The most important number in pickup.
My last employer (a wealthy, successful builder with literally tons of assets and opportunity) once told me:
“Common sense rules the world. Forget all that stuff you learn in college, because it won't get you anywhere... COMMON SENSE, however, will get you anything you want.”
It is with this spirit I write this post. I hope this helps you.
What if I told you there is ONE number that determines your success (or your FAILURE) in the game?
Would you make a promise to TRACK, and pay attention to, and IMPROVE this number? I know the smart players will.
The “average” guys (who get no or very little results) will read this entire post, SAY to themselves that they'll start doing something about it, and then work on it for a bit, and then fall off... in search of the next big breakthrough.
The smart players will actively improve and focus on this number, because they are committed to having HOT sex with HOT girls for the rest of their lives! I hope you're in THIS camp with me.
So here's the number you need to focus on.
The number of sexable women you talk to each week.
How many do you have today? How many SEX WORTHY women did you talk to today? Existing friends or complete strangers, online or IRL... it all counts!
Do you even know?
OK... think back to last week... how many “sexable” women did you talk to last week? They can be friends... NEW women from cold approaches, or even girls at the store swiping your debit cards.
THEY ALL COUNT.
Every interaction with a sexy woman is a brick in your palace. This is how you get real good, and real (consistent) success. This is how you build your stable of friends with benefits.. or get a girlfriend. YOU INCREASE THIS ONE NUMBER.
I have a lot of VERY successful friends. These are guys who absolutely slay it almost every night we go out. Key word: go out.
The true players in this world INTERACT with lots of women. It's just what they do. There's no pressure. No seeking. And no rejection. These guys are LOVERS of women. They feel better talking to a woman than talking to anyone else. It's who they've become.
I recently “reconnected” with an old player friend of mine. One of the first things he said to me was “Dude, we gotta hang out soon I can tell you're really funny around chicks.” I said “Oh thank you I like to think so.” And he added “I feel MOST confident when I'm around beautiful girls” How awesome is THAT belief?
Pretty sweet!
You may be someone who thinks that's an ODD thing to say to an old friend... but that just goes to show you how KEYED IN most players are. They KNOW when they meet another powerful guy. You do too, I know you do!
Real players understand people, and this isn't an accident! This is a RESULT of being a man who opens his mouth and LOVES interacting sexable women!
STEP ONE:
So what you need to do is GET A CALENDAR. Hang it on your wall beside your computer, and get in the HABIT of tracking your most important number. Every day, mark how many girls you talked to. Here's my calendar:
If you really focus in and start to work on this number, your social life (and your sex life) will get DRAMATICALLY better, even without strategy!
You'll get more confident, more comfortable, and fuckin SUPER savvy if you keep this habit long-term. Even a couple interactions a day will CHANGE YOU into the man you want to be.
So any chance you get, you can ask yourself: “How can I raise my number?” or “Where can I go RIGHT NOW and talk to sexable chicks?”
(BTW, phone contact, and online counts too, as long as it's balanced with REAL WORLD conversations.)
Remember, every interaction is a brick in your palace.
May your palace be filled with vagina!
Mattdub1
