Anyone got massage tips? I've massaged ex girlfriends and they all said it was great, but I don't know... Had no idea what I was doing really. Any videos or something?

Really getting touchy is what its all about. Massage is good.

I sometimes watch TV with a girl (when I was still in uber PUA mode) then kind of hug her and see her comfort to it. I would also show her a vid online or something and make her sit on my lap. It just worked well.

I have done it at the office to my coworkers and Im sure there must be a way in wich you can turn her fucking imagination on and the next day she would like to take you home.

I know Im asking too much, but is there a way to make a sexual massage non sexual on the looks to others so you know the girl would be anxious to take you home?

I am a simple man, so sorry for my lack of vocabulary and mental masturbation... But if you want an easy guarantee way to get laid, get to the point were you can give a woman a massage, it does many things if you do it right: first women love massages, so they will never reject a massage, it almost completely kills the asd (anti-slut defense), it relaxes the girl, and the main part if you do it right IT TURNS HER ON A LOT, and built tension and anticipation...other tips, music, masagers (the weird cheap ones at the malls, also when you bring a girl back to the house telling her that you got a show her something back home, mystery, you can pull out the massager and say "here is the surprise and immediately start with her back) candle lights and lightning and all that gay shit a plus but not needed...Concentrate on the regular massage for the first 5-15 minutes, then switch gears to erotic massage(massage in ways that stimulate the pussy without touching it, for example upper tights and butt) if you do not believe me the crazy effects of a massage, google hidden/spy carama japanese massage porn... Also i highly recommend the book sex god, by Rose for bedroom skills.... And also lesbian massage porn... Yes i am a pervert and proud of it! By the way for all the nay sayers and haters before you jump in, i already got people on the forum laid with this...

Skills, I have a question for you. Have you ever just kissed a girl as soon as you walked in then ripped her clothes off then bent her over a counter and fucked her? Completely by surprise and overwhelmingly aggressive.

I totally back up what skills360 said. Massages are always a great way to get past the ASD, here is a little guide I show people (Non-Pua's) to help with massaging:

1. Be soft with your initial touches. You don't know about previous/current injuries.
2. Girls like to talk to a lot when getting massaged, tell them to 'shut up and relax.'
3. Tell them to focus on breathing out of there mouth, and in through their nose *Big hint* doing this alone can relax a person. If you are touching them, they will think they are relaxing because of you.
4. Everyone, literally everyone, has tension in their shoulders. Always start there.
5. Like everything in life, the more you do this, the better you will get at noticing tension in different areas.
6. The best tip, find the middle spot of any muscle. Place your index finger on it. As the person breathes in, relax your finger. As the person breathes out, tense and push on the muscle. Keep repeating this until your finger is as tensed as possible, or as far as the person feels comfortable. When you're done, (THIS PART IS KEY), do not remove your finger right away, but VERY SLOWLY relax your finger off the person--the slower the better. Everyone melts with this technique.

If you are scared of being completely inexperienced, I recommend you try this on your friends/family first. Why? Because everyone can use a little back rub every once in awhile, and who's more deserving of a shoulder rub, some HB, or your mother/family members.

Best,
Samex

PS: There is so much more to massages and other benefits besides PU stuff. If you have any questions, please ask.