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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 9:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Having trouble achieving my best state |
My most outgoing state is one of high energy, and I can easily be the life of the party once I tap into it. However, I've rarely been able to achieve this state on campus. While hanging out with close friends, I can achieve it very easily. I end up telling jokes that are so funny that people still bring them up years later. I have some confidence issues, but I do believe in myself, and I have been successful, off campus, in the past. The point is that I'm quite capable of leading a discussion and keeping people interested. My problem seems to be that I have trouble triggering my most outgoing state. On my technical college campus, everyone seems to be so isolated, and people scarcely talk to others they don't know. I think that I'm being sucked into the school's world of isolation, and letting the party control me instead of taking control of the party form the jump; Tyler Durden would not be very happy with me,lol. Can anyone offer any tips on how to unleash my true personality on campus? |
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| Author: | tornadox [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 9:29 pm ] |
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Dont think about it. Just do it |
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| Author: | Jav [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:59 am ] |
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Because you didn't start crackin jokes out of nowhere with your friends either. It takes a build-up of positive/negative feedback before you know what to do and what not to do Keep going approaching, basically. Also, just because people don't tend to, doesn't mean they can't. |
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