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| Author: | Rapture [ Thu Nov 01, 2007 11:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I hate mind games... |
Ok, so I'm currently working this HB8. Problem is, she is sending really mixed messages. By this I mean, one minute she shows lots of interest and gives off tons of IOIs and the next there is like nothing. For example, 2 days ago we talked a little but it was just small talk nothingness. But last night, she was all over me with kino and IOIs. It's not like I really hang around her or anything. She comes up to my locker everyday and we chat a little. I have ran game on her and she was pretty receptive to it. I am pretty close to just forgetting her or is this some kind of giant shit test? |
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| Author: | Gammbit [ Thu Nov 01, 2007 11:56 pm ] |
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its a shit test shes push pulling u... u are beening played so do wot a pua would do and play her ... say are u coming to the mall and if she says yes then say 'tough' lol |
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| Author: | Lashram01 [ Fri Nov 02, 2007 12:23 am ] |
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I have a theory that the vast majority of women are bi-polar by nature. We just have to learn how to deal with it, I would try compliance tests on her. |
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| Author: | Rapture [ Fri Nov 02, 2007 12:38 am ] |
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compliance test? please elaborate. |
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| Author: | Starbuck [ Fri Nov 02, 2007 12:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I hate mind games... |
Quote: Ok, so I'm currently working this HB8. Problem is, she is sending really mixed messages. By this I mean, one minute she shows lots of interest and gives off tons of IOIs and the next there is like nothing. For example, 2 days ago we talked a little but it was just small talk nothingness. But last night, she was all over me with kino and IOIs. It's not like I really hang around her or anything. She comes up to my locker everyday and we chat a little. I have ran game on her and she was pretty receptive to it. I am pretty close to just forgetting her or is this some kind of giant shit test?
Playing games is part of the dance bro..Girls have to be careful.. They could either get laid or die, every time they meet a new guy. Shyt happens, and there are alot of assholes out there that don't think twice about taking a giant shyt on whoevers convenient. You can't blame them for being cautious. Ever heard of Ted Bundy? Jeffery Dahmer? How does she know you're a decent fellow until you prove it. May not seem fair but it's prudent from a girls perspective. And if I met a girl that wasn't somewhat careful and cautious about who she chooses to get involved with, especially sexually, I'd run like hell. I just don't need any particular pussy that bad. Girls can also be quite moody. She might have had a bad experience with a guy she tried to blow off once as well. You know where he wouldn't leave her alone when she made it obvious there was nothing going to happen for whatever reason. Now if you don't have the patience, maybe you should find a fat girl and get married or something. Because the better looking a chick is, generally the more the difficulty increases. Because she's got plenty of options. |
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| Author: | Archangel White Rose [ Fri Nov 02, 2007 1:21 am ] |
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Gambit and Lashram are both onto something. Women do have a tendency to shift through emotions faster then men. One minute she could be broken up over her best friend dead rabbit, the next she's eager to go out shopping for new shoes. Te solution is a quote I don't remember who said: "magical moments don't just happen, you have to make them happen" As the man it is your job to bring her into an emotional state when she is not giving off IOI. How to do this? same way you game every other girl. Routines, cocky/funny and NEGS. "Smile, this isn't a funeral". If you can bring her into a fun state of mind whenever you're around she will become more attracted to you than ever before. She might even turn AFC and start clinging to you. Good luck! |
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| Author: | Chikito [ Fri Nov 02, 2007 3:14 am ] |
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Dude shes just playing push pull with you, now you know what its like when your push pulling a girl. It works doesnt it? Why are you freaking out, we push pull because we like them. Girls are alowed to game too you know! Just enjoy the ride, look at it as a really really big IOI since shes push pulling you it must mean she likes you alot. Plus shes a highschool girl. Dont worry about it, enjoy it! Its just flirting. |
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| Author: | Mr. Prez [ Fri Nov 02, 2007 4:32 am ] |
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She's a natural. Sometime people pick up things like this in highschool without actually reading anything. Neg her when she's being emotionally limp and make her work for it when she's showing IOI's. "I'm not that easy you know?" prefect line |
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| Author: | Lashram01 [ Fri Nov 02, 2007 10:49 pm ] |
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[quote="Shakedown"]compliance test? please elaborate.[/quote] tell her to hold your drink, hat whatever while you go do something. If she refuses, punish her by quietly ignoring her. dont make obvious that yer purposly ignoring her. If she does as you ask, reward her - "good girl (peck on cheek)" what this does is instil compliance, teaches her that things are good when she simply follows yer lead. |
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| Author: | CaLib0i [ Sat Nov 03, 2007 2:00 am ] |
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when there's nothing say, "I'm not honest, but our convo is really interesting." or "I'm not honest, but you're the reason this convo is so exciting" turn your back talk to someone else and make it seem that this new convo with a new person is really interesting. |
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| Author: | Chelsea [ Sat Nov 03, 2007 3:45 am ] |
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This is a fun one... My advice is from personal experience... She may be pulling a push pull rountine because shes not 100% if she likes you or not, and shes trying to convince or remind herself shes interested. For example: When I was in high school and I had a huge crush on the most popular guy in high school, and he liked me as well. He had full control because I let him in a sense becuase I decided that I like him a LOT and if he talks to me, I will go along with it, and kinda let him control the conversation because I had those natural butterflies. BUT when there was a guy I was so so interested in, I would play those games because I wanted to see how much I could get away with, and ultimatley TEST him and test him to get a reaction from him because THAT guy was on the back burner. I think you need to start pulling stonger routines, and make it official knowing EXACTLY where you stand, see you are leaving it up to her to where you stand. So take CONTROL and let her know who the alpha is. I would follow some MM routines on this one. I dont need to get specific because you can find them easily. You need to ignore her selectively meaning, if you know you guys get out of class @ 10:30 and you guys walk down the same hall at a certain time, make yourself busy, start talking to friends, PIVOTS such as Girlfriends, so she knows you BOTH know what time you BOTH walk down a hall way Get into a conversation and dont look at her walking by, be busy and uninterested. Let her know when she can talk to you, and by doing this she is chasing you because you are deciding when she's allowed to talk to you. Flirt with your other girlfriends in front of her but DONT be a show off about this be very casual as if this is who you are. Now dont get it twsited, Im not saying become some controlling asshole, but you have to establish with woman who boss is because if you leave it up to us you are now a AFC again, and we will drag you through hell..lol.. Are you good at anything, A Sport? I think most guys in high school should try to find something they have a 100% control over, this really demonstrates HV! Be GREAT at something where you can show your STRENGTH. |
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| Author: | snake [ Sat Nov 03, 2007 9:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | try being direct |
she is not sending you mixed messages! she gives you IOIs and kino - she is attracted to you - next is your job - you are the dominant male! be direct, throw your cards on the table CAVEMAN THAT! hallway makeout |
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