Once again you can find the beginning of this adventure here:
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Here's how my day 2 went:
I show up at her house so she can make dinner for me. I greeted her at the front door with a big hug, saying "Kiss hello!" as I point to my cheek. She planted one there without missing a beat(I felt greeting her with a real kiss was giving her too much right away. I want her to jump through my hoops). We watched an episode of the Office before we started dinner. Couldn't pass it up, I love this show and so does she.
When the show is over we head to the kitchen and I help her prepare everything and get it cooking. Unfortunately, her brother and sister were both there. I was correct assuming they were highschool age. We all ate dinner together, which was enjoyable because her siblings are actually a lot of fun to be around and were quite easy to win over. This also became my downfall.... read on.
So I disarm and win over the brother and sister, who happen to be really cool anyhow. Problem is I won over the sister too well and she just wanted to hang around me and HB8 all night
. After a few more episodes of The Office, running the ESP test on her(which is damn near my own routine, I twist it around and build it up so much), more routines, negging and DHV'ing all over the place. There was all kinds of flirting, hand holding and tickling to be had by me and HB8.
After awhile I grew tired of her sister hanging around, so I took my target to Starbuck's. We had some tea, and had a few intentionally deep conversations in which I got her imagination flowing. It was nice to be able to talk without interruption. We leave and head back to her place, and I tease her with a fake move in to kiss her. Works like a charm every time. When we walk through the door her sister hangs out for a little bit while HB8 shows me some funny vids she found on YouTube( I fake-kiss tease her a few more times). When her sister left the room is when I made my move for real and she just melted when I really did kiss her. From that point on we snuck in a few kisses while her sister wasn't paying attention. HB8 decided it was time for her sister to go to bed, which she did.
It was white hot between me and HB8 from that point on
... I'll spare you the details, but she was a lot of fun.
I'm having a bit of a dilemma now though. I'm afraid I seriously screwed up tonight... meaning she'll probably end up wanting a relationship. I can't lie, it's the first time in a long time I've actually liked a girl this much. She's funny, she push-pulls me as well as I do it to her, She is really smart(double majoring), has a rockin' body, and of course she can cook! I honestly do like her, which is something I haven't been able to say about any girl in the last year. For once in my life I really, really don't have time for a committed relationship. I just can't deal with it right now, but I don't want to crush her and I don't want to stop seeing her. Nor do I want to stop sarging because I've made SO much progress. Does anyone have some advice for me here? It's a tough one. Thanks guys.
~Muse
P.S. If you're wondering what happened to my tried-and-true mini-golf idea to get away... It fucking rained this afternoon/night so that was a no go.