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Author:  Partyboy [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:09 am ]
Post subject:  Do you have a girlfriend? - the correct response
I was out last night and had been building up some good rapport with one girl I was interested in. She asked me this question: "Do you have a girlfriend?"

I said something like: not at the minute, I don't really want one.

But I think I could've used this more in my favour so has anyone got any ideas on what to say?

Also - is this generally an IOI? I thought it might be.
Author:  Murdoc [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 12:04 pm ]
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You could treat it like a "how old are you?" scenario. She wants a straight forward answer from you, but you reply by reclaiming the frame.

HB: Do you have a girlfriend?
PUA: Guess/Sometimes/When it suits my needs/Maybe you can convince me that I don't.

While "Yes" can make her want what she thinks she can't have, I can also imagine it ruining some of your progress.
Author:  .EnVy. [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:45 pm ]
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Quote:
You could treat it like a "how old are you?" scenario. She wants a straight forward answer from you, but you reply by reclaiming the frame.

HB: Do you have a girlfriend?
PUA: Guess/Sometimes/When it suits my needs/Maybe you can convince me that I don't.

While "Yes" can make her want what she thinks she can't have, I can also imagine it ruining some of your progress.
Good responses.
Personally, I like to say:
"Depends :)"

And just take it from there.
Author:  96Firebird [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:20 pm ]
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I have a question that could possibly follow this. If I say no, and then she states something like, "How do you not have a girlfriend?", that is an IOI correct? I've had a few girls say this to me back in the day, but never took advantage. I'm thinking this follow-up question shows some interest...
Author:  Ka [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 8:34 pm ]
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respnses...

YOU: "Do i look mormon?"

YOU: "Are you trying to seduce me? We should probably get to know each other a bit first."

YOU: "I left her at home."

YOU: "No i dont have A g/f." (make sure to stress A, to imply that you have many instead)

YOU: "Are you the dateing police, can i see a badge?"

These are just a few i made up right now, hope you like them.
Author:  Gun [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:05 pm ]
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yes but u can join the waiting list :lol:
Author:  .EnVy. [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:19 pm ]
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yes but u can join the waiting list :lol:
ROFL omg, that is awesome.
I'm so totally using that haha.
Author:  Cretin105 [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 2:00 am ]
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yes but u can join the waiting list :lol:


Field tested i used this one all the time works like a charm especially if your doing CF all night
Author:  Financialwar [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 3:17 am ]
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not at the moment, but i see you have some potential.
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:45 am ]
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Partyboy and firebird, yes those are both strong IOI's.
Quote:
respnses...

YOU: "Are you trying to seduce me? We should probably get to know each other a bit first."

YOU: "No i dont have A g/f." (make sure to stress A, to imply that you have many instead)

YOU: "Are you the dateing police, can i see a badge?"
I personally think these are great and would work wonders.
Author:  Starbuck [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:52 am ]
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yes but u can join the waiting list :lol:
:lol:

If she's incredibly hot.

How about.. Yes, and I'm free next week.
Author:  MrHappy [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 5:02 am ]
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That is a great time to switch to Juggler's Girlfriend test

Girlfriend Test

A great way to qualify girls and escalate...

The Girlfriend Test
Here is the girlfriend test per request. It is really very simple.

When a girl checks your status. "Do you have a girlfriend?"

Say, "To be my girlfriend (or lover) is a prestigious and exclusive thing. There's a test."

Curiosity being what it is, she will want to take the test. There are three multiple-choice questions. Take out a pen and write the correct answers on her palm but forbid her to look. Then ask her the questions while you hold her hand closed. You should make up your own, but here are some example questions.

1. Which do you enjoy more? A shower or a warm bath?
2. What is the sexiest food? Whipped crème, chocolate syrup or strawberries?
3. What feels better? Kisses on your neck or nibbling on your ear?
The correct answers are bath, strawberries and kisses on the neck.

Most times she will answer the first two correctly. The last question is up for grabs.
-The crucial thing is that the last question is some sort of intense kino or kissing that you can do right then.
-If she gets it wrong: Whisper in her ear "I can't be with you if you really believe this (nibble ear) feels better than this (kiss neck)."
-If she gets it right: "I'm glad you like this (nibble or kiss). It is so much better than this (kiss or nibble)."
-Make sure you kiss and nibble before you let go of her hand.
-If she gets all the questions wrong give her a playfully hard time about it.
-This test is used mostly after you have some connection. If a girl checks your status it usually means she is interested. But you may want to try it as an opening - who knows.
-There are many variations including writing something clever on her hand instead of the answers, etc. Someday I may post my SuperTest. But I'm sure posters to this group can come up with some creative ones.
-The purpose of putting the answers in her hand is so she knows, as she is taking the test, that there are correct answers which she may or may not get right.
-Whether she gets them right may or may not matter to you. I usually don't care but I have been known to walk away from a hot girl when she got a question wrong.
-She will also respect you for putting the interaction at risk. You are further demonstrating you are not just accepting any girl.
-If she did not have the answers in her hand she would think you may just let her pass.
-If she cheats by feeling out the letters then she really likes you. You don't need to call her on it. Just proceed. But if you want you can just write it on a piece of paper, put it in her hand and then close it with your hand on top.


That is the question this is designed for and if you make it your own it works wonders.

link edited out and text copied by L.A. Tripp, so as to not promote another forum
Author:  wannabeaballer [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 5:23 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
That is a great time to switch to Juggler's Girlfriend test

Girlfriend Test

A great way to qualify girls and escalate...

The Girlfriend Test
Here is the girlfriend test per request. It is really very simple.

When a girl checks your status. "Do you have a girlfriend?"

Say, "To be my girlfriend (or lover) is a prestigious and exclusive thing. There's a test."

Curiosity being what it is, she will want to take the test. There are three multiple-choice questions. Take out a pen and write the correct answers on her palm but forbid her to look. Then ask her the questions while you hold her hand closed. You should make up your own, but here are some example questions.

1. Which do you enjoy more? A shower or a warm bath?
2. What is the sexiest food? Whipped crème, chocolate syrup or strawberries?
3. What feels better? Kisses on your neck or nibbling on your ear?
The correct answers are bath, strawberries and kisses on the neck.

Most times she will answer the first two correctly. The last question is up for grabs.
-The crucial thing is that the last question is some sort of intense kino or kissing that you can do right then.
-If she gets it wrong: Whisper in her ear "I can't be with you if you really believe this (nibble ear) feels better than this (kiss neck)."
-If she gets it right: "I'm glad you like this (nibble or kiss). It is so much better than this (kiss or nibble)."
-Make sure you kiss and nibble before you let go of her hand.
-If she gets all the questions wrong give her a playfully hard time about it.
-This test is used mostly after you have some connection. If a girl checks your status it usually means she is interested. But you may want to try it as an opening - who knows.
-There are many variations including writing something clever on her hand instead of the answers, etc. Someday I may post my SuperTest. But I'm sure posters to this group can come up with some creative ones.
-The purpose of putting the answers in her hand is so she knows, as she is taking the test, that there are correct answers which she may or may not get right.
-Whether she gets them right may or may not matter to you. I usually don't care but I have been known to walk away from a hot girl when she got a question wrong.
-She will also respect you for putting the interaction at risk. You are further demonstrating you are not just accepting any girl.
-If she did not have the answers in her hand she would think you may just let her pass.
-If she cheats by feeling out the letters then she really likes you. You don't need to call her on it. Just proceed. But if you want you can just write it on a piece of paper, put it in her hand and then close it with your hand on top.


That is the question this is designed for and if you make it your own it works wonders.

link edited out and text copied by L.A. Tripp, so as to not promote another forum
This sounds really good. Has anyone field tested it yet??
Author:  Rye Lee [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:52 am ]
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Its Juggler's material...he's a PUG.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Sun Apr 20, 2008 3:49 am ]
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All the C&F responses are great but I still believe that your response should be in the affirmative- "yes, I have a girlfriend, what you trying to do insult me or implying that I dont have one(with a C&F tone)?" Its sought of a false disqualifier. Im surprised that none of the above posts have mentioned nothing about false disqualifying yourself.
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