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Author:  Shyler [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Dancing classes
I've had 2 lessons since I started salsa classes a week ago. I didn't join classes right from the start so my technique is a bit to quite lower than most of the girls I dance with now, which doesn't make it easier for me.

I find it quite difficult because you need to focus on a lot of things, mainly the rithm, your feet and your arms.
It's fun to do though. You realy learn to respect a girl, you meet people on a whole different way than you're use to and it's a real teamwork in which you're performing both and sometimes joke around.

I was wondering if any of you had some experiences with dancing classes you like to share :) . How did you like dancing classes? Did you learn it quickly or was it difficult? What did you learn from/with girls while dancing?
Author:  Ezo [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:03 pm ]
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My wing took salsa lessons too and he says it is awesome. I mean, going from grinder to dancer cannot be wrong...
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 12:21 am ]
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Yes i took salsa, but as i said many times, salsa, merengue, ballrooom swing and country among others will put you into "courtship zone", you will have better luck with a club with mix american music, hip hop, techno, wedding, 16s mix music or club with many different rooms... even if the girls are american or europian they will get into courtship mode... With that being said the girls in salsa class i took were smoking hot... Women will learn faster to dance than me, which pissed a lot of guys of, specially in couples...
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 11:22 am ]
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dude ... aside from dancing when it comes to woman and pickup ....

if you cannot dance and you decide to join dancing classes .. you have to fucking congratulate yourself you are making that descision..

everytime you put yourself in a new enviroment where you are
1. new
2. stiffled
3. unknown

you have to congratulate yourself for having the courage ...

fuck what others think of you and fuck those chodes...
most people in dancing classes are woman .. do you know why ? i think you know why , because most people think it's gay because they cannot dance , that's how chodes that talk that hold their beer to their chest the whole night.... they don't want to put themself in such situation.

between you and me .. i can't dance that good... im not a stiff motherfucker but i still like dancing - it's just a like a sport or laying on the beach.... when it comes to pickup i AVOID the dancefloor , dancing is for my enjoyment only.

don't worry about your progress , salsa is quitte hard to begin with , the one thing i learned from dancing is that YOU NEED TO DO IT IN ORDER TO ENJOY IT AND TO BECOME BETTER.
Author:  Shyler [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 7:38 pm ]
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Thanks. I try to throw myself often in new situations and at the beginning I'm always a bit uncomfortable, but that's just normal and I accept that. I like meeting new people and doing this I call it a challenge.

I do salsa not only for the girls but also because I genuinely like it. I like dancing and I like the music a lot. I believe that if you dance good that you get in a sort of flow or trance and that's the fun part of dancing, when it all goes natural.
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Yes i took salsa, but as i said many times, salsa, merengue, ballrooom swing and country among others will put you into "courtship zone"
After having two classes of salsa, I totaly get your point. But I don't see the courtship zone as something bad. You probably don't want to fuck all women your dancing with so this courtship vibe makes it fun (even) if you're not sexualy interested in the girl.
Secondly, the courtship vibe can be put to good use I think. You don't want to be sexual all time with a woman while dancing. The courtship vibe allows you to flirt by making the flirting acceptable, because it's also a fun vibe. Making eye contact while dancing can give salsa dancing a more sexualy vibe, which is good, but which shouldn't be overdone in some cases (like if you just started classes). Flirting in the courtship vibe compensates it.
Besides of that, if you're a good dancer, that will DHV enough to make the girl interested.

The courtship zone is something which I think is easy to come out of. During salsa lessons, you should cherish the courtship zone in order to keep it fun. After the classes ended, you can easily exit the courtship zone because the situation changed. Then you can chat a bit and say her something like "hey I'm going to this salsa bar tomorrow night with some friends and you should definatly join us" or whatever. :)
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 7:56 pm ]
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Quote:
Thanks. I try to throw myself often in new situations and at the beginning I'm always a bit uncomfortable, but that's just normal and I accept that. I like meeting new people and doing this I call it a challenge.

I do salsa not only for the girls but also because I genuinely like it. I like dancing and I like the music a lot. I believe that if you dance good that you get in a sort of flow or trance and that's the fun part of dancing, when it all goes natural.
Quote:
Yes i took salsa, but as i said many times, salsa, merengue, ballrooom swing and country among others will put you into "courtship zone"
After having two classes of salsa, I totaly get your point. But I don't see the courtship zone as something bad. You probably don't want to fuck all women your dancing with so this courtship vibe makes it fun (even) if you're not sexualy interested in the girl.
Secondly, the courtship vibe can be put to good use I think. You don't want to be sexual all time with a woman while dancing. The courtship vibe allows you to flirt by making the flirting acceptable, because it's also a fun vibe. Making eye contact while dancing can give salsa dancing a more sexualy vibe, which is good, but which shouldn't be overdone in some cases (like if you just started classes). Flirting in the courtship vibe compensates it.
Besides of that, if you're a good dancer, that will DHV enough to make the girl interested.

The courtship zone is something which I think is easy to come out of. During salsa lessons, you should cherish the courtship zone in order to keep it fun. After the classes ended, you can easily exit the courtship zone because the situation changed. Then you can chat a bit and say her something like "hey I'm going to this salsa bar tomorrow night with some friends and you should definatly join us" or whatever. :)

get your point in my game i do not like to waste time!
Author:  walium [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 7:09 am ]
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I new in this forum don't have experience about dancing but i need a perfect online site that help me how i learn dancing on any one pop music song which way is better for me no one academy in my local city can you suggest me.
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