I've been out of the game for about 6 or 7 months. I have to say it wasn't voluntary, I caught an STD and it sidelined me for a while. Let's just say I didn't even want to leave the bench... Well I've spent the last 6 months working on my career, its almost consumed my life, but I'm happy with how far I've come. I'm starting to want to make a return, but I'm concerned about my status. No matter how much money I make/have, it can't cure what some cunt gave me. I'm not really looking for a quick lay, but at the same time I don't want to delay it too long to where she loses interest and thinks I'm a pussy. I want to build enough comfort to the point where even if its not love, she would at least be OK with sleeping with me if I'm responsible enough to tell her. I don't know how many people here have had to deal with this (let me emphasize: deal with this RESPONSIBLY), but I'm hoping someone can speak from experience. I'm not a total AFC/noob, but I hit a mental wall everytime I'm on the brink of moving in. Everytime I think about being intimate, it hits me that she's eventually going to realize that she won't be able to do all the things she could do with some other guys. And the last thing I want to do is get her hot and have her halfway in bed and then say, oh by the way...

Can anyone speak on this?

I'm confused.. why can't you get head? HSV-2 typically doesn't spread very easily orally.. and when it does, people usually only ever have one outbreak (and it's just like having oral HSV-1 which pretty much everyone already has - 80% of the population).

This comment leads me to believe you have not done the proper research on your STD and you're panic is based more on public stigma than on facts.

-Wolf