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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 3:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | How long does a pick up take? |
Well, obviously it takes a different amount of time for each person and each skill level. But here's something I've noticed . . . Most guys will go out, especially newer ones, early in the night and stay as long as they can. Well, this is actually a good thing. You can practice more, learn to calibrate more, get more experience, all of that stuff. I did it that way myself at first. Once you get more experience, I've found that you only need to go out on a weekend night to say a club for an hour or two. Two hours will give you PLENTY of time to open sets, build social proof, dance if you want to and are any good, and even get kiss closes and number closes. And, you can accomplish this with more than one target as well, in that same two hour span. It's amazing what you can accomplish in just a couple of hours. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 4:21 am ] |
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I agree with you here. I don't spend as much time out in a venue as I used to. However, I may hit up several places if I'm feeling frisky, LOL. Depending on how things go, I may complete a bounce to another location to do more comfort building and have an "instant date." Like you said a few hours is typically all I need in a place to do what I need to. |
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| Author: | kinoescalator [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:38 am ] |
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I agree with you too man. Couldnt have said it better. Interesting thing, as i do more and more sets a night (Actually did 9 sets last night) and its easier for me to aproach (Now its like really easy)....i dont find nearly as many girls in the club attractive. Maybe its just the way its been around here lately? Did this happen to you guys when u went from AFC to PUA? |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 8:54 am ] |
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Honestly, that's very true. It's like Mystery says, "beauty is common, what else do you have going for you?" Man, girls can easily make themselves look attractive. But, what kind of intelligence do they have? When you start talking to them, not many of them are that intelligent, actually. At least, that's my opinion. And no, I'm not the guy that hates girls. In fact, I LOVE girls, but they put everything into their looks and don't always put effort into their brains. I don't know if that's why they're not attractive to you, or if there is some other reason. There actually is one other thing with me too. Sometimes a girl looks better from a distance than up close. But, even at that, if she's got brains and a personality, that will make up for it. But there are a lot of girls that just don't have the personality. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Dec 03, 2007 12:45 pm ] |
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I'm totally with you guys. You know after approaching all these 8s & 9s women just don't hold that "I'm beautiful, you're not" superpower over me anymore. Like you all said, "Beauty is common!" Looks will get you talking to them, but they better have some more stuff going on for them. |
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| Author: | gyarados [ Mon Dec 03, 2007 6:49 pm ] |
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I pick-up can take 10 seconds as my brother was in a club at like 2am and a random girl grabbed his ass and he took her to her flat and F-closed her. and I had wasted all that time in the earlier pub trying to talk to a girl while him and my "mate" ruined my confidence by saying "well, looks like we're staying here all night then I think it all depeneds on the buying temperature, if a girl has been hit on by othre guys and they make her attracted, then that can switch rto another guy at the last minute. Someone in "the game" said the average woman takes 7 hours to be comfortable with having sex with you |
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