hooking up with. Of those girls at least 90% are in LTR's or aren't sociable. So I'd considered my pond to only hold 50 +/- women at any given time who are available. Those 50 girls change week to week and they pass between friends. It's just how things around here are. I'm sure other places are different. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 12:00 pm ] |
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Quote: Fair point. Thanks for the tip. I'm mid-twenties as are they.
How is it different just because its two girls and one guy? We are here in a pickup site discussing how to fuck multiple women with no strings attached. Don't be surprised if these girls are fucking other dudes, in fact you should want that.
Is it just me or is it really fucked up that two girls would be OK fucking the same guy? I mean if it were two guys and one girl, there would be, what, a code of honour? A bond of friendship? Simple basic desire to not want drama? At the very most a competition to win the one girl's heart? But this... this just seems twisted. Q. |
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