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| Author: | snubby (aka Zen) [ Wed Dec 05, 2007 2:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A Giggle is Enough |
I just posted this at my Zen of Meeting Women blog. I hope you find it helpful: ======================================= A Giggle is Enough What if you decided you wanted to learn to fly an airplane, but you knew nothing about it? Would you just climb in the cockpit of a 747 and give it a try? What would your odds of success be? What are the odds that you crash and burn? I see many people new to the “Pickup Artist” community trying to become Mystery or Style or Juggler or whomever overnight. They can’t understand why they hit sticking points, and sometimes assume it’s something wrong with them. The problem is, you need to learn every step of the process in a logical progression. Whether you use Mystery Method, Zen Method, or whatever method, you need to take it a step at a time and work on the areas where you get stuck. For many beginners, the approach is the biggest hurdle, and for many “Master Pickup Artists” approach anxiety is still an issue. Working on this issue in isolation will help you build your “approach muscles” to the point that you can then concentrate on other aspects of your method. One easy way to do this is set a very easy goal for yourself. Approach women and say something, anything, that will get them to laugh, giggle, or at least smile. That’s it. After that if you want to just walk off, or say, “nice talking to you,” and walk off, that’s fine. Very low pressure. Just get the giggle and go. You’ll learn a lot of things from this simple exercise. First, that you will get a positive response from almost every woman you approach. It’s amazing how friendly most women are. Second, you get a real buzz from this. It’s fun to interact with other people. Just by virtue of being human, even if you consider yourself the most anti-social person on earth, the truth is your brain is hard wired for social interaction. Tapping into that part of yourself feels good, even if you have to dust off some cobwebs first. Finally, I think you’ll find that you want the interaction to continue. The nervousness becomes secondary to the desire to keep it going. How to keep it going is detailed in my book, as well as the many other methods out there. Pick one and study it. Once you’re consistently getting the giggle, you’ll want to start going for the gold. Good luck. |
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| Author: | The Bad Guy [ Wed Dec 05, 2007 9:57 pm ] |
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Dude. I REALLY like this. I personally think the noobie mission of walking and saying "hi" to every woman is unnatural. It looks like something out of "The Roxberry". But this "Get a giggle" mission is pretty cool. I see potential for making open ended funny, RANDOM statements. |
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| Author: | snubby (aka Zen) [ Wed Dec 05, 2007 10:20 pm ] |
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The more you do it the more natural it will feel and the better it will come off. Women will assume you're just naturally a social guy, which they love. Thanks for your comment, I'm glad you liked the post. |
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| Author: | Enchantment [ Sun Dec 09, 2007 7:30 pm ] |
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I agree with Zexy, this is a great idea, Zen! Thanks! |
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