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| Author: | khuram [ Sun Oct 02, 2011 6:07 pm ] |
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Natural game vs routine based game. Here at the forum it's usually discussed what's better between both of them? Newbies are confused and most of the guys just throw out the bullshit, "be yourself", "say whatever you feel" and newbies are fucked by this kind of advice. I mean just,"being yourself is not enough" there is much more to be taken care of. Before we get into anything else, lets discuss what natural game is (according to the guys here) 1. You just say whatever you want to say. 2. You just do whatever you want to do. 3. Be alpha and be direct. Ok it seems good advice. Doesnt it? But did you ever track the success rate of guys getting this advice? matter of the fact is it may be good for opening, it may be good for holding a conversation but it doesnt answer most of the questions that guys usually have. What should your body language be? How about eye contact? How about when and how to go for the kiss? How about setting up a date? How about qualifying a girl? How and when to escalate the interaction? How to get sexual? How to handle the rejections or resistance? And many more questions that "be yourself" advice just dont help with. The way natural game is being discussed here is not really what the natural game is. Ok lets see whats the routines based game is. 1. You have steps that you have to go through 2. You have scripts for each step. Thats in short what we say routine based game. Ofcourse natural game is better as it gives your own personality a chance to shine. But natural game is not jus, "be yourself" it has a structure, way points. Then why do we call it natural? As it doesnt give you scripts. It gives you concepts and guidelines and you can fill in the info from your own life. For those who don't know and for those who are confused i want to explain what the natural game is all about 1. It has a structure. 2. It focuses more onto developing certain mindsets so that you become somewhat of auto pilot. 3. It may even have a bit of canned material. 4. It focuses on developing your conversational skills and then using them as a base of your game to get you through the seduction process. So don't be fucked up with shitty advice. Get ur plan ready and follow it to your success |
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| Author: | Kobe Bryant [ Sun Oct 02, 2011 10:42 pm ] |
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I think if you take the best natural, and the best routine man, and they face off, the routine man would win. They would both be successful, but the routine man game would be tighter... imo. |
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| Author: | khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 2:02 am ] |
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that depends a routine based man vs an average natural = routine based wins routine based man vs natural(with sharp conversational and obsersational skills) = natural wins natural game takes times to develop, much more time as compared to routine based, but if you get the natural gaming skills down, rewards are greater |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: natural game or routine based? |
Quote: Natural game vs routine based game.
structure is not natural, it is the need for an outcome, it is a need, you are not giving, you are taking, you want somethingHere at the forum it's usually discussed what's better between both of them? Newbies are confused and most of the guys just throw out the bullshit, "be yourself", "say whatever you feel" and newbies are fucked by this kind of advice. I mean just,"being yourself is not enough" there is much more to be taken care of. Before we get into anything else, lets discuss what natural game is (according to the guys here) 1. You just say whatever you want to say. this is true, but it is mis-understood, most guys simply can't express themselves, tell a guy who is new, just go up and tell her how you feel, you get, OHHH THAT WILL NEVER WORK, guys simply can't be honest and sexually open, they are too afraid of gaining the girls approval to just express themselves, openly free of outcome, either that or they misconstrue the concept as say what ever you want even if it is offensive and socially unacceptable and rude, if you want to tell a girl how you feel, do so, but it is how you say it that is important not what you say, you must not feel the need to have an outcome 2. You just do whatever you want to do. same thing as 1. 3. Be alpha and be direct. Ok it seems good advice. Doesnt it? But did you ever track the success rate of guys getting this advice? matter of the fact is it may be good for opening, it may be good for holding a conversation but it doesnt answer most of the questions that guys usually have. being able to express yourself, is most important, direct, indirect, all irrelivant, alpha simply = leader, what are the traits of a leader?, confidence, being able to give direction, outcome should not be important, success rate will be different for everyone, and is unimportant and based on detachment and external factors, and your ability to read and adapt appropriately to situations What should your body language be? what is the body language of someone who is confident?, simply put, you are not afraid, comfortable in every situation How about eye contact? same as body language, a person with full belief in them selves, would they look away, or are they completely comfortable? How about when and how to go for the kiss? if you believe in yourself and trust yourself does it matter? do you need a sign, does it matter if you get rejected or accepted, if you reach an outcome? How about setting up a date? same concept as before with the above How about qualifying a girl? what about it?, getting a girl to qualify to you and seek your approval is unnecisary if you are speaking in terms of sex, however, you will never find out if you like a person if you don't share interests, and actually get to know them How and when to escalate the interaction? it is irrelivant, if you want sex and you see an opportunity to escalate you can either take that opportunity, or you can do nothing, you can allways be escalating, or you can be not escalating at all, what is the importance of how and when? How to get sexual? you don't need to ''get'' sexual, just be a sexual person How to handle the rejections or resistance? And many more questions that "be yourself" advice just dont help with. that is because the outcome is irrelivant, and the fantasy of 10/10 sets closing is just that, a fantasy, everything in the community teaches how to fake an abundance mindframe, once you have abundance, it does not matter, why must you have sex with every girl you talk with, why can't you just meet people and make them feel good, why must everything lead to an outcome? not every girl wants to fuck you, not even if you have some voodoo magic powers, passed onto you from some wizard jedi in a top hat The way natural game is being discussed here is not really what the natural game is. this is completely a subjective opinion Ok lets see whats the routines based game is. 1. You have steps that you have to go through 2. You have scripts for each step. Thats in short what we say routine based game. Ofcourse natural game is better as it gives your own personality a chance to shine. But natural game is not jus, "be yourself" it has a structure, way points. Then why do we call it natural? As it doesnt give you scripts. It gives you concepts and guidelines and you can fill in the info from your own life. For those who don't know and for those who are confused i want to explain what the natural game is all about 1. It has a structure. 2. It focuses more onto developing certain mindsets so that you become somewhat of auto pilot. 3. It may even have a bit of canned material. 4. It focuses on developing your conversational skills and then using them as a base of your game to get you through the seduction process. So don't be fucked up with shitty advice. Get ur plan ready and follow it to your success routines generate responses, after practice, you generate certain responses, and establish contingencies based on those responses that generate other responses, eventually you have ran the same social interaction over and over and over, until the point YOU ARE A FUCKING WIZARD, you know THE FUTURE!!, this is manipulation at the end of the day, what would you rather be, yourself, but truly be yourself, comfortable with yourself, comfortable with expressing yourself, comfortable with saying what is on your mind, not caring what people think of you for expressing yourself, comfortable doing what you want, if what that is, is touching a person, if what that is, is getting naked, no hesitation, doing what you feel like doing, approaching who you want at anytime, and getting to know them or are you someone else, someone eleses generated responses and routines, to manipulate people, to generate emotions that are caused from these responses, response A leads to response B, then i get outcome C, I MUST REACH OUTCOME Z!!! be yourself be comfortable with your self, get results, feel like it was you who got the results, feel great or be someone else, manipulate people, get results, feel like you are getting really good at manipulation, hurray you reached your outcome, it feels ok |
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| Author: | khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:32 am ] |
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you mean to say natural game does not have any structure? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:36 am ] |
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Quote: you mean to say natural game does not have any structure?
exactly it is natural
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| Author: | khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:45 am ] |
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to you, natural game has no guidelines and its a blind game (with no rules)? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:46 am ] |
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Quote: to you, natural game has no guidelines and its a blind game (with no rules)?
exactly, it is expression of one's self, and ones feelings and desires, nothing more
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| Author: | khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:56 am ] |
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right now, i am writting an article on social comfort. So won't get into much details right now and before i reply you, lets ask gambler, "why did he wrote a book called, natural game, and then gave a structure in that?" gambler must be fool then, real genius is here |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 10:04 am ] |
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Quote: right now, i am writting an article on social comfort. So won't get into much details right now and before i reply you, lets ask gambler, "why did he wrote a book called, natural game, and then gave a structure in that?"
A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool. gambler must be fool then, real genius is here -William Shakespeare |
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| Author: | khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 10:10 am ] |
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so what do you think of yourself? A fool or wise? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 10:20 am ] |
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Quote: so what do you think of yourself? A fool or wise?
look, you are missing the point entirely, the difference between us, is while i offer ideas and opinions, you offer facts and truthsthere is no truth, there is no fact and there will always be more then one way, dis-agreeing is just proving truly how inexperienced and narrow minded you are the true question is, why are you the wise man? |
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| Author: | khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 11:06 am ] |
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go and get some reall life experience. That's all i have to say to you. Go do an approach and then post it here. You would look better saying something then. And i mean, the kind of approach that you mentione like you said, no qualification and blah blah. After you do that, i will also post my lr. After all the thing that matters are results arent they? Kindly don't preach the shit |
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| Author: | khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 11:11 am ] |
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What is Natural Game? - a definition To understand “natural game” you first need to understand what a “natural” is. Natural - Someone who became successful with women without the assistance of the seduction community, studying books or the help of friends. The guy who got laid all the time back in high school was probably a “natural”. These guys were able to learn through trial and error how to become good with women on their own. Now that we know what a “natural” is, lets define “natural game”: Natural Game A type of pickup that involves acting how a “natural” would act. Usually, it starts with changing your “inner game” which means to change your attitude and perception of women and social interactions. Then it focuses on how to attract women by saying things that are spontaneous, honest and many times very direct. The History and Rise of Natural Game Natural game has been around for some time. Pickup artists have always been studying and trying to achieve the level of success of a “natural”. It started gaining momentum in 2005 with popular posts by the likes of Vin DiCarlo (AKA “Woodhaven”). Vin refers to himself as the “Godfather of Natural Game” but I’m sure that is debatable amongst the early natural game advocates. Oddly, I saw natural game get its biggest boost just after routine game had its biggest days in the spotlight. With the popularity of VH1 and Mystery’s “ The Pickup Artist” came greater exposure of many of the more popular routines and techniques. This meant more guys using them on a set number of women which meant a greater saturation. Women are not stupid. A girl who has been approached ten times with a time constraint followed by an off-the-cuff opinion opener will be able to start picking up on the trend. Soon they were being called out for being a pickup artist like on the VH1 show. Hey, it happened to one of my wings. In actuality, you can learn how to deal with being caught as a pickup artist by listenign to the advice of experienced pickup gurus. But for newbies who were just overcoming approach anxiety, being called a pickup artist was detrimental. They feared being embarrassed. The natural game gurus picked up on this “fear”. They made negative posts and videos deeming routine game as “robotic” and “creepy”. The aftermath is a flood of natural game products and services in 2008 and only a couple routine based products. I’ve seen natural game greatly develop recently. There has been greater emphasis on networking and developing a social circle. There have been products specializing in certain demographics such as “ Conquer Your Campus“. Many routine game gurus have seemed to gradually shift over to natural game. The 2nd half of 2008 will be an interesting time for natural game. Will it just be a pickup “fad” that will run its course and take a step back? Will the “The Pickup Artist” Season 2 help it even more like the first season did? Or will the natural vs. routine battle be made moot in 2009 like the Blu-Ray vs. HD-DVD debate was made in 2008? Time will tell… that was a post from eseduce and i hope you are wise enough to see that the main point here is,"a guy who didnt read any seduction material and learnt by trial and error. By trial and error he learnt what works and what now and following that(structure, guidelines,) he improves. And again, its my humble request to you that please dont preach the shit |
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| Author: | lolaskate [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 11:19 am ] |
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There is a difference between Routine game, Natural game and naturals. And sorry to say this pump, but he's right on the definitions. |
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