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Author:  Consistence [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:48 am ]
Post subject:  Happiness dependent on sex?
I guess this is a quite difficult question to answer but it will always be there.

Are you more happy in a sexual relationship than being single?
Is it a good thing to base happiness on sex?
And if sex makes you happy, isn´t it better to be in a relationship (get sex when you want) compared to fucking 4-5 different chicks every month?

Hope some of you will reply. Im currently in a fuck-friend relationship, but she said today that she can´t handle it (getting attached with feelings). I feel my happiness will decrease when not having sex and it´s not a good thing... :?
Author:  Cointoss [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 11:55 am ]
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No, and it's a bad idea. My happiness is based on money. Also a bad idea, but not as bad.

Also happiness isn't the word, it should be satisfaction. True happiness can only come from within.
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 3:57 pm ]
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I hear what you're saying, but I wouldn't base happiness on sex. Personally I base it on mainly personal success, among other smaller things. To base your happiness on sex is as destructive as basing your happiness on winning checkers games, or playing a lot of miniature golf. You're not accomplishing something, you're just doing an activity.

There are tons of women out there just waiting to be fuck buddies, so the real question is, are you afraid of missing the sex, or are you attached to this girl, and just sorry to see her go?
Author:  magnum45 [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 9:04 pm ]
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Only love can bring happiness. I know love means a lot of things to different people, but to me it is the unconditional acceptance of other people and yourself.

So you will have to accept yourself as happy without sex before you can be happy with sex. You should consider yourself first in all aspects before you worry about sex. Love yourself and the women will come, but you won't even need them anymore.
Author:  Kobe Bryant [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 1:17 am ]
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You can't base happiness off of one thing. Happiness can occur from a variety of things... and different kinds of happinesses (is that a word?) too.
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Happiness dependent on sex?
Quote:
I guess this is a quite difficult question to answer but it will always be there.

Are you more happy in a sexual relationship than being single?
Is it a good thing to base happiness on sex?
And if sex makes you happy, isn´t it better to be in a relationship (get sex when you want) compared to fucking 4-5 different chicks every month?

Hope some of you will reply. Im currently in a fuck-friend relationship, but she said today that she can´t handle it (getting attached with feelings). I feel my happiness will decrease when not having sex and it´s not a good thing... :?

I love being in a relationship, i do not remember ever really being single for more than 6 months, after you go into fuckatons it gets boring, usually for me after 6 months...Happiness for me money, and being with a good partner, that let me do my thing on the side..Key is to have a main girl(girlfriend) and girls on the side. The problem is women after the 3 rd time you fucked them start getting attach.
Author:  Consistence [ Sat Oct 01, 2011 9:51 am ]
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I guess my problem is imagining this girl having sex with other men. So basically low self-esteem. How do I best handle this? :)
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Sat Oct 01, 2011 4:20 pm ]
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Realize that sex has no real value. If you work at a shake shop, and this woman comes in often and you serve her a strawberry shake, are you jealous if you see her a couple times at Mc Donalds, getting a shake there? Of course not. She's still coming to your shake shop, she still enjoys your strawberry shake. This isn't even a matter of rejection. Sometimes it's just more convenient or cheaper to go to Mc D's.

Or just realize that you aren't boyfriend-girlfriend in his relationship, so she has some guys on the side, and you should have some girls on the side, BECAUSE this girl you have now is already one of these "on the side" girls. You don't yet have a main girl who you should feel connected to, and jealous about. If you're getting jealous about this girl, then you need to either check yourself, and pull yourself back because it's not going to work out, or just go for it, see how she reacts, and if she drops you as a fuck friend, then move on to more girls.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Sat Oct 01, 2011 8:09 pm ]
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That's the problem with having one fuck buddy. Having three makes it easier.
Author:  AaronLynn [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 1:25 pm ]
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Keep it secret. Don´t feel bad about this. You don´t harm anybody.
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