What are the circumstances? Are you being introduced to her in a “Hope you two hit it off” sort of way, OR is she just a friend of a friend who was introduced to you?
In addition to that where are you being introduced? Is it just in a corridor or is it a night out bowling? These things matter, but here is my advice… if its worth anything?
A friend’s friend can be tricky to game, as in some respect you are attached to the outcome. You don’t want to seem to be acting strange in front of your pal, and you don’t want this girl to play up and tell your buddy you’re a dick. In addition to that, your buddy can become a weight, interrupting you and making things difficult.
As a result I’d just ensure you build some attraction, comfort and vibe just enough to ensure a second date, away from your buddy.
As you’re being introduced you have the ‘Hot Approach’, you don’t have to act like you don’t want to get to know her and you don’t care. If you get the impression she loves herself then move into cold approach.
Ensure you have three good stories that DHV, if possible make two of them about local places. The reason being you’ll offer to take her to these places, that can be the second date. If you don’t have any, think of somewhere fun you’d like to go and describe it in a positive way. If she says that she likes to sound of it, role play about going together and what will happen.
As so you don’t mess anything up, ensure you’re aware of what is likely going on in her mind, ensure you have read up on IOD and IOIs before you push too much onto her. If everything seems on, ask for the number... again can be tricking if your buddy is there.
You pal inst into this girl is he?
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