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Author:  Warped Mindless [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 5:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Being Efficient = Getting laid
ef·fi·cient/iˈfiSHənt/
Adjective:

1. (esp. of a system or machine) Achieving maximum productivity with minimum wasted effort or expense.
2. (of a person) Working in a well-organized and competent way.

I have a close friend, Brad, who I met through the community. Brad, unlike most "puas" I have met is actually quite good but Brad has a problem (not that he cares though), he is terribly inefficient with his "game."

You see, Brad has some amazing pickup skill and for a while was even a seduction coach until he got bored of that job. His escalations are smoother than mine, he is better looking than me, he is slightly more charismatic than myself. His voice tone is slightly better and his body language is at least on par with mine... possibly better. Like me he melts women with his seductive eye contact. In a nuthsell, his "technical game" is all seemingly better than mine is... but here is the crazy part: I pull women (who are just as hot as the ones he pulls) back to my place faster, more consistently, and with less effort.

How can this be? Its because I'm more efficient with my game.

When we go out he usually waits until hes in the club to meet women while I'll approach women on the street before we get to the club. Nighttime street game is MUCH easier than club game. The same woman who rejects you in the club may have been escalating on you out on the sidewalk outside the club.

Brad also will just approach the first hottie that he sees. Nothing wrong with that and I also do it myself. However, I also take a moment to actually look around and look for the women who seem like they are more down to fuck.

- Lone wolfs
- Women who are showing more skin than most other girls
- Chicks who dont look like they club a lot
- The older chicks in the room. (A woman who is 27 in a room full of 19 year olds would count as the older woman)

Any woman who fits into the above category is easy pickings.

In addition to that, I'm also very aware of when a woman in giving me approach invitations.

- Proximity
- Glances at me
- Open body language towards me

Usually a woman who wants you to talk to them will display at least one of those signs but usually at least two.

NOTICE Don't use this stuff as an excuse not to approach. "Oh well no woman is giving me approach invitations." "Well, looks like there are no down to fuck girls here." Approach a chick you find hot anyways.

Make your game efficient and get more women.
Author:  SamSamSam [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 7:55 pm ]
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Great advice bro. I'm trying to get good fast and will definitely keep this in mind.
Author:  lolaskate [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 11:50 pm ]
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Good stuff.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 7:29 am ]
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Great advice bro. I'm trying to get good fast and will definitely keep this in mind.
Thanks man and good luck!
Author:  Cornishman [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 4:33 pm ]
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im a newbie but that sounds like too much thinking for me.

unless you are incredibly advanced I'd say open the first chick you see when you are NOT in set. Then let the natural progression of that happen to meet all the girls you want to in the club.

This way you dont think too much, stay out of head and when you come across the girls you DO want, it comes across less like "oh this guy walked up to me to hit on me". Also makes you less outcome dependant if you're just opening everyone around you.


Im not hating on your advice, i just don't think its useful for people who arent extremely experienced and advanced.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 6:32 pm ]
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im a newbie but that sounds like too much thinking for me.

unless you are incredibly advanced I'd say open the first chick you see when you are NOT in set. Then let the natural progression of that happen to meet all the girls you want to in the club.

This way you dont think too much, stay out of head and when you come across the girls you DO want, it comes across less like "oh this guy walked up to me to hit on me". Also makes you less outcome dependant if you're just opening everyone around you.


Im not hating on your advice, i just don't think its useful for people who arent extremely experienced and advanced.
I partly agree. :)

As a new guy you should be working on approaching women and certainly not using the "well im not getting any approach invites so I better not approach anyone" excuse. Judging from you post I doubt you would suffer from that anyways.

However, it use useful to have in the back of your mind.

Lets say you spot two hotties. One gave you glancing eye contact multiple times, the other doesn't know you exist yet. The one you should approach is obvious.
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stay out of head and when you come across the girls you DO want, it comes across less like "oh this guy walked up to me to hit on me".
You just walked up to her, shes going to think your hitting on her no matter what.

Besides that, if she doesn't think your hitting on her then your not be direct and sexual enough.
Author:  P-Style [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 9:01 pm ]
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I like this post. Has got good logic points.
Author:  skills360 [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 9:42 pm ]
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Brad also will just approach the first hottie that he sees. Nothing wrong with that and I also do it myself. However, I also take a moment to actually look around and look for the women who seem like they are more down to fuck.

- Lone wolfs
- Women who are showing more skin than most other girls
- Chicks who dont look like they club a lot
- The older chicks in the room. (A woman who is 27 in a room full of 19 year olds would count as the older woman)

Any woman who fits into the above category is easy pickings.

In addition to that, I'm also very aware of when a woman in giving me approach invitations.

- Proximity
- Glances at me
- Open body language towards me

Usually a woman who wants you to talk to them will display at least one of those signs but usually at least two.



Excellent as always!!!!! Moreover, the way they dance by themselves or with other guys, the way the interact with other guys, but those guys don't close or do not befriend the friends, or she loses interest(chodes/afc) then you can jump in and take over... nice nice!
Author:  trixsta [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 5:18 pm ]
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Perhaps Brad is not so much into looking for the girls who are down to fuck, but more interested in the hotties (and, as you said - there's nothing wrong with that).
Author:  Illogical5 [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 7:29 pm ]
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Good advice. Do you think the same rules apply for a house party SPAM?
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 2:07 am ]
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Perhaps Brad is not so much into looking for the girls who are down to fuck, but more interested in the hotties (and, as you said - there's nothing wrong with that).
Look for the hotties who are also DTF :wink:
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 2:08 am ]
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Good advice. Do you think the same rules apply for a house party SPAM?
Yes.
Author:  mesohorny [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 7:49 am ]
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OP: when was the last time you got laid ?
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:26 am ]
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OP: when was the last time you got laid ?
lol, last night with the GF.
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