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Author:  Warped Mindless [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Whats your excuse?
Guys have so many excuses as to why they "cant" get good with women. pretty much all of them are dumb...

The following is a list of common excuses and my reasoning as to why said excuse is bullshit. Feel free to add your own!

1) I'm not rich

You don't have to be. Seriously, if you think only guys with money fucks hot women your either blind or your head is up your ass. :P

2) I'm not good looking.

You don't have to be. Don't believe me? Thats okay because im not going to try and convince you. Instead i'll just say that, dress better and go to the gym. Even if you have an ugly face, if you have a great body you will still be considered sexy to most women.

3) I live in a small city with hardly any women.

Move

4) I have no money to move.

Find the closest big city thats also cheap. If your in America then Las vegas is a GREAT choice. Get a job and save up enough money to move.

5) I cant get a job, no place is hiring/the economy sucks.

Bullshit. SOMEPLACE is hiring. Look harder. If your getting interviews but not getting hired then your presenting yourself wrong.

6) I have no friends to go out with.

Go solo. You will learn better this way anyways.

7) Women don't like my race/skin color.

Very few women will reject you based on your race/skin color alone. If your not getting women its not because of your race, its because you suck. Stop sucking. :P

8) I'm small and intimidated by other guys.

Join a gym to bulk up and take some MMA classes.

9) I don't have money for that....

See #5

What other dumb excuses have you guys seen over and over?
Author:  Ezo [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:20 pm ]
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Dont forget the all time favourite: I dont think its right to do that, I think it is morally wrong to be a player...
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 10:25 pm ]
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FOR THE LAST TIME.... IM MARRIED BRO
Author:  Prophet'sOracle [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 11:59 pm ]
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Some of this stuff is relevant, a lot of is pointless drivel however.
Author:  Ezo [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 12:09 am ]
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You are missing the point.

None of this is truly relevant if you want to improve. Sure, you can say "Im not good looking enough" and leave it at that. But if you do, you have given up all the rights to complain when women dont want you.

What WM is getting at is that if you take the step into being a PUA, improving this part of your life and dedicating yourself to building a life... Then there are no excuses anymore. Finding excuses is only a way to swear yourself free of responsability. Almost all obstacles can be overcome if you decide that it is important. If you are ready to face what needs to be faced. And that is: You suck.

Blunt. Yes.

But yes, you suck, we all suck. There are external factors that can make it more or less difficult for you to succeed but the fact is, none of them are so big that you cannot improve. You find external factors to blame just because you dont want to face the uncomfortable truth, it is all you.

There are no valid excuses.

What you see as the world being unfair is really you who have not learned how to deal with the thing called life.

You have a choice. Either you see yourself as a victim of circumstance and blame everything around you and keep sucking for the rest of your life. Or. You take charge, you dont accept that external factors rule your life anymore.

Reclaim your freakin life!!!
Author:  Kobe Bryant [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 12:14 am ]
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"I don't go out enough" :/

I guess technically I do b/c I'm on campus at least 5 days out of the week... meh Idk. I need to eventually find the courage to open whenever I see an attractive female.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 1:26 am ]
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Agreed.

I bitch sometimes about several of those things, but I am working to get around them all. I have a job interview tomorrow to get money so I can move out on my own. I am more than willing/able to go to a bar alone and enjoy myself if nobody else wants to come out, and even when shit goes terribly for me, I get over it as quickly as possible so that I can go out again and try to improve.
Author:  Prophet'sOracle [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 3:57 am ]
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Quote:
You are missing the point.

None of this is truly relevant if you want to improve. Sure, you can say "Im not good looking enough" and leave it at that. But if you do, you have given up all the rights to complain when women dont want you.

What WM is getting at is that if you take the step into being a PUA, improving this part of your life and dedicating yourself to building a life... Then there are no excuses anymore. Finding excuses is only a way to swear yourself free of responsability. Almost all obstacles can be overcome if you decide that it is important. If you are ready to face what needs to be faced. And that is: You suck.

Blunt. Yes.

But yes, you suck, we all suck. There are external factors that can make it more or less difficult for you to succeed but the fact is, none of them are so big that you cannot improve. You find external factors to blame just because you dont want to face the uncomfortable truth, it is all you.

There are no valid excuses.

What you see as the world being unfair is really you who have not learned how to deal with the thing called life.

You have a choice. Either you see yourself as a victim of circumstance and blame everything around you and keep sucking for the rest of your life. Or. You take charge, you dont accept that external factors rule your life anymore.

Reclaim your freakin life!!!
Yeah, but the style of delivery is not good. And the thread doesn't address the real issue, "self-image". I hear tons of talk about "man the fuck up and stop being a pussy." But when asked how the response is always the atypical cop out answer, "I dunno, you have to find that out yourself :D."

It's very simple actually. You have to change how you view yourself (self-image). This thread neglected to mention the above. This isn't the first time I've had to address one of Warped's threads. His "bluntness" of course may upset some people, but that is not the issue.

My problems with the vast majority of his posts are his lack of examples and poor style of delivery. He doesn’t go into detail as how to best reframe or reposition the perpetrators mindset. Saying, “you need to change” isn’t going to help anyone. Helping a person to see themselves differently will help substantially. I’ve seen none of the above in his post.
Author:  Agent_Smith [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 2:05 pm ]
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I get gas!
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