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Author:  Guess [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 4:49 am ]
Post subject:  Married, Military, what to do?
Ok here's the situation, I work with this Hb 9 and she pretty awesome. Only 20 years old and already married. Didn't date this guy to long and got married. He is in the military and now he is gone all the time.

We flirt alot at work, and as of recently she has been more touchy. We are servers so when she walks by she likes to touch and so on. Then I challenged her to arm wrestle(Kino). I let her act like she was a challange then I beat her.

I told her since she is not a very good arm wrestler are thier any sports you are good at? She said a few and I told her we'll play tennis and she agreed and gave me her #. So we will play tomorrow.

I want to know what yall think about this situation, If I should pursue, and do you think she is giving IOI's and is interested.
Author:  Z.dub [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 5:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Married, Military, what to do?
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Ok here's the situation, I work with this Hb 9 and she pretty awesome. Only 20 years old and already married. Didn't date this guy to long and got married. He is in the military and now he is gone all the time.

We flirt alot at work, and as of recently she has been more touchy. We are servers so when she walks by she likes to touch and so on. Then I challenged her to arm wrestle(Kino). I let her act like she was a challange then I beat her.

I told her since she is not a very good arm wrestler are thier any sports you are good at? She said a few and I told her we'll play tennis and she agreed and gave me her #. So we will play tomorrow.

I want to know what yall think about this situation, If I should pursue, and do you think she is giving IOI's and is interested.
This is a question of morals.

Personally, I would not game her because of my respect for the military. The guy is serving his country and military wives need to be loyal to their men. If the guy was some cooperate pawn who didn't pay her enough attention, that'd be a different story in my book.

So if I were in your shoes, I would entertain her for practice (and possibly use as a pivot in the field later on), but not escalate to anything physical.
Author:  saqchek [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 3:31 pm ]
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Like the above poster, this comes down to morals. I will say that girl is going to end up cheating whether it's with you or not, so the question is whether you are willing to sell your morals for a lay?

I've slept with 2 married women before (1 known and 1 not known) and I wasn't really pleased with myself. I doubt I go down that road again.
Author:  B Rob [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 3:41 pm ]
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I'd hit it. If it's not you it'll be someone else.

Yep.
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 6:57 pm ]
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LOL, I definitely agree with Z and saq. If it was a corporate guy, I'd say hit it yesterday, lol, but since it's military, that's another story.

But, since it IS military, there's the issue that those guys are gone for like 15 months at a time, so MOST of those wives do cheat, regardless. So, yes, most likely she will cheat. Then, the question is, can YOU handle that person being you or not.

There are some military wives that actually do stay loyal. I know one that does stay loyal, and now her hubby is back. But even she says that she doesn't like to hang with the other military wives, because in her words they are ALL whores. They have a b/f till hubby comes back, then the b/f finds out about hubby, breaks it off, then she finds another b/f when hubby leaves again.
Author:  jjjoness [ Fri Nov 30, 2007 3:30 am ]
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I'd hit it. If it's not you it'll be someone else.

Yep.
I resent that. I am in service and when I go to war, I don't go to defend someone who's gonna fuck my wife (assuming I had one) when im gone. Your argument is basically, well someone is going to rob that bank so might as well be you, or someone is going to suck dick, so might as well be you. I am not here as the most moral or ethical man in the world, but come on now. Thats just wrong man.
Author:  DevonW [ Fri Nov 30, 2007 3:57 am ]
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I agree, I think its extremely low to game a married woman, but even lower to game a woman married to a guy in the military. I'm going in as an Armour Officer next year and I dont really want to have to think about my girlfriend or wife being gamed by you guys. PUAs are supposed to be a brotherhood of sorts. We let a guy game his target until he succeeds, or fails, and these guys obviously succeeded.
This is just wrong.
Id just stay friends with her, have fun, but nothing serious
Author:  niosi [ Fri Nov 30, 2007 5:31 am ]
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I definitely don't agree with gaming married women, Especially ones with Military husbands. and chances are he can probably can kick your ass too. haha. but on a more serious note, gaming any kind of married women, whether their husbands are really shitty to them and hit them and shit, or if they are the best husbands over. It is all the same. they are still married. you really dont want to get in the middle of that.
if you really like the girl and really want her tell her that she has to leave her husband it she wants you. if you on that level of comfort and are at a confident enough level to talk real about something like that. But also remember that if a woman is going to leave her husband for you make sure you really want this woman because chances are that if she leaves her husband then she is going to want to get serious with you. think it through.


BEST ADVICE: Go Game some other single HB 9 - 10 theyre out there to game
Author:  Starbuck [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 2:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Married, Military, what to do?
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Ok here's the situation, I work with this Hb 9 and she pretty awesome. Only 20 years old and already married. Didn't date this guy to long and got married. He is in the military and now he is gone all the time.

We flirt alot at work, and as of recently she has been more touchy. We are servers so when she walks by she likes to touch and so on. Then I challenged her to arm wrestle(Kino). I let her act like she was a challange then I beat her.

I told her since she is not a very good arm wrestler are thier any sports you are good at? She said a few and I told her we'll play tennis and she agreed and gave me her #. So we will play tomorrow.

I want to know what yall think about this situation, If I should pursue, and do you think she is giving IOI's and is interested.
Nope..

This guy's got enough problems with this chick, etc... without you adding to them.

I mean why would you want to have sex with a immature married chick anyway? She looks good? So what. Do the right thing, and don't take advantage of her weakness.

You might live a little longer that way too.

Anymore questions? :wink:
Author:  Cretin105 [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:11 am ]
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I definitely don't agree with gaming married women, Especially ones with Military husbands. and chances are he can probably can kick your ass too. haha. but on a more serious note, gaming any kind of married women, whether their husbands are really shitty to them and hit them and shit, or if they are the best husbands over. It is all the same. they are still married. you really dont want to get in the middle of that.
if you really like the girl and really want her tell her that she has to leave her husband it she wants you. if you on that level of comfort and are at a confident enough level to talk real about something like that. But also remember that if a woman is going to leave her husband for you make sure you really want this woman because chances are that if she leaves her husband then she is going to want to get serious with you. think it through.


BEST ADVICE: Go Game some other single HB 9 - 10 theyre out there to game

I agree but of course Niosi and I have kind of a biased opinion seeing as how we both are in the military or at least go to a military college . . i would highly suggest going for another women . . in fact i would push u to go for another women . .. . people in the military get their wives stolen all the time and its horrible . . not only that but its a simple respect thing and i have no respect for cheaters .. IMO
Author:  kinoescalator [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 5:32 am ]
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I agree, dont mess with her. However, and im not saying everyone does this, but a lot of military guys i know that have gone into the military and been sent abroad always cheat on their wifes and girlfriends while they are away. Like i said, im not saying this is the norm, but it DEFINATLY happens alot.

On the other hand what if he is the guy that is true to his wife and he is their defending our great country and you are taping his wife? Not cool man.

I would never mess with a married woman....
Author:  BadOmn83 [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 3:14 am ]
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I'm in this situation too. When I first started learning the attraction arts, I would game everygirl I knew just for practice. But, sometimes when I would get drunk I would game the wrong people and I kiss closed a girl I worked with. I later found out she was married and he ws in the military. Last night, some friends from work and I went for a few drinks. I had no intention on gaming anyone, but married girl ended up showing up and we all decided to bounce to another bar to dance. I don't know what the hell happened but married girl would not leave me alone. I ended up f-closing her, but it was her choice because she was lonely and needed to be close to someone. But this is the game and we all know the rules. And like David D says "Attraction isn't a choice"
Author:  The Wild One [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 3:49 am ]
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Be careful you might have someone stick a gun in your face.
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Mon Dec 24, 2007 7:12 am ]
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I'm in this situation too. When I first started learning the attraction arts, I would game everygirl I knew just for practice. But, sometimes when I would get drunk I would game the wrong people and I kiss closed a girl I worked with. I later found out she was married and he ws in the military. Last night, some friends from work and I went for a few drinks. I had no intention on gaming anyone, but married girl ended up showing up and we all decided to bounce to another bar to dance. I don't know what the hell happened but married girl would not leave me alone. I ended up f-closing her, but it was her choice because she was lonely and needed to be close to someone. But this is the game and we all know the rules. And like David D says "Attraction isn't a choice"
So, where do things stand with her now? How long is her husband gone?
Author:  Fratguysargesbest [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 6:51 am ]
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just a friendly reminder, while adultery is not a crime in the civilian world, it is a crime in the military establishment.
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